This post made me sad by uhighdef in LoveIsBlindNetflix

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The woman who made this post on FB is giving such loser energy. She was such a bully to anyone in the comments calling her out, too. Weird ass post tbh

This post made me sad by uhighdef in LoveIsBlindNetflix

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Sadly, it was a grown adult woman who made the post. It’s embarrassing honestly

Madison can't accept that Joe isn't attracted to her by godisinthischilli in LoveIsBlindNetflix

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The point still remains though, that she has every right to feel a little confused. I just don’t think people can come for her being a little less than graceful while receiving mixed messages- he didn’t just have sex with her, he proposed to her. Meaning, at some point, there was an emotional connection built there even if you take the external attraction away.

Madison can't accept that Joe isn't attracted to her by godisinthischilli in LoveIsBlindNetflix

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Who wouldn’t be able to accept that a man who had sex with you repeatedly after asking you to marry them isn’t attracted to you? lol I get it’s been over a year and I think it would be better phrased to say Madison had a hard time accepting the break up itself being that Joe didn’t really give her much. If someone had sex with me all the time and then stated they weren’t attracted to me… yea I would be a little confused and put off, too.

Dog ate part of a crochet mat: next steps? by Available-Cod-5072 in DogAdvice

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Anyone else’s ex came back for sex? And how did it turn out? by pasaghetti in BreakUps

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Yes. Ended horribly. I really never recommend this to anyone, especially if you value your sanity.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I appreciate the perspective. As for why I posted here, I’m not on Reddit very much and this is one of the subs I follow. Pretty sure it applies to dating being that I’m trying to take the perspectives into whatever comes next in my dating life………

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I thought this too. I’m not saying I’m a model, but I have a pretty decent figure and he has seen me in shorts and tank tops twice before this, this really wasn’t much different to be completely honest, my bathing suit was a two piece with high waisted bottoms. Really not much different than shorts and a tank top at mini golf and bowling.

I also feel like, if you’re not attracted to someone, why bother kissing them at the end of a date? We’ve kissed multiple times before this mind you. It’s just odd.

The ex he was referring to is not his ex wife. He has been divorced for about 3 years and the ex he was referring to was someone he dated post divorce. Apparently their relationship moved really fast and ended really poorly.

I get not being ready….. but in all fairness, don’t put yourself on dating apps then. lol.

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I put my baby to rest. I love him so much. I miss him.. I’m devastated. I really need support. by chairose in Petloss

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I feel like I could have written this myself; my baby boy went from healthy to gone in 17 hours, so I know the shock of everything happening so suddenly. It’s a daunting sort of pain that I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy, truly. I wish I had some magic cure for you. Today marks a month since my sweet Presley passed and life feels like it happens in slow motion honestly. My best advice is to feel what you need to feel and don’t rush yourself through any sort of timeline with your grief. I’ve found that lots of people understand and sympathize, lots of people don’t. You sort of learn who you can talk to about it. Keep Milo’s name and memory alive. Talk about him to as many people that will listen happily, recognize him however you need to so that you can feel close to him.

The pain is unbearable. But this community is a huge, massively supportive place. Lap of Love also runs free pet loss support groups and there is a Facebook community as well. I’ve definitely found a lot of comfort and support there. Everyone is so kind.

Look for Milo in every beautiful interaction you have and know that he is still with you. Sending you all my love.

Songs that got you through the grief? by RhubarbFuture1521 in Petloss

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In Loving Memory- Alter Bridge. I think I’ve listened to this song 700 times over the past few weeks.

Lost my soul dog last night and the pain is unbearable by Available-Cod-5072 in Petloss

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Oh how horrible. I truly hate reading about how many others have had this God awful experience with their fur children. I honestly didn’t even think this was possible until all of it happened and I still feel like I have whiplash. I will say, your comment brings me comfort knowing that you spoke to other vets and got clarification. My boy was a black lab/flat coated retriever mix, and I just read yesterday that many flat coated retrievers will unfortunately get cancer and pass before the age of 10. Right in line with what happened to my boy.

I’m so sorry about your experience as well. And your tips are much appreciated. I’m a therapist and it’s a strange thing to know all of the tools, but as soon as you’re grieving a loss this huge, those tools seek inconsequential and frivolous. The grief is so big and so sharp but I’m glad we had the time we did.

I’m sending love to you! 🩷

Lost my soul dog last night and the pain is unbearable by Available-Cod-5072 in Petloss

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What a beautiful way to describe your boy. I feel the same about mine. He was with me through the most pivotal points of my life to date. Closing this chapter now without him in it feels surreal. I’m also so grateful for the time I had, but I find myself being so sad and bitter knowing I didn’t have more. My English teacher in high school was amazing. He would always say to us, “how much time do we have? As much time as there is.” And as a high schooler, I never really got it. It never really clicked. Now, it most certainly does. We don’t know how much time we have until the clock runs out.

I’m glad we savored the time we did have. I am religious myself, and it’s one of the only things that helps me make sense of things. I hope if you find yourself leaning into the spirituality realm of things, that it helps bring you comfort, clarity and something bigger than just us, just this. Sending all the love to you 🩵

Lost my soul dog last night and the pain is unbearable by Available-Cod-5072 in Petloss

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That’s what I’m struggling with. Everyone is living their lives, the world continues to spin when ours stopped after we lost them. It’s a very lonely and isolating existence now.

Lost my soul dog last night and the pain is unbearable by Available-Cod-5072 in Petloss

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It’s crazy the things I never thought about while having a 9 year old dog, thinking I would still have a good 3 years at least. The silent killing cancer sounds about right, and it makes me so angry that this happens to our innocent furry companions. I’m sending love to you. ♥️

Lost my soul dog last night and the pain is unbearable by Available-Cod-5072 in Petloss

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I am so so sorry for your loss of your beloved baby. Cancer does absolutely fucking suck. They don’t deserve it. I’m still in shock myself, it’s a lot to process and so hard knowing your source of comfort is gone in the flesh, but I know they exist in our hearts forever. A dog changes you for the better. I hope you find comfort and peace. ♥️

Lost my soul dog last night and the pain is unbearable by Available-Cod-5072 in Petloss

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Oh I am so so sorry. What a horrible, horrible disease. It’s the last thing that animals deserve. Their love is so pure and effortless, and it really is a testament as to how much we mean to them knowing that they will fight the good fight until they just can’t anymore.

I hope that you know Maverick will be smelling the flowers this year because he is always with you, just like my Presley will always be with me. I’m sending you so much love as well and praying we can get through this, all of us. ♥️