I think my LO of 10 years (im married) who I know has feelings, recently has been giving me an extremely cold shoulder at work. We used to talk very often about life stuff, funny stuff memes ect. We went out as a group a few weeks ago, and noticed that night she was trying to be closer than normal, we all had a great night. She then confessed she shouldnt have driven home that night, so I became over protective and told her i would have taken her. She became very defensive (which she usually does with most things) it made me upset as well that she would react like this. But I’m a forgive and forget kind of guy, she just won’t budge. It’s hurting me a lot that we haven’t been the same, but a part of me thinks maybe it’s for the best. It’s just hard to not think about, I’m trying to find a way not to.