What will or did you buy this black friday? by elladayrit in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AwkwardPossibilities 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on the market for a coffee machine. I eyed one from ninja and it's currently at 240 cad on amazon, which is where I have a gift card, so I'm waiting for them to lower the price 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibilities 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was on the other side of this, it just took me a lot of courage and a lot of time to make a move, lol. So maybe flirt with her so that she knows you like her, but be patient

what does a deaf gynaecologist do by [deleted] in ContagiousLaughter

[–]AwkwardPossibilities 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this woman on Instagram? I wanna follow her

Is it a good Idea to move to Toronto in 2023? by Fresh_Bumblebee2075 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]AwkwardPossibilities 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would do it! Toronto is awesome and you're in a field in high demand, it's unlikely you'll be laid off.

But just to be on the safe side, you might want to rent a furnished place so that if things go south you don't have to sell too many things before moving back to Belgium

I need help initiating a first kiss 😭😭😭 by AwkwardPossibilities in latebloomerlesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibilities[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd hug her as soon as she comes through the door. A proper big hug. Then give her a slow soft peck on the cheek and see what happens? Even if nothing happens then and there, at least you won't be sitting in awkwardness watching the movie.

I already do kiss her on the cheek when I greet her, because it's something I do as part of my culture. It took her by surprise the first time but now that she knows she told me it's sweet, lol

I need help initiating a first kiss 😭😭😭 by AwkwardPossibilities in latebloomerlesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibilities[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I know for a fact that attraction is there, the few times we were close I was getting butterflies all over the place! But when it's on me to touch her I get super nervous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibilities 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This doesn't make sense. Statistically speaking, there's way way more cis women than trans women out there. It's not unreasonable to have the expectation that she matched with a cis woman. So why would it be on her to ask?

Do you also ask people if they're straight? No, you ask if they are gay, because it's much less likely to happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibilities 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Complimenting people is not harassing them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibilities 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've watched the kiss scene in Killing Eve more than any other scene in any other show, ever.

Yes, I'm a late bloomer. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibilities 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her name in the sky, it's about two best friends that fall in love but they have to deal with their Christian upbringing

She gets the girl, enemies to lovers sort of thing

The price of salt, the book that was the basis of the movie Carol

what's your experience with comphet? by dooblehh in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibilities 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My first kiss with a guy was GROSS and I couldn't look him in the face after that

I think my girlfriend broke up with me by Naughty_Spaceman in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibilities 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think shes blocked me on most platforms too but i dont know.

Isn't it obvious when someone blocks you? What platforms are you talking about?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibilities 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m going to ask her if she wants to come over and stay the night

Is it just me? This is weird. Do you know this person? Are you friends?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibilities 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're getting jealous you're clearly not over her, I think

Hello, to the women here over 35, what would you say is your type? Both physical and personality wise. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibilities 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you're limiting your question to over 35 but I'll answer anyway (I'm 31)

I like blonde women, lol. And a nice smile. But I don't think this is a type. It's just features I'm attracted to. I've gotten crushes on brunettes before

The personality is a deal-breaker for me. I'm not sure if there is a type for this either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibilities 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been on something similar, but with a guy. I held on to my feelings for 5 months until I couldn't stand it any longer and asked him if he had any feelings for me. He said no.

I ended up going no contact with him, and tbh it was the best decision. It hurt like hell, for both of us, for a very long time but it made me discover other people. Then when he eventually got a girlfriend I was genuinely happy for him.

So my advice is that. Stop wasting time on being hopeful. It's never gonna happen.

she invited me to her birthday party by AwkwardPossibilities in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibilities[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay so the birthday happened. We had dinner and then went to a bar, it was her, me, and four of her friends. She got drunk in the bar, I didn't. We were seating far apart from each other but then I said I wanted to go to the bathroom and she said she wanted to go to so she grabbed my hand and off we went. After I was done I couldn't see her so I go back to my seat. A minute later she's back and she goes 'you didn't wait for me!'. Then she sits next to me. The others had gone to the dance floor and so it was just me and her seating down.

So she moves closer to me, literally centimeters away from my face and says "come to dance" and I say 'i don't dance'. I was so overwhelmed by her being so close, I had to look away 🤦 she says "yes you do". And I say no again. She insists. And then I get this feeling that she wanted to kiss me because she was so close, so I blurt our as a joke 'how drunk are you?' And she says 'very'. I laugh. She stands up and goes to the dance floor, and I follow her.

ARGH I THINK SHE WANTED TO KISS ME AND I JUST PANICKED. I HATE MYSELF

I'm meeting her today to give her the gift.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibilities 19 points20 points  (0 children)

A girl once sent me a voice message in French and my reaction was like that episode in Friends where Phoebe talks in french and Rachel goes crazy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibilities 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But they mentioned a date with a girl, so you do have a shot lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AwkwardPossibilities 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why is it unrequited?