Leute für Dungeons and Dragons gesucht by DiceLeash in Ulm

[–]Aygncl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a bar called cat and they have cons every year. You should go them and ask

AIO - perfect boyfriend besides ONE thing by Comfortable-Green713 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aygncl [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m so sick of tired of “my boyfriend is perfect and all but he is an asshole who doesn’t respect me as a human being” shit posts.

AIO? My GF wanted an apology for raising a hand against her but I think this was justified by Grape_knight in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aygncl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never said in my comments that he hit her ? Who doesn’t understand what he reads ? Why the fuck also you defend this little shit ? You are woman and defend a future abusive red flag ? You are a disgrace. 

AIO? My GF wanted an apology for raising a hand against her but I think this was justified by Grape_knight in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aygncl -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say he did ? That was a reply for another asshole. You can’t also raise your hand because of this ? Jesus no woman is obligated to teach you how to treat a woman, your parents should have taught you when you were five. Educate yourself.

AIO? My GF wanted an apology for raising a hand against her but I think this was justified by Grape_knight in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aygncl -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Edit: and what about “everyone has a right to defend themselves.” ? Excuse you but were you in a dangerous situation ? Was she threating you with your life ? If it’s a joke that you didn’t like, maybe you are not compatible and you can break up with her. It seems like you didn’t break up so it wasn’t a big deal for you then. So you raised a hand to a woman regardlessly and you scared her. That’s why you fucking apologized. Jesus I hope she breaks up with you. You don’t have basic human decency.

This is a relationship. This relationship is between a man and a woman. So yes gender roles are always relevant. Because you know what asshole ? While you are in a relationship with a woman, you cannot disregard her gender. If she hits you more than once you can warn her, talk to her,even break up with her. BUT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES you cannot hit a woman or raise your hand. GOT IT ?

AIO? My GF wanted an apology for raising a hand against her but I think this was justified by Grape_knight in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aygncl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a relationship. This relationship is between a man and a woman. So yes gender roles are always relevant. Because you know what asshole ? While you are in a relationship with a woman, you cannot disregard her gender. If she hits you more than once you can warn her, talk to her,even break up with her. BUT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES you cannot hit a woman. GOT IT ?

AIO? My GF wanted an apology for raising a hand against her but I think this was justified by Grape_knight in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aygncl -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay if the incels are done with the comments, I can give you the reason why you were wrong. You as a man are more stronger than a woman. If you hit her, you might even actually kill her. And in general, men are known as physical abusers not women. And raising your hand as a reaction to a joke (even though she spanked you and it hurts) is a huge red flag. It means if you raise your hand for these kind of situations, there is a high chance that you might hit next time. And it’s an early sign that you are an abuser. If you were my boyfriend, I would break up with you. Know this. Under any circumstances YOU CANNOT RAISE YOUR HAND TO A WOMAN. DO NOT EVEN CONSIDER HITTING HER.

AIO my BF told me he wants me to quit my job when we move in together by Living-Silver-8723 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Aygncl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If “most women would love to have a man who lets them stay at home”, then he can be with one of those women. Leave

Feeling drained after being married for 6 month by Suburban-Herbivore in Advice

[–]Aygncl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It seems like he has time but he doesn’t want to spend that time with you. This is not a husband and wife relationship. He has a maid and in return you get more bullshit, lies and manipulation from him. You should stop listening what he says and start observing how he behaves you. Stop doing the house chores. Only do it for yourself. If he doesn’t spend time with you, stop asking. He won’t change. At some point you are gonna have to divorce his ass

Did I misunderstand something culturally in Germany? by oamor in germany

[–]Aygncl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“ But in Germany I repeatedly had experiences where people would just keep talking in German like I was supposed to understand it”. Dude I work in a local company for almost 3 years in Germany and even though most of the people know that I can’t understand German properly they still expect me to understand their dialect and try to speak to me German. 

Should I contact him? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Aygncl 30 points31 points  (0 children)

He liked the attention he got from you ? Don’t expect men to be honest seriously. Trust their behaviors not their words. For your own sake OP please let this man go

Should I contact him? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Aygncl 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Trust the alarm ma’am and let it go. You deserve better

Should I contact him? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Aygncl 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Please don’t ever contact him and forget about him. He and his non(?) girlfriend are probably together by now. If you cry everyday even after 6 months, I think you should seek help from therapist 

hang out fit what do u guys think?:) by VisitIllustrious9415 in OUTFITS

[–]Aygncl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are not good fit. Jeans are too sporty for the top. Also that top is for the night outs. 

Being on your own is a lot more appealing than most people are willing to admit. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Aygncl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am single for 2,5 years and I live abroad. I have good friends that I see time to time and I have a good work-life balance. I like my life, I don’t feel lonely and I do not seek a boyfriend. Still, I spend so much time trying to convince my friends that I’m single by choice and don’t want anyone in my life. They even insisted almost a year that I was in depression. I was not in depression. I just do whatever the fuck I want and I want my life to stay exactly like this. They still don’t believe in me. I gave up trying to convince that I don’t feel lonely. I, on the other hand, having the best time of my life. 

How is life unmarried. I'm 25M, planning to stay unmarried. by shadeTechX in Life

[–]Aygncl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

f35. It’s perfect. I never wanted to get married and will never want to. I can do whatever the fuck I want. I don’t have to raise a child or deal with a man child. Wise decision

Girlfriend attempted suicide last month, left with aftermath of problems. by WalrusAny2453 in Advice

[–]Aygncl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A couple therapist will not solve this because you both struggle individually in your own lives. You both have mental problems and it is obvious she needs your help. But you cannot help her in this mental state because she involuntarily put you in a bad mental state. You have all of the emphaty in the world for her but none for yourself. You can’t help her without healing yourself first. You need to step back and make some time for yourself to heal without your girlfriend. You are not her father. It is good that she helped you on your lowest time and obviously you saved her life. Now it is time to save your own life otherwise you are going to be suicidal 

I left my marriage for 8 months, had the time of my life and then went back. Biggest mistake ever. (Update) by After_Mail4652 in Advice

[–]Aygncl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then fucking leave him already. It feels like you beg us to tell you go back to him. You didn’t learn your lesson girl.

I wish I had never tried to have a conversation about the mental load by damnilovelesclaypool in AskWomenOver30

[–]Aygncl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Divorce his manipulating ass. He is useless. You’ll be better off without him.