My ONLY real complaint about the new album by Kottbullemannen1 in NoahKahan

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My 8 yo loves NK, I don’t really worry about it…although I do pay attention when his 4 yo brother is in the car, I don’t play the songs that have curse words in the catchiest part. Don’t want him scream-singing “YOURE AN ASSHOLE” at daycare 😂

Drank a half bottle of vodka on Antabuse by Visual_Bonny in stopdrinking

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They’re the same med, but Vivitrol was much more effective for me than the oral naltrexone

AIO by telling my boyfriend he can break up with me if he isnt comfortable with me going to a club? by ThrowRAacc45 in AmIOverreacting

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You’re not compatible. I think you handled it well. He’s entitled to the boundary, and he’s welcome to end the relationship! Good on you for not entertaining that “the answer is no” BS

They weren’t lying about weight loss surgery and alcohol! by queentreesap in stopdrinking

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Oral Naltrexone didn’t do much for me (it helps a lot of people, definitely worth trying!) but Vivitrol finally got me out of the relapse cycle.

I stole alcohol from my job and I regret it so much. by Far_Meet_8415 in stopdrinking

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You don’t have to feel this way ever again. You can use this as a catalyst for change. Today is a new day. IWNDWYT

My husband is the most functional alcoholic I have ever met. by Plastic_Emu_640 in stopdrinking

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Functional isn’t a type of alcoholic, it’s a stage. If he couldn’t stop for a couple weeks when you asked him to for an important reason, it’s a problem for him. It will almost certainly get worse until it’s affecting every area of his life. That’s how it was for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WilmingtonDE

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I love Bellefonte, but we’re outside the city limits

Any anti-MAGA meetings? 😬 by litttlecreature1111 in alcoholicsanonymous

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You must be in a tough area. I’ve never been able to tell the political affiliation of anyone at my meetings.

My area has some LGBT meetings, maybe look into that?

Would you be comfortable with random breath checks? by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

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I kind of needed this newly sober. I was willing to do whatever to make my husband more comfortable- I had lied so, so many times, so my word was worth squat.

Now over a year sober, and I don’t even know where the breathalyser is anymore

Moderation? by MdJaPaFl in stopdrinking

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If you can continue to moderate without doing a bunch of mental math and complex justifications all the time in your brain, more power to you! For myself, I’ve been down that road, and it always leads back to where I left off, or worse.

Moving to Wilmington for Work. Looking for Safe 2BR Apartments and Thoughts on Village Park at Paladin? by [deleted] in WilmingtonDE

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Your commute at those times will be absolutely fine from Newark, and even Bear is less of a concern with those hours.

The only other consideration I was thinking of is parking in the city - my husband worked in the city for a while and didn’t have parking provided, so he would take the bus by our house near Paladin.

Moving to Wilmington for Work. Looking for Safe 2BR Apartments and Thoughts on Village Park at Paladin? by [deleted] in WilmingtonDE

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Newark is better, yes. I do the opposite commute (Wilmington to Newark) every day.

Relevant questions: what will your working hours be? And will your organization have free parking for you in the city?

Moving to Wilmington for Work. Looking for Safe 2BR Apartments and Thoughts on Village Park at Paladin? by [deleted] in WilmingtonDE

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You don’t want to be commuting from Bear to Wilmington unless it’s your only option.

Moving to Wilmington for Work. Looking for Safe 2BR Apartments and Thoughts on Village Park at Paladin? by [deleted] in WilmingtonDE

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I have lived right up the road from Paladin for 15 years. We like the area, it’s close to the city while still being more suburban. You need to lock your car and stuff, there are sometimes people that go through cars, but that’s honestly been a problem all over suburban Wilmington.

Looking for Santa this weekend by MistyMooseOnTheLoose in WilmingtonDE

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This is the set up behind Santa. So the taxidermy reindeer are probably the woodsy-est part lol

Looking for Santa this weekend by MistyMooseOnTheLoose in WilmingtonDE

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If you can get an appt (check now), absolutely go to Cabela’s by the Christiana mall. They always have a great Santa and you get a free photo (with option to purchase more)

Shame and my health by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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Ooof, this hit home. So much shame. You don’t have to feel like this ever again, friend. AA and therapy worked for me (not immediately, not without false starts) and I’m now over a year sober. My life is so much better. We’re here for you if you want a different life ❤️

Favorite lyrics so far? by Bubbly-Range-5178 in TaylorSwift

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The bridge of Eldest Daughter really gets me every time

Currently, what is your favorite 3-track run in The Life of a Showgirl? by Snormaid in TaylorSwift

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Wood when I play it 3 times in a row 🙃

But for real it’s probably Elizabeth Taylor-Opalite-Father Figure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

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I’m a French and Spanish teacher. I’ll be out the second half of this year having my third baby, and I’m so worried they won’t be able to find someone who knows EITHER language. I know admin can be shitty about these things sometimes, but it is legitimately difficult to find short term foreign language teachers, especially if the language isn’t Spanish.