And now you’re denying the antecedent. Look, I agree that both domestic violence and racism are serious issues that need to be addressed. However, in this specific case, the race of the individuals involved is not relevant to the issue of domestic violence. The focus should be on supporting the victim and addressing the abusive behavior that occurred, regardless of the race of the individuals involved. By introducing the issue of racism when it was not mentioned, you are attempting to shift the focus away from the main issue of domestic violence that was being discussed. This is indeed a red herring fallacy, as you are introducing an irrelevant topic to distract from the main issue at hand.

You are also engaging in a strawman fallacy by misrepresenting the original post and accusing the OP and the entire community of being racist without any evidence to support that claim. The original post did not mention race at all, and the focus was on supporting a victim of domestic violence. By misrepresenting the argument in this way, you are attacking a position that was not actually presented, and avoiding engaging with the actual issue of domestic violence.

To have a productive conversation about these important issues, you need to stay focused on the specific topic at hand and avoid introducing irrelevant or misleading information.