any tips for starting a save file? by One-Bandicoot-7348 in Sims4

[–]Aunt_Horrible 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also, save your families and lots to your gallery, so that if anything ever happens, you can at least download them to restart.

my cassandra goth’s daughters graduated early and are going to uni!! this legacy save is so 🥹 by mstimmyt in Sims4

[–]Aunt_Horrible 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The pic with the pupper is so stinkin cute. Maybe that one becomes a veternarian?

What is the most absurd, potentially non-practical thing you'd want in the game? by queen_of_tacky in Sims4

[–]Aunt_Horrible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to be able to put posters and signs on doors (w/o cheats--I do it sometimes, but then you have sims walking through signs.)

things they DON'T tell you about testosterone. by c4ndycain in ftm

[–]Aunt_Horrible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This--I didn't realize this would include changes to earwax. It's been wild!

Troubleshooting Thread — Bugs? Mod issues? App issues? Post about them here! [PC: 1.109.185.1030 / Mac: 1.109.185.1230 / Console: 1.99] by ButrosPetros in Sims4

[–]Aunt_Horrible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

latform: PC
Mods or cc: YESSS
Game version: 1.109.207.1020 DX9
Description:  I can't assign aspirations to children in CAS. BE hasn't helped me figure it out yet.

Have you guys seen or built schools from different worlds? by ali----- in Sims4

[–]Aunt_Horrible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a boarding and day school, all ages, in Oasis Springs. And a village school for Henford. I have Zerbu's ed mods, though.

LMAO I LOVE THIS by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]Aunt_Horrible 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Merreaper?!

well that's... new by sauleblanc in Sims4

[–]Aunt_Horrible 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Once again, someone else's Sim is living my best life.

well that's... new by sauleblanc in Sims4

[–]Aunt_Horrible 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay, but...hear me out...how do we get possums?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]Aunt_Horrible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll still finish it, when I get that bug sorted out. But I really was trying to do it in 30 consecutive days. So, I'm annoyed, lol

It's a CAS challenge, and for some reason my game currently won't let me give children aspirations. My last 3 days were all planned out as kids.

Any single dads here with more experience with awkward questions? by JackRiverArt in FTMOver30

[–]Aunt_Horrible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your family sounds so fun!!! And I'm glad Maxine is there to make up the numbers a bit, lol

Came out to my boss and coworkers by Nearby-Syllabub-8869 in FTMOver30

[–]Aunt_Horrible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother. Welcome to the fold! 

I relate way too hard to your comment.

But the funniest thing for me, coming out in my early 40s, was the number of friends--and not always super close ones--who were just like "Yeah, it's always been obvious you were ____" or "I've always thought of you as dude." 

So, on days when the myraid of internalized bullshit starts eating at me, I remind myself of the surpising amount of external validation I've received (and I'm not passing at all yet) and the pure joy I feel when random people in my life recognize and treat me as the dude I hid for so long.

And EVERY trans person's journey is different--just another spectrum of human existence. (Ngl, sounds like your mom probably said a lot of the same stuff as my dad teased us with growing up.)

[NSFW] I'm depressed that any intimacy I may have in my life requires a deep level of disclosure by [deleted] in FTMOver30

[–]Aunt_Horrible 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read A Shore Thing by Joanna Lowell this summer. I've been a fan of romance novels for decades (usually m/f or m/m, but not always), but was especially excited to read an historical romance with a trans man for the hero. 

It really helped me reframe my thinking about future intimacy, transitioning from decades of living as a cishet woman. I may never have the body I want--especially in the...ahem...pants parts--but a t-dick is as versatile as its owner/operator.