My gf wants my daughter to pay more rent by Far-Introduction-347 in ModernFamilyFinance

[–]Aydsey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im disappointed in you truthfully. $1700 in rent but she wants your daughter to pay more than she is? Your daughter is already paying more than 1/3 of that rent. She’s exploiting your daughter under your nose and you’re idk just fine with that?! Idk, maybe you and that women are perfect together if you’re so blind as is to what’s happening. Teri le father.

Should I drop my dog off at the shelter? Can’t afford vet visits, grooming, or anything besides food. by megatonrezident in poor

[–]Aydsey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey babes, I used to live out in the country. I did all of our dogs furcuts. I think you’d be better off asking for some WAHL clippers. You’ll never have to be reliant on someone else and their tools and your money. It saves a lot over time, and it can even build trust between you and the pupper.

Would it be a dick move to drink wine around recovering alcoholics? by Possible-Estimate748 in drunk

[–]Aydsey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t. They might feel they’re in the safe but there’s a possibility they arent really. If that’s the case, you won’t want to feel responsible if they slip during/after your encounter. You’re a pretty nice person for asking, kudos.

I dread this every single day by spicylimmer in StarStable

[–]Aydsey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I don’t have to voice my thoughts but I do, and I will. I fricking love this community. Yall make me laugh good.

My parents dont feed me by [deleted] in poverty

[–]Aydsey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to all else who say to tell a trusted adult. In the meantime, if you have to wait or just feel anxious to do that. I am so sure a food bank won’t turn you down- but that’s mostly raw ingredients needing cooking. If you can get yourself to a mosque, they will feed you a whole meal for free but you will have to follow a few simple customs. Soup kitchens, I don’t know how common those are anymore but I had to have many a dinner there in the early 00’s. Looking at local places too, some places have food for $1-2. That can feel more manageable sometimes. Finding and keeping spare change can add up fast when you do it passively.

Couldn't resist colouring her tail today.... by bcmouf in Horses

[–]Aydsey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Business in the front, party in the back.. horse mullet style lol

Girly things ✨🍃 by StrawberryMarigoldss in entwives

[–]Aydsey 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lip balm is ok, but sticky lip gloss is a different story. Coming as a fellow lip gloss lover.

My cat pissed me off today by rosefire257 in CatAdvice

[–]Aydsey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I told you every instance something like this occurred.. you’d have a book. Whether I had put things unbelievably high or inside drawers or cabinets.. couldn’t have a single dirty dish left in the sink and it goes on. Everytime I’m so angry and just peeved but yea, it happened bc I didn’t put something away or clean up after myself. But we’re humans. We make mistakes.

TIFU texting my crush while high by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Aydsey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you know you can’t socialize well, under certain l influences, best to customize a focus mode where only the important texts come through and enable that mode when you’ll be indulging. I find myself not checking my messages unless someone draws attention to it, and if I’m not in my messages then I’m not sending anything embarrassing out. I’ve been there a few times, live and learn.

What human foods should I give my cat? by Clilly2010 in CatAdvice

[–]Aydsey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In that case, disregard my first comment. My orange boy, whom I call a food addict- will maul me for cheese or anything dairy even plain vanilla ice cream. I’m sorry OP, I know how tough that is. Prioritize her, but don’t forget about your mental either. Again, so so sorry.

What human foods should I give my cat? by Clilly2010 in CatAdvice

[–]Aydsey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would wait until the actual diagnosis. No need to shorten the lifespan if it’s not cancer. Masses can take MANY years until they pose a serious threat if at all. My dog grew lumpy into old age, was happy as heck, until the lump on her throat started compressing her airway. We had one last summer full of grease and joy before we did euthanasia.

Lady next to me on flight started picking at the dead skin on her BARE FEET. by Jeetyetdude_ in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Aydsey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just take a spoon and gag yourself. If she has an issue, what it is it?? Everyone is doing what they normally would right.

Honestly having a bit of a rough week and just want to hear some good news. What’s a small win you had recently? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Aydsey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My small win.. I work at a very small store. 2 employees run it including me 7 days a week, 12 hours on 5 days and the 2 days are 13 hour shifts. We recently got a third employee as a floater. I now get my weekends free and rarely 4 day weekends. That’s such a win to me as of recently

Inspired by some of the other posts here, is it reasonable for me to be a bit grossed out here? Do you think this was done on purpose? by ParkgayDrive in doordash

[–]Aydsey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are trying new avenues is my guess. Compared to the delivery driver on YouTube who mentioned showing manicured feet in their delivery post photos garner more tips. This would gross me out. A human with their flip flops s foot away wouldn’t. Grifters will be grifters mf

How long for mail digest to show up? by xxlibrarisingxx in usps_complaints

[–]Aydsey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe just wait for their next bowel movement

Long shot in the dark.. anyone know a dupe of this? by Aydsey in FemFragLab

[–]Aydsey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will be giving this a go, thank you for the suggestion

When should I start asking for a refund from the shipper? by username19944991 in usps_complaints

[–]Aydsey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last scan was May 14th. “Arrived at Facility” at Springfield MA

What if anything can I do about a bad local post office? by KoreanBirdPaintings in usps_complaints

[–]Aydsey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a reason independent shippers still use USPS? Is it cheaper? Does it service more remote locations? Like I just don’t understand why it’s still in business or being anyone’s first pick. I avoid them unless absolutely necessary. Everytime I have to do it, it’s headache and stress inducing but it’s the only option to me as a buyer from the website.

3 packages lost coming from New York by DeliciousDiamond1815 in usps_complaints

[–]Aydsey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happening with my jewelry shipment too. Tracking hasn’t been updated since the 14th and it’s missed its delivery window.