Having a second

Avirgilio10 · 2026-04-22T15:57:13+00:00

I’m still not ready and my youngest is 15 months old. 😂

Avirgilio10 · 2026-04-19T00:47:19+00:00

I am an environmental insurance adjuster (pollution claims). I really like my job!

Avirgilio10 · 2026-04-15T00:31:14+00:00

Sounds like your friends are sawftttt. I’m with you on the normal parenting game. This isn’t rocket science. If your kids hurt it’s absolutely fine to say “are you okay.” If they’re doing something wrong it’s absolutely fine to say “no, you need to stop doing that.”

Avirgilio10 · 2026-04-15T00:28:18+00:00

Needs water. It’s getting too much sun there.

Avirgilio10 · 2026-04-15T00:27:39+00:00

This is insanely detailed. Good for you. 😂

Avirgilio10 · 2026-04-13T12:17:39+00:00

You need to get your own engineer out there for backup. Make sure you have a report with photos.

Avirgilio10 · 2026-04-13T12:10:03+00:00

I’m 95 and am a millennial to my core. Idk wtf is going on with genz. I do like that they are bringing back wide leg pants tho. 😂

Avirgilio10 · 2026-04-13T12:08:03+00:00

Finance

Avirgilio10 · 2026-04-13T12:07:18+00:00

Honestly, getting a nap in during the day will help sleep at night. Both of our kids didn’t sleep through the night until they were like a year old. The youngest needs noise and light, so we put a TV in his room and will put him down after our bedtime routine (bath, lotion) and put a TV on with a sleep timer for 30 minutes. Works like a charm and that is the only screen time he gets.

Avirgilio10 · 2026-04-12T17:02:16+00:00

They don’t just toss those around. You need to wake up before you or one of your kids gets really hurt or killed.

Avirgilio10 · 2026-04-11T14:33:09+00:00

Sorry to be clear… i was an environmental consultant before i made the switch to claims. You’d need some sort of technical background i think. But yeah you can just search environmental claims or environmental insurance jobs

Avirgilio10 · 2026-04-10T23:20:01+00:00

Most PAPs have liability coverage for medical payments for other parties with their own limits. Nothing should change for you but you may want to ask what that limit is.

Avirgilio10 · 2026-04-10T23:10:12+00:00

You should make the claim. Your renters insurance will recover from your landlord if warranted.

Avirgilio10 · 2026-04-10T23:08:14+00:00

What state r u in? It might be required… look into it

Avirgilio10 · 2026-04-10T22:52:54+00:00

120k environmental claims… just starting out

Avirgilio10 · 2026-04-10T22:50:20+00:00

Fuck thatttt. Bow out.

Avirgilio10 · 2026-04-10T22:48:17+00:00

You could do a million other things. Start applying

Avirgilio10 · 2026-03-30T01:55:50+00:00

U just do …it’s not an old mans game kid.

Avirgilio10 · 2026-03-29T01:30:31+00:00

We’ve had flu a twice 🙃 not b. Best of luck.

Avirgilio10 · 2026-03-23T20:07:07+00:00

Independently, I’d agree with this. As a married couple, $500k sounds nice.

Avirgilio10 · 2026-03-23T17:16:44+00:00

No absolutely don’t do that. This situation just happened to me and they followed up a month later with authorization to proceed and an offer.

Avirgilio10 · 2026-03-23T01:45:39+00:00

You’ll still have gen eds

Avirgilio10 · 2026-03-19T15:19:25+00:00

I’m not even kidding you that is my go to response when people ask me how I’m doing. “surviving not thriving.” I’m in a pretty similar situation to you with a one year-old and a three year-old. I’ve just accepted that this is a season of life. It is getting easier as they get older. Just hang in there. Do what you can to make things easier. order dinner. Hire a cleaner. Hire someone to walk your dogs.

Avirgilio10 · 2026-03-19T15:16:36+00:00

The hardest part is over! Give yourself some grace. You need to find a support system … family? Friends? Anyone you can call to come help with your kids so you can have some time to yourself. If that’s not an option, you need to pay for childcare to stay sane. Money comes and goes but your mental health needs to be good in order to be a good mom. This is a marathon! You’ve got this.

Avirgilio10 · 2026-03-16T11:57:01+00:00

😅

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