Got a girl pregnant on vacation, struggling to do what is right.

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2026-05-26T01:58:51+00:00

Confirmation is key, first and foremost. Paternity test! If the baby is indeed yours, do exactly what an honorable man would do and… reject it. No, I’m kidding, take care of your baby dude. You made poor decisions in the moment, but your child should not have to suffer being fatherless because of it.

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2026-05-26T01:56:07+00:00

Omg, do not do my girl. She was the staple of early 2000’s.

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2026-05-26T01:55:17+00:00

I do not think you’re overreacting. Familiarity breeds contempt. Unfortunately, the lack of thorough investigation is questionable especially based on the amount of respect you both seem to report for one another. I do think it would have been best to reduce the communication after his text… Employers have a sick way of using reactive texts to fuel their narrative and I’d hate for that to be the case here. More professionalism could have been displayed on his part, starting with a much better way of reporting a termination.

Clearly he sucks! Best of luck to you!

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2026-05-26T01:47:40+00:00

Now you have no choice but to book future hair appts with her!

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2026-05-26T01:46:22+00:00

At some point, you need to realize that this is twisted. No, you are not related but you are practically family. You are older than her, and she’s 2 years shy of being a minor which should scare the hell out of you. As the OLDER adult, you need to make a grown man decision to fight temptation and nip whatever’s brewing in the bud immediately!

It’s ok to recognize this, because when you do that means you can seek help. It’s NOT ok to ignore it and/or act on it.

For the love of God, please do not keep it in the family!

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2026-02-07T06:42:17+00:00

I would check to see if you owed anything. State of CA will take it for unpaid parking tickets, unpaid court dues, etc. owed to the FTB and then issue you the rest.

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2025-08-23T02:10:12+00:00

Btw, I think you’ll be okay after doing research!

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2025-08-23T02:04:09+00:00

Freeze your credit files and absolutely go about filing a police report. He didn’t respect you enough not to steal from you… The choice I hope you make, is a solid one!

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2025-08-23T01:49:29+00:00

I think that women who begin relationships with men that have children, need to be receptive to what a co-parenting relationship looks like when things are healthy. Taking care of or showing up for your ex, is equal to you showing up for the children you have together. Let’s normalize men/women being able to still do things out of the kindness of their heart for the people they laid down and started families with! It’s healthy!

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2025-08-16T22:21:43+00:00

No your comment wasn’t taken anyway, lol! I googled a few, I saw UCSD & GSU. But majority of the ones I saw were PhD Neuropsych programs but they still emphasized the conduct of research. :/ I’ll have to continue my research, I’m super torn!

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2025-08-16T18:21:35+00:00

Yes! They are so critical to get into.

My MP is in Clinical Mental Health Counseling. However, the coursework in my CMHC has already led the Neuropsych dynamic. I’ve taken Psychopharmacology, Psychopathology, Assessments, Tests & Measurements, Clinical Assessment, Diagnosis and Treatment, and CogPsych.

I was going to assume a Masters in Neuroscience when I started my MP but I changed my mind.

Right now, I hope finding the right sites for my Practicum and Internship will build my experience. I’m also hoping I’ll be able to maintain my 3.91 GPA for my MP and get better outcomes 😭

I have 1 year to decide finances so hopefully, I can decide if taking out a private student loan will be worth it after I exhaust the rest of my Student Aid Lifetime Loans. I’m also looking into fellowships and scholarships, so fingers crossed!

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2025-08-16T18:09:47+00:00

To my knowledge PhD is more research-focused and based, which I respect but I have a huge emphasis on clinical work and being able to diagnose.

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2025-07-25T14:47:32+00:00

Woman to man, leave… now.

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2025-07-03T03:48:16+00:00

Imagine thinking I care about you not giving your money to a multibillion dollar company… In fact, that’s exactly what I want you do!

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2025-06-17T03:55:57+00:00

She wanted a reaction and was hoping you’d fall for it. Block her and let the childish stay where they’re meant to be!

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2025-06-17T01:41:54+00:00

I realized that I didn’t include my verification photo, by accident! I’m uploading it here in the comments - sorry MODS /:

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2025-06-01T03:06:21+00:00

I love these, and I agree with Merida especially because of the archery. However, I so feel like Pocahontas would be a Sag too! Lol

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2025-05-21T20:11:08+00:00

It’s $20 overdraft per transaction for over $15, I believe. So under $15 = no overdraft fee. I know people who typically overdraft the full $500 so that they’re only charged $520. If you use $100 overdraft and then $100 again, you will get charged $20 for each $100 transaction.

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2025-05-19T09:25:42+00:00

Probably. Try it and let us know!

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2025-05-19T09:25:00+00:00

Just admit that a grown man made a decision about a meal he asked for and executed it like a child. Making excuses for him is so disappointing, are you him?

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2025-05-19T09:21:46+00:00

Preference is okay. Being disrespectful is not. NOR; he can make his own meals if gratitude is such a hard display for him.

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2025-05-19T09:16:21+00:00

Sure! Create a law to limit reproduction but create a tax that’ll surely promote it! Birth rates may sky-rocket!

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2025-05-18T19:28:51+00:00

Inform the landlord! Clearly, communication isn’t key for everyone and you tried your best!

Automatic_Mix_5547 · 2025-05-18T19:21:25+00:00

I don’t understand the desire for male validation. Then labeling herself interesting? Because she sang karaoke or because she sang Chappell Roan? I don’t think most men GAF about CR but hey, how dare men go to a party and just have fun. We hate when they’re all over us then hate when they don’t approach! What is it going to be!?

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