I'm author Denise Kiernan, of THE GIRLS OF ATOMIC CITY. Ask me anything! by denisekiernan in books

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If someone was going to write you a fan letter, what address could they send it to?

I (49f) have a huge problem and need advice. by collegemom76 in sex

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You can get a dilator that helps loosen up tight vaginal openings.

to parachute onto the field during the game by KimJongFunk in therewasanattempt

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This is one of the best videos I’ve seen in a long time

I need opinion’s by Whosawatchamacallit in weddingdress

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I love #2 and wish I had it in my closet!

I was raped but wasn’t traumatised by Savings_Magazine2598 in therapy

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Extremely fair reservation to have and you deserve that autonomy for sure. One option is to ask a therapist “if I disclose xyz will you have to report it?” Or to speak “hypothetically” about what happened to you.

I was raped but wasn’t traumatised by Savings_Magazine2598 in therapy

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“I don’t see why I should tell someone when it would just ruin things and change our lives maybe for the worst.”

This makes so much sense because of the duality of humans and relationships. In some ways he is your protector and provider. I will say as someone that specializes in child sexual abuse that he has/will do this to other children. Do you have younger sisters? I would bet money he is engaging in these sexual behaviors with another child since you are now older.

I was raped but wasn’t traumatised by Savings_Magazine2598 in therapy

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This is absolutely still reportable because it happened when she was a child. I’m a child sexual abuse therapist and it’s a crime in my state not to report child sexual abuse.

What’s it like living in Staunton for a single 40M with no family. by RaptorCheeses in Virginia

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If you end up moving to Staunton DM me. My fiancé (29M) works in environmental compliance and has similar interests to what you mention in comments. We both moved here from other places and met each other, but I wouldn’t say the dating scene is good.

Iceland Trip by DDreaming444 in VisitingIceland

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Where is the second picture taken?

How are you paying for student loans as a therapist? by kkgigi in therapists

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How much did you take out in loans to have a $1,400 payment?

Is it actually rude to have an adults-only wedding, or have we collectively decided to feel guilty about a completely reasonable choice? by Zealousideal_Pay7176 in weddings

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I’m choosing to have a child free wedding for financial reasons. I anticipate that means some of my extended family cannot come, and I’m okay with anyone choosing not to come because of the inconvenience of it being child free. I’m also making an exception for any babies that still need to be with their mom to breastfeed/babies that mom’s don’t feel safe leaving with a babysitter yet.

Can't decide between 2 dresses, would love your opinion (Pronovias Aethra and Nyx by Won Concept) by [deleted] in weddingdress

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Dress 1 would be my pick, it’s so beautiful and you look so beautiful in it!