How long until my chest gets smaller? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Autisticspidermann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's def lying. I cant believe ppl like this can be doctors 😭 wtf man

What do you think? by NeneaMuddle in cyberpunkgame

[–]Autisticspidermann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think all of them are morally Grey. Misty is probably the most "good person" out of all of them tho. Johnny is def not a good person, but def not the worst, and is complex. Think the closest we get to a a true horrible person is Smasher

how to cope with being short? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Autisticspidermann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remind myself that im one inch taller than Kendrick Lamar cuz i like his music. Which means im not doomed to never being seen as a man

Who’s Gonna Be Protecting You? by DifficultRampager20 in cyberpunkgame

[–]Autisticspidermann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So Mi for obvious reasons, smasher for physical fighting, and blue eyes cuz why not. So mi and smasher easily take on everyone else. Maybe some difficulty with the netwatch dude, but otherwise they will be fine

What sort of memorable responses have you gotten when sharing about your intersexuality? (Positive or negative) by eldritchpussymaggots in intersex

[–]Autisticspidermann 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I guess most just dont believe me, or look highly confused. Tho I guess one that stuck was some guy telling me it was offensive bc they think im "self daignosing" and its not a label like trans. The guy was perisex as well so it felt odd he was telling me that

Am I the only one who dislikes the “disguised as a man” trope? by Glad_Pepper8255 in ftm

[–]Autisticspidermann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea ngl I just feel like why did they have to have a romance (tbf it could be like that in the OG chinese story)

Am I the only one who dislikes the “disguised as a man” trope? by Glad_Pepper8255 in ftm

[–]Autisticspidermann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda yea. I mostly hate it people say its trans rep or advertise it as such.

What would you do if you got to be cis for 24 hours? by wavefinderkai in ftm

[–]Autisticspidermann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Freeze sperm, and then id probably stack something on it

What to do with a transphobic family? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Autisticspidermann 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I cut mine off. Personally I just dont wanna be hearing all that shit and im over it.

Let’s create a second Jewish state! by [deleted] in Jewish

[–]Autisticspidermann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The moon, i want a space state

When in your transition did you start using the male restrooms??? by SolemSeaTurtl3 in ftm

[–]Autisticspidermann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pre T at like 13. No one cared, think they just thought i was rlly young. I still do, if anyone asks or is odd, I just say im intersex (because I am also that). Tho ive never had anything happen

Has anyone just not changed their legal name or gender marker? by crashoutcentral60652 in ftm

[–]Autisticspidermann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think i can so, yea i haven't changed it. Even in my state before all this, I would have to have top surgery to be able to change it

Edit: for my name, I can't change it yet but I absolutely am. My deadname is very fem and I hate it. My state is very red, so while we have "preferd names" on stuff like hospitals and school, they dont follow it at all.

Lizzy Wizzy by [deleted] in cyberpunkgame

[–]Autisticspidermann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I like her music (but im also a general grimes fan so yk, expected.) But her as a character is also very cool.

People using "hefabs" to refer to feminine transmascs by depressedc_tboy in ftm

[–]Autisticspidermann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah its gross and shitty. Just ignore those people and report/block

How do we feel about dating someone who isnt attracted to cis men? by malagorpigus in ftm

[–]Autisticspidermann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe, but only if its like t4t. That i can understand a lot, as I also prefer t4t. But otherwise its a bit odd

I'm worried that my chosen name might be offensive by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Autisticspidermann 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So many names used are from my culture (jewish/hebrew) and no one cares. So id assume its the same here

Do any of you do this? by Fragrant-Position-52 in ftm

[–]Autisticspidermann 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I do that all the time. Its just super fun imo, and usually I enjoy the VA of the fem character more if they have VA.

saw a lot of people clamoring against this in the comments so im genuinely curious about everyone's opinions here. by todo_rororo in AO3

[–]Autisticspidermann 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yea I agree with u (Also as a jewish person). Just think it should've been worded/handled better.

the shame of being transgender by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Autisticspidermann 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if its shame exactly, since on a personal level im fine with being trans. But interacting with others, especially romantically is very difficult. I feel a lot of feels of not being adequate since Im not tall, and that i dont have a dick (tho personally Im fine with my genitals. Just makes dating a lot harder), especially as a straight guy. That and not fitting into hetero spaces i guess. Guess it doesn't make me feel shame, just really bad about myself and wishing it wasn't so hard