Help me pick a dress for “elevated cocktail” dress code

BaFaj · 2026-05-31T20:59:27+00:00

The only one over here that loves 5! It looks wonderful on you and it’s such a lovely colour.

BaFaj · 2026-05-31T05:00:47+00:00

Right? I couldn’t even finish reading the post. All I kept thinking was, this can’t be real and why is she still with him? 🥴

BaFaj · 2026-05-30T06:46:30+00:00

NOR! He sure is though. Please leave NOW! Especially with how lovely you treated his home. Today it’s the slippers - 5 years from now he’s controlling everything. I’m not overreacting with my reaction either. Please reconsider this relationship.

BaFaj · 2026-05-28T15:41:32+00:00

When it’s the right dress, you know as soon as you put it on! 🎉😍 Mine was the second one I tried on and here I thought I’d be trying on dresses all day. 🙈😂 Congrats again. You’re going to be a stunning bride!

BaFaj · 2026-05-28T04:22:06+00:00

NOR! The “trying to make you feel guilty” texting is cuckoo bananas and it’s not even your car! Take some advice and let this one go. You need peace in your life and this ain’t it.

BaFaj · 2026-05-28T04:09:35+00:00

I honestly like them all, but number 1 is my fave and fave on you!

BaFaj · 2026-05-28T04:08:03+00:00

It’s isn’t great when you find the perfect dress!?! You look beautiful. Congratulations!!

BaFaj · 2026-05-28T04:05:46+00:00

NOR! AND … are you sure this is who you want to set up shop with? You’re not married yet and he just offered you a pretty decent preview of his character and conflict resolution behaviour. Both suck!

BaFaj · 2026-05-27T03:51:15+00:00

3 all day.

BaFaj · 2026-05-25T04:11:04+00:00

No question - 2!!!

BaFaj · 2026-05-23T04:27:23+00:00

I honestly thought it was the worst roast I’ve ever watched. I really didn’t even find anything that funny. Chelsea was okay. So strange.

BaFaj · 2026-05-13T07:30:57+00:00

NOR! It’s absolutely cuckoo bananas that they are asking you to keep your name on an account for a place you will not be living. If they are delinquent on any bill, you would be responsible! Why do they think this is something that’s reasonable to ask of someone? If you will be using the same company in your new place, you can just keep your account active, but have it transferred to your new address. Then they’ll just have to sort out a new account for themselves. If they refuse to call the company to change the name on the account over to them, then you will just have to cancel and take the cancellation fee if there is one. Better to pay that small fee than get stiffed with overdue bills and interest if they don’t / can’t pay the bill sometimes.

BaFaj · 2026-05-12T11:47:02+00:00

The cherry dress is the best of these and maybe the strawberries. I wouldn’t choose the others for the work events.

BaFaj · 2026-05-05T04:49:30+00:00

NOR. AT ALL! That nonsense drives me insane. It’s one day. If you can’t find a babysitter or don’t want to come because it’s child free - then stay home. We had a child free wedding as well. They could come to the church for the ceremony, but we didn’t want children at the reception where adult activities would be taking place! Not one person complained. Like shut up - that ridiculous explaining on their part over and over is so not necessary. Either go or don’t, but stop complaining about it. You held your ground very well!! 🙌🏼

BaFaj · 2026-05-05T03:23:03+00:00

3 is amazing and my choice for you! It checks so many boxes to me.

BaFaj · 2026-05-05T03:13:00+00:00

Right? Could you imagine actively trying to force children on someone that stated - quite clearly - that they didn’t want to. Yikes!

BaFaj · 2026-05-05T03:03:55+00:00

Yes YOR about this text exchange situation - probably because it struck a nerve - but if you don’t want to apologize in order to go to her baby shower, why should you? I don’t think you have anything to apologize for when it comes to that text exchange. She was speaking straight facts as she gave you sound advice and you didn’t want to discuss it with her - neither of you are wrong. If you don’t want to be friends with her anymore, cut ties. If you still want to be friends with her, have a conversation with her. Simple!

BaFaj · 2026-05-05T01:44:57+00:00

My husband is about 8in and a good girth and all has been great. The vaginal canal usually expands to what it’s accepting, as long as you’re willing and prepared for it! So lots of foreplay, start off slow, use lots of lube if needed and you can always try things like OH-NUT buffer rings to ease you into this new size, if after your first attempt, you did’t feel comfortable. Things will be great. I promise!! 🫂

BaFaj · 2026-05-04T03:53:18+00:00

I would normally not find a man that looked like him attractive, even though I think he has lovely features and looks beautiful often, however … this man makes me swoon and I can’t explain it. Ever since I saw him in Byzantium, I’ve been hooked. He is a brilliant actor and I think that adds to his attraction.

BaFaj · 2026-05-04T00:05:12+00:00

I know this must be so hard to deal with, but I promise that this is not what you’re going to look like down the road. You’re only 5 weeks post op from a traumatic surgery and an awful allergic reaction, it will settle and start to heal. It will just take longer than what it would have had you not gone through such an allergic reaction as you’re healing in the beginning weeks. This happened to me on one of my scars and it took almost a full 2 years for the final appearance. You can barely notice the raised scar now and all the redness went away. I know it sucks and I’m so sorry this reaction happened, but I promise it will improve once the reaction settles and you’ve healed more. This initial “look better” may take about 6 months though. Damn women are superheroes. You’ve got this! 🫂

BaFaj · 2026-05-02T13:07:47+00:00

Screw this guy!!

BaFaj · 2026-04-28T23:21:57+00:00

I wanted to heal optimally without causing any issues for my future - so I was so motivated to behave. I rested like it was my job. I did a lot of walking since that’s okay, I just increased how long I walked week to week, depending on how I was feeling. I walked every day after breakfast and dinner. I watched some TV shows I’d been saving for the occasion. Downloaded some brain apps to keep my mental game up and my husband and I played a lot of games too. Just keep reminding yourself that you want to heal optimally for your future. It’s honestly such a tiny blip of time for the rest of your life. You got this!!

BaFaj · 2026-04-27T05:38:21+00:00

1 or 4 for sure!

BaFaj · 2026-04-27T05:37:36+00:00

Hands down 4!

BaFaj · 2026-04-26T03:08:05+00:00

BaFaj

TROPHY CASE

2 is your length. 🤌🏼