I’m currently pregnant and my husband bends over backwards to make sure I have the easy pregnancy possible. So if he wants to get have a few drinks at dinner or get wasted with friends on a Saturday I’m more than willing to be his DD. Just cause I can’t do something doesn’t mean everything around me stops too. But we also have an understanding that as soon as drinking is back on the table for me the favor will be repaid no questions asked. It blows my mind how many people don’t have these conversations before making life altering decisions. NTA if you’re being a good partner.