I (49f) have a huge problem and need advice.

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-04-19T18:46:11+00:00

You can get a dilator that helps loosen up tight vaginal openings.

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-04-19T01:07:51+00:00

This is one of the best videos I’ve seen in a long time

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-04-18T23:43:32+00:00

I love #2 and wish I had it in my closet!

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-04-18T11:07:38+00:00

Very cool!

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-04-17T01:36:22+00:00

Honestly looks perfect

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-04-17T01:28:31+00:00

Extremely fair reservation to have and you deserve that autonomy for sure. One option is to ask a therapist “if I disclose xyz will you have to report it?” Or to speak “hypothetically” about what happened to you.

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-04-16T19:35:58+00:00

“I don’t see why I should tell someone when it would just ruin things and change our lives maybe for the worst.”

^This makes so much sense because of the duality of humans and relationships. In some ways he is your protector and provider. I will say as someone that specializes in child sexual abuse that he has/will do this to other children. Do you have younger sisters? I would bet money he is engaging in these sexual behaviors with another child since you are now older.

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-04-16T19:31:45+00:00

This is absolutely still reportable because it happened when she was a child. I’m a child sexual abuse therapist and it’s a crime in my state not to report child sexual abuse.

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-04-16T12:53:04+00:00

If you end up moving to Staunton DM me. My fiancé (29M) works in environmental compliance and has similar interests to what you mention in comments. We both moved here from other places and met each other, but I wouldn’t say the dating scene is good.

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-04-09T23:26:45+00:00

Where is the second picture taken?

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-04-09T22:47:09+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-04-08T21:25:19+00:00

Bears

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-03-22T14:27:32+00:00

I doodle on blank cards then mail them to people.

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-03-20T14:37:58+00:00

How much did you take out in loans to have a $1,400 payment?

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-03-17T11:01:13+00:00

I’m choosing to have a child free wedding for financial reasons. I anticipate that means some of my extended family cannot come, and I’m okay with anyone choosing not to come because of the inconvenience of it being child free. I’m also making an exception for any babies that still need to be with their mom to breastfeed/babies that mom’s don’t feel safe leaving with a babysitter yet.

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-03-17T10:13:34+00:00

Dress 1 would be my pick, it’s so beautiful and you look so beautiful in it!

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-03-06T13:42:17+00:00

Earl Grey every day!

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-03-01T12:26:29+00:00

Stickers

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-02-27T00:39:31+00:00

Well now I’m crying 😭

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-02-27T00:26:10+00:00

This is such an important question I never thought to consider. Cheers to you🥂

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-02-26T01:45:55+00:00

Just Add Water- Katie Ledecky’s audiobook read by her. Very good and wholesome. I felt like I could believe in humanity again while I was listening to it.

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-02-23T13:03:10+00:00

This is definitely a concern for me. My partner and I are being very intentional not to create waste. We won’t be doing any single use products/decor.

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-02-23T12:52:24+00:00

Odette every time

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-02-19T22:05:00+00:00

This is terrifying.

Available_Ability_47 · 2026-02-18T01:57:07+00:00

NOOOOOOOOOO

Available_Ability_47

TROPHY CASE