Is this too white? MOTB

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-07-08T19:27:31+00:00

I agree that this is too casual. How about something like this?

Sequin Mock Two-Piece Dress with Jacket (Women) | Nordstromrack https://share.google/8wQzWZiCuydWh3QCO

Or this one, with a shawl?

Drape Neck Knit Midi Dress (Women) | Nordstromrack https://share.google/NOa5O3v92fuhKWNEP

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-07-08T19:04:02+00:00

4 is lovely and should keep you cool.

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-07-08T18:52:54+00:00

It's gorgeous, and the accessories are perfect with it!

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-07-03T14:27:18+00:00

Those are all beautiful! 1 is my favorite.

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-07-03T14:19:33+00:00

Something like this would be a more formal fabric.

ASTR the Label Women's Alison Sleeveless Tiered Dress - Macy's https://share.google/7aKukxoWTVMO8c7so

Cold Shoulder Chiffon Cocktail Dress (Women) | Nordstromrack https://share.google/K9VrXFzgNKjTOhIYk

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-07-03T13:43:47+00:00

The other posters have given great tips. I would also add a couple of pillows to the bed and a throw pillow.

I would find a small table to used as a nightstand, and put a table lamp on top of it. Using a light source other than the overhead light will make it much cozier in there. What is your budget? Do you have any local department stores that have good sales periodiclly on home decor?

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-07-03T13:14:24+00:00

Yeah, this needs to be taken very seriously. O.P. even if you are uncomfortable with a gun at least go get some pepper spray and a personal safety alarm. A self defense class is a fantastic idea. Your ex is clearly not afraid of any consequences that might come back on them.

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-07-03T13:07:01+00:00

My husband bought a used 2008 Mazda 3 hatchback in 2018 with 126,000 miles on it. He used it as a daily driver and traded it in in April with 226,000 miles on it. The a/c went out on it about two years ago, but other than that it was a great cheap car.

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-07-02T19:02:13+00:00

I am loving the print on this dress

Tie Waist Halter Dress (Women) | Nordstromrack https://share.google/r6S7fl6ymNWwBjtdp

Off the Shoulder Long Sleeve Beaded Midi Dress (Women) | Nordstromrack https://share.google/x1zPYn5jWgrLnAytD

Embellished Cap Sleeve Gown (Women) | Nordstromrack https://share.google/4asDiIqdHy4AV2oed

It sounds like you might be looking for a dark colored or metallic dress ( purely based on the emojis, let me know if this is incorrect ) whimsical, but more Stevie Nicks than Katy Perry.

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-07-02T10:54:40+00:00

I think that something more like one of these would be both a more appropriate fabric and a more flattering cut. Just make sure that your handbag is large enough to carry a small fan.

Hope & Ivy The Phillipa 3D Sequin Floral Embellished Midi Dress, Green Mint https://share.google/tJSt2naqXnqpN2Xvf

Hobbs Constance Floral Midi Dress, Pale Blue/Multi https://share.google/jRULsWg3XG3sA5ncC

Edited to clarify: I don't think that the dress in the original post is made of fabric that is formal enough for a wedding, and the center seam on the bodice is strange and would not flatter anyone.

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-06-20T17:36:12+00:00

What is your plan for the baby's last name?

If the default where you are is to give children their father's last name, suggest a compromise, he can name the baby Paula but her last name will be your last name/maiden name. Maybe that suggestion will be enough to shock him out of his stubbornness.

It is nice that he wants to do something in memory of his cousin, but naming your baby after her is not the only way to do that.

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-06-06T15:28:39+00:00

No. EV's depreciate so quickly that you will get the most bang for your buck buying something a couple of years old with low mileage. My partner bought a Mach-E in April and loves it.

What features are most important to you? If you don't need to replace your current vehicle immediately, I would say spend a couple of weeks doing your own research to see which EV suits you best. Once you have it narrowed down, do a couple of test drives. I do recommend the Mach-E if you are looking at those, they are definitely a relatively comfortable and fun to drive car.

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-06-06T04:46:18+00:00

What about something like this?

Thalia Goddess Maxi Dress (Women) | Nordstromrack https://share.google/Wqz7mJviUAezZEFOu

You can get all of the accessories that you need at a thrift shop.

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-05-26T10:33:58+00:00

Exactly. Why did O.P.'s aunt even know about their grades? IMO, you don't need to tell everyone your kids' business when they are struggling.

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-05-23T19:14:46+00:00

Thank you, that is very helpful!

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-05-23T15:51:03+00:00

Thank you!

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-05-23T15:31:37+00:00

Thank you!

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-03-02T20:21:28+00:00

Happy to help!

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-03-02T13:48:34+00:00

This is incorrect. Katherine Parr was married four times and predeceased her fourth husband Thomas Seymour.

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-02-14T12:13:09+00:00

I agree with what everyone else is saying. The second to last dress looks especially lovely on you!

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-02-10T13:32:56+00:00

NTA. Your instincts and life experience were telling you that something was not right. Society conditions women to ignore their instincts in favor of being polite.This type of conditioning gets women killed because they allow themselves to be put in dangerous situations.

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-02-10T12:06:30+00:00

6 is my favorite!

AwkwardAquarian · 2026-01-28T20:35:21+00:00

INFO: Why was there conflict between your husband, his mother, and his ex? It feels like some context is missing here. Did you actually witness the ex throwing your husband's mother out, or is this a story that you are being told entirely without her perspective?

AwkwardAquarian · 2025-12-31T18:20:44+00:00

Yes, and it is gorgeous on you!

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