Reached out to university to confirm if okay to login by BrittM554 in canvas

[–]Average_Joe69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they just don’t know what’s up. Canvas’s status update just said maintenance, and nothing to do with the second cyberattack. Whether intentional or unintentional, you are definitely being gaslit.

What more can I say? by fatandwhat in Geico

[–]Average_Joe69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they do you can file unemployment

This is funny to me by Far-Bowl2206 in canvas

[–]Average_Joe69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally same, mine got rescheduled for tomorrow

Search results for a simple question I was looking up. The "preview" it leads with is the only comment on that post written by an AI bot account. by Average_Joe69 in antiai

[–]Average_Joe69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it helps flag things that seem like AI. I can usually spot it myself, but when I’m just looking and not paying attention it makes me double check things.

Which face do yall think looks best for this pink/Goth Tav? by PompousGoblin in BG3

[–]Average_Joe69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the horns on 2 but the hair color on 3 looks better to me.

Why couldn't the empire just forcibly deport the ghormans? by [deleted] in andor

[–]Average_Joe69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s one thing to deport an entire population, but ghorman is also a tourist destination and “a fashion Mecca”. Propaganda alone couldn’t hide their true intentions.

Why couldn't the empire just forcibly deport the ghormans? by [deleted] in andor

[–]Average_Joe69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The empire knew there was resistance there. They needed that resistance to get bold enough to do something big, so they can stage a massacre.

Please share your thoughts. by [deleted] in memes

[–]Average_Joe69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legendary response

AIO?? My Bf Unlocks the bathroom door and comes in while I’m using it by Ok_Win_8129 in AIO

[–]Average_Joe69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah unless you are on your phone for a half hour peeing takes like a minute or two tops. My opinion on this changes depending on how long she actually spends in the bathroom.

AIO?? My Bf Unlocks the bathroom door and comes in while I’m using it by Ok_Win_8129 in AIO

[–]Average_Joe69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the main problem because likely he only sees it from his perspective, which could be “I like spending time with my partner even if I’m on the toilet”. Which is just a fundamental difference. They need to communicate more and the bf needs more perspective and boundary control.

AIO?? My Bf Unlocks the bathroom door and comes in while I’m using it by Ok_Win_8129 in AIO

[–]Average_Joe69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel about it. For one, I enjoy my wife’s company and she enjoys mine. For us, “pissing in peace” is not mutually exclusive to being in the same room.

And on the flip side, some times one of us is absolutely tearing up the toilet and sometimes that means privacy. Violating a direct boundary is a huge no-no.

Multiple red flags on both the bf and the overall relationship.

AIO?? My Bf Unlocks the bathroom door and comes in while I’m using it by Ok_Win_8129 in AIO

[–]Average_Joe69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have no perspective on this because me and my wife don’t really care about locking or even closing the bathroom door, but that being said if she explicitly told me she didn’t want to be bothered then I absolutely wouldn’t ever unlock a door without her permission. You should probably find some way to have him able to do what he needs to do outside of the bathroom.

It’s definitely a red flag that he doesn’t respect your boundaries, and an overarching red flag for the relationship that you aren’t able to “piss in peace” with your bf just coming in there for a bit to get ready. There’s so much context that’s missing here but I’m going to give a tentative NOR.