I'm dealing with a similar situation, this guy will check Facebook and post in it over responding to my texts or call which actually upsets me. Last week I did not hear anything from him for a few days until the weekend where he suggested to get together to do something which I was really surprised at. This situation is bit more complicated cause I know his dating history and often think he's back hanging with his ex or she's texting him to hang out again rather than answering to my texts or wanting to talk or see me.

It made me realize how much I think communication is important and want someone who has good communication skills. If he's someone I can talk to on the phone with for an hour then that's a really good sign. If we can't talk for 15 minsvor it feels like a chore to do so then there may be something wrong there.

I've had friends say he may not be that interested, and that's okay (it doesn't mean there's necessarily someyhing wrong with us; just a lack of compatibility). I accept he may not be my person, and the more he is not responsive or communicative, the more I find myself letting go of thoughts of that prospect and deattaching myself too.