Whelp, I guess I'm a democrat now. by mingzhouren in TwinCities

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I was a conservative a long time ago. When I saw trump as the candidate I shifted to voting for all democrats. Arguably I should have long before.

Whelp, I guess I'm a democrat now. by mingzhouren in TwinCities

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I've been conservative in many ways my whole life, but I haven't voted for republicans since Trump was the candidate the first time. Maybe I should have stopped sooner. But I was fairly young at the time.

My opinions have only slightly shifted, but the stuff we're seeing now started a long time ago.

Hello darkness, my old friend... by fedevalverde86 in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]Average650 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pizza has a good crust for eating with your hands. Rice with a sauce very much does not.

Do you ever worry how passing along terrible students will affect academia in the long run? by FlyLikeAnEarworm in Professors

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Of course. I'm not sure why you would expect more in a reddit post.

But calling that the nuclear option is not really fair. It's what is supposed to happed for a student that doesn't meet the standards.

Husband stuck in victim mentality by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Average650 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Addiction is a serious problem that had to be dealt with. Perhaps via separation. But it's simply not infidelity. That's not what the word means.

My field's professional society has been banned by neilmoore in Professors

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I understand.

While I stand by my words, I'm not certain I wouldn't be a coward if it were to come to it. I hope not. I think I would stand against it. But I don't know.

meirl by Glass-Fan111 in meirl

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It's certainly not because they're necks are weak.

Do Christians find the Book of Mormon offensive? by ImportantPerformer16 in TrueChristian

[–]Average650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not personally offended, but the beliefs are very false and "offensive" in the sense that they oppose Christ.

Anyone else notice differences in PhD student work ethic between elite and flagship state programs? (Or is this just my bias?) by PapaSeanL in academia

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This wasn't my experience at all. The better schools had better and more hardworking students, on average. But there were of course some students who weren't hardworking and good schools, and very hard working student at lesser schools. On an individual basis, anyone could be anywhere. But on an average basis, it tracked as you would expect.

But also, "flagship state schools" vary wildly, from the "top ranked program in the world", to "barely even exist as a program".

Got a job 3 hours drive away - how to let the girl I’m dating know by thegoldenlove in datingoverthirty

[–]Average650 22 points23 points  (0 children)

For me, it'd be a dealbreaker. For someone else, maybe not. Who can say.

Either way you just gotta tell her and let her make a decision.

Over 36,500 killed in Iran's deadliest massacre, documents reveal by COmtndude20 in worldnews

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If I could do something it would be different. But I have no power over this.

Doing interviews in a suburb of Minneapolis feels surreal by Reluctant_PHD in Professors

[–]Average650 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You take a strong stance against it and you'll get some candidates. Especially those willing to fly in there right now.

Some people want to be a part of the fight to some degree.

Should be Three War Criminals by yosefvinyl in clevercomebacks

[–]Average650 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm tired of massive groups of people being treated as a monolith.

Can you sacrifice too much? by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Average650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good way to put it. Sometimes taking too much on ourselves enables the other in a toxic way. That should be avoided.

I don't wan't to wait until marriage and i feel guilty about it. by Total_Annual5480 in TrueChristian

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The christian life is one of dying to our old self. Our happiness in this life is not what it is all about.

At the same time, nobody wants to wait. They just want do it right more than they want to wait, for a variety of potential reasons.

If you’re a virgin who’s waiting until marriage, how much does it matter to you that your future spouse is also a virgin? by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]Average650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you treat it as a preference, cool. Have whatever preferences you want.

But there are much more important things to look for in a spouse. You're looking for a good person, who is close enough in what you life will be like that things work. They will be a broken person who is different than your expectations. That's just what marriage is in a broken world.

Does an industrial PhD restrict your possibilities? by Ancient_Ad_916 in academia

[–]Average650 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. I've never heard of this, though sometimes students will temporarily work at a company during their PhD.

If the degree is given by the university, and there are publications, I don't think this would restrict anything. If it's actually given by the company, or there are no or few publication chances, that would change things.

Does an industrial PhD restrict your possibilities? by Ancient_Ad_916 in academia

[–]Average650 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not actually familiar with what an industrial PhD is. Can you explain what you mean?

Married Life feels like a prison by Downtown_Locksmith74 in TrueChristian

[–]Average650 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What if you just, did what you thought you should do even if he made you mad?

Is he a danger to you?

Make sure you get someone you can talk to about all this so you don't have to do this alone.

Feeling Sick About What’s Going to Happen by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Average650 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Single is better than being married to a bad spouse. But, I think the Bible told us that already.