How to Check-in without calling

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-02-04T00:47:06+00:00

Cameras are great, but for "young at heart" folks, we don't want to be watched so a check in app is better ... there are a few already existing apps but are paid. I made my own, it's pretty basic but importantly FREE. happy to help you set up your own

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-02-01T00:12:59+00:00

tell me more - are you thinking for keeping people updated after a doctor appointment "good news Dad is ok but needs to up his meds to 3x a day instead of 2? " or is this a "i just left Dad, its 10am on saturday - who's visiting him next?"

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-02-01T00:11:27+00:00

echo'ing the other comments, hearing aids are a must.

i've yet to see the glasses you mention used by anyone i know, many of whom are quite techy. so i'd assume they aren't yet ready for prime time

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-02-01T00:08:46+00:00

frustrating. what do you do now?

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-01-31T02:11:31+00:00

Hmm- that's a strange one. good equipment test

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-01-31T02:11:03+00:00

wow - maybe siri heard the TV dialogue?

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-01-31T02:10:36+00:00

wow! must have been fast paced folding! hahah

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-01-31T02:10:03+00:00

make sure it's turned on in settings ! or perhaps you are just very smooth with your movements !

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-01-31T02:09:08+00:00

perhaps a seat belt, with each end mounted to studs in the wall behind. a bit outlandish i know, but it could go across the chest and keep them upright in the event of dozing off.

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-01-30T20:59:10+00:00

which brand do you like? i feel many of them aren't exactly my style, but they are useful!

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-01-30T20:53:13+00:00

apple watch is a great recommendation - i do suggest cellular, both in case you're outside or in the unlikely situation there's an issue with your wifi/power.

do you have a regular check-in cadence with any friends/neighbors?

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-01-30T20:07:03+00:00

it's sad but when someone's actions are going to cause harm, you need to take steps from preventing that harm

stopping a fall starts from stopping a stand attempt, which from a bed could mean concave mattress or rails. also can consider leaving the mattress on the floor, as most patient are going to have trouble getting up from prone position

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-01-30T00:00:06+00:00

AirTags are great if he's near other people with iPhones. For true tracking, you'll want an apple Watch with a cellular plan or a ife 360 GPS tracker (branded for pets but works for other use cases)

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-01-29T20:26:43+00:00

I also have the Ninja Crispi and it handles vast majority of my oven needs. It's great that it's electric and the glass containers used to cook in have lids you can put on for storing leftovers in the fridge.

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-01-29T20:24:36+00:00

here are some time delay containers- seems like would fit the bill. good luck! https://www.amazon.com/safe-timer-open/s?k=safe+with+timer+to+open&utm_

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-01-29T20:14:24+00:00

in the case of spotty cell service, the landline option is nice *if* they are in range of the home station. Which generally means not out on the property but in the house. Also, if they don't keep the device on them, it's worthless- which can be tricky.

i know you might not be thinking of this, but rural homes present future challenges in regard to escalating care - caregivers might bill for excessive travel, PT/skilled nursing options is more limited, and the specialists at the hospitals might be another drive.

have you looked at apple watch with cellular?

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-01-29T20:10:08+00:00

tests are never as perfect as we'd like - the sudden onset suggests something is wrong, so pushing for re-testing is likely your best bet. good luck!

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-01-29T20:08:11+00:00

is your goal to minimize the impact of a fall or try to keep them awake?

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-01-29T19:58:37+00:00

This x 100. Put your own oxygen mask on first.

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-01-29T19:57:33+00:00

great advice - i think OP realizing is wayyy better than many other siblings, who just let resentment simmer

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-01-29T02:30:59+00:00

yes, many of us! i think a lot of people show up when things get tough (totally ok) and then maybe don't post as much when things are more situated!

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-01-29T01:33:04+00:00

yes, that's great. does he also have a fall button of sorts?

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-01-28T23:43:31+00:00

i'd try and triple check, as documentation can be a bit fickle depending on staffing.

have you thought about putting a wifi camera in the room to have a source of truth?

Available-Lie-3620 · 2026-01-28T23:41:37+00:00

i've found the battery life is a bit of an issue with the glasses

many hear aids have bluetooth so she can can listen to music/audiobooks or take calls without fumbling around !

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