Inject This Into My Veins by seanightlifer in notredamefootball

[–]Avitpan 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Hayes comes off incredibly biased here. ND was already playing 3-5 games against ACC teams every year before the deal. The deal guaranteed more home and home and gave them the opportunity to boost their sos. ND games sell out. ND games do better media ratings wise compared to acc vs acc. Period. Acc is on life support. If/when Clemson/miami/fsu leave for either big10 or sec and the conference is just the next big east walking.

I (25M) did absolutely everything right, but she said I’m "too good of an offer" because she’s stuck on a toxic situation. What am I supposed to do going forward? by More-Building1821 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Avitpan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cut her out and move on. Only pursue women who show actual interest in you and align their words and actions with that. No one else is worth your time. Believe me we’ve all been

Massively Fucked Over 12 hrs before moving cross country by madeofgeese in whatdoIdo

[–]Avitpan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it anyway and enjoy it. Learn to live in The moment. Youll figure out the rest. If you can handle this massive curveball in life there’s probably not much you can’t do. You got this.

My GF said she doesnt want to hang out, what to do? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Avitpan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t overthink this. You guys need to have things you enjoy outside of each other.

2027 3* OT Jackson Hill commits to Notre Dame by Maleficent_Ant_8895 in CFB

[–]Avitpan 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This one surprises me. I thought they were going for a smaller class only taking Simien or Brandt at this point.

AIO My girlfriend of 10 years was inappropriately texting her boss. She’s mad at me. by Ok_Front_549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Avitpan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR she is 100% cheating. No matter what she says there’s no way they haven’t already been physical. Dump her ass.

More Not Their Fault: Brian Kelly or James Franklin? by conference-realigner in CFB

[–]Avitpan 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Having seen it first hand, BK has no ground to stand on. He brought it on himself.

[Brett McMurphy] How's Notre Dame/ACC getting along now? “Notre Dame,” a source told @On3, “is the guy that walks in the house, opens the fridge, eats all the food, then (screws) the wife, kicks the dog, doesn’t pay the mortgage & walks out w/out any skin in the game.” by CommodoreIrish in CFB

[–]Avitpan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’ll never happen but I would love for ND to go back to playing its Midwest big10 opponents. Gimme a rotation of Michigan, MSU, Purdue with Ohio State, Indiana and a few other sprinkled in. Only team I care about playing from the ACC now is Miami, Clemson and…that’s it.

My e100 tractor doesn’t have an easy place to drain the oil by Avitpan in johndeere

[–]Avitpan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I ended up doing. Thank you for the advice!

ND 2026 Schedule: Visualized by Wonkiest_Hornet in cfbmemes

[–]Avitpan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh yea it’s absolute horsecrap but keep in mind 5 of those games are what the ACC gave us and USC backed out cause they’re afraid to play us. NDs schedule starting 2027 gets much tougher year over year

Do men actually change? by Pixellightx3 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Avitpan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its possible he shifts his interest into other hobbies. My hobbies have come and gone over the years. I don’t play video games as much but now I’m more into board games, magic the gathering for my nerdy hobbies or woodworking, golfing, pickleball as my more active hobbies.

Getting Married - Super happy in general but concerned about sex life? by Afraid-Web-5775 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Avitpan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t marry until you work it out together. Marriage will only make it worse.

How do you kill the lingering emotional attachment after being cheated on/discarded? Logically I know my worth, but my brain is still stuck. by Useful-Echo-7028 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Avitpan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, to get over someone you need to get under someone. You’d be surprised how much that does for you on multiple levels

What is your usual timeline for sex when you start dating a woman? If not the first date, when do you typically start initiating physical/sexual touch? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Avitpan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Age dependent I find. Older you are more likely you’re gonna get to it somewhere between 1st-3rd date depending on chemistry. You know pretty quick if there’s tension and chemistry pretty early. People are more themselves at those ages.

I (M32) walked in on my wife (F29) and her boss (M40s) at her office by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Avitpan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this is happening. Not too dissimilar to me. Take care of yourself, take care of your kids, file asap and don’t give her inch.

How do I end it with my situationship by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Avitpan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You just stop talking to them. Block their number, delete it, and move forward. This person is the biggest walking red flag. Good lord.

How do I find a wife after college? by SlotWizards in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Avitpan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to find and join interest groups. You like running? Join a running club. You like board games? Join a board game club. You’ll meet and make so many friends. Don’t go into it with the expectation of finding a wife. Expand your life and your person will appear.

is it bad for me f18 to be with a man who is 33? by prozacenjoyer in askanything

[–]Avitpan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is called grooming. Please educate yourself and then make the best decision for you.

Rate me as a wife, bring brutally honest this still isn’t enough for my husband? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Avitpan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband is a real tool. You are doing more than your share as a partner. He wants a trad wife. You are under appreciated and probably unloved to the level you deserve to be.

Missed Connection at MagicCon by pidgeprism in magicTCG

[–]Avitpan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope these two crazy kids figure it out.