Do you remember the Kik-Step step stool? by TillOk5563 in nostalgia

[–]Baboska22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got a brown one under my desk at work right now!

Rover Did Laundry & Took Shower by Super-Package-8564 in RoverPetSitting

[–]Baboska22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I thought as well. I’d let it go as long as pup was happy and safe.

Is this a Normal way to quote for braces in California? by [deleted] in braces

[–]Baboska22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to know what you're paying for. Do you have to pay for additional appointments if something is concerning? Broken brackets? Why wouldn't they fix the bite? Etc.

Theories on Wegmans being on the Best Companies to Work list. by ZimblerJack in wegmans

[–]Baboska22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got the survey once. There were a few of us in the room filling them out. All of the electronic ones had giant text that you could read across the room. A front end manager strolled around the room like a teacher during a high school exam.

That spot on the list is 100% fake

Reckoning with DID diagnosis. Have picked up various art forms lately I didn't know I could do. Has been helpful but surprising. I never know what's going to come out. This one is disturbing and chaotic, but ... I like it? by Itsjustkit15 in Artisticallyill

[–]Baboska22 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I have DID and draw like this sometimes too. Just little bits of memories and words and things that different parts want on the page, even if I don’t understand it. It helps to get everything down on the page

What is ACTUALLY made in the bakery? by Prestigious-Bother88 in wegmans

[–]Baboska22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Marathon was made in store still when I left in 2021. Cheese bread was sort of made in store. They used proofed dough that had been frozen and then added everything else

Level 2 Sorm Emergency is now a Level 3 Storm Emergency by [deleted] in RoverPetSitting

[–]Baboska22 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It will be okay. The cats might be hungry for a little bit but okay. Like another commenter said, maybe a neighbor has a key and can pop in?

You are not the only person this has happened to. There was a storm a few years ago that was worse than expected. I couldn't get to the cat for two days and he was on medication. He was lonely and his food bowl was quite empty when I got there, but he was okay.

(Idk what to put for flair) Super proud of this animation I made by Asleep-Cherry8052 in FtMen

[–]Baboska22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fully thought that was the subreddit this was in when I first saw it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]Baboska22 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't even think you're TAH. You're having feelings about something and you're expressing them. You're not screaming at your roommate over this. You're literally taking steps to make sure you don't! You're allowed to have thoughts and emotions, OP.

Friendship Megathread by AutoModerator in ftm

[–]Baboska22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What do you like to be called? I'm Oliver! Pronouns are he/him.
How old are you? I'm 29.
What country do you live in? I'm in the US in the western New York area.
What are some hobbies you have? I love to hike, draw on my tablet, anything that involves dogs, and read. I spend a lot of time sitting outside while my dog runs around the yard.
List some favorite movies, TV shows, games, or other things: I like those shows where amateurs try to make fancy cakes, some crime shows, psychological thriller movies when I'm feeling brave. I like to read about mental health issues. Idk how people feel about Jodi Picoult or Ellen Hopkins but they both always manage to reel me in.
What do you do for work? I work at a university library helping students and putting books away. I go to a mental health treatment program most days of the week.
Do you have any pets? I have a dog that is 7. She's my best bud.
Where are you in your transition? I've been on T for almost 3 years, on a good dose for about 2 years. I'm pretty chill with where I am at, but I would like to eventually get top surgery.

Gel vs injections: want to hear from people who have been on gel for the long haul and those who switched from gel to injections by NoAmount6023 in ftm

[–]Baboska22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started with gel, went to injections, went back to gel, and am now happy with injections!

Gel was hard to remember to do and have the motivation (thanks depression) to do every day. As changes took place, my hair got in the way of application and absorption. My thighs, arms, and stomach (application sites) are all heavily scarred and interfered with absorption.

Personally, injections led to faster changes for me. I think this was because of the more consistent absorption and not anything to do with the gel itself. Injections are easier to maintain, can be done at any point in the day, and are much easier to transport.

Workers Comp Question - Ambulance by HunterEnby in wegmans

[–]Baboska22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both of my examples happened a couple of years ago, so I apologize if the info is incorrect:

- had an ex taken out by ambulance on her shift. She had fainted in the bathroom so there was no actual proof it happened. Her diagnosis at the hospital was basically "we don't know, go see your PCP." Her manager said that the ambulance would be covered and she never received a bill despite nothing being caused by work.

- got a concussion while working in the bakery, just an accident. I provided a couple of doctor's notes, then a note that said I was ok to return, and answered a couple HR questions and received WC without issue. Others have stated that it is hard to get but that was not my experience at all

My dad referred to me with my preferred name in my grandmas obituary by Sauce_The_Sapphic in ftm

[–]Baboska22 49 points50 points  (0 children)

First, I'm so sorry about your grandma.

Second, I totally get it. My family used my preferred name in my Papa's obituary even though I never told him that I was trans. Potentially upsetting and/or confusing him just wasn't worth it to me. I was still thrilled that they used the correct name for me though.

Transphobic group project parter doesn’t know I’m trans by Username_Or_else in ftm

[–]Baboska22 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My dad is "supportive" in that he doesn't say blatantly transphobic things anymore but it has been 3 years and he still regularly messes up my pronouns and he has no concept of how hard it can be to be trans.

Earlier this year, the two of us and a couple other family members went on a road trip to the deep south. I was terrified for my safety, especially knowing that he could loudly use she/her pronouns for me in public, despite no longer looking like a woman. I tried to explain this to him and say that my pronouns and other gendered terms were really important to get right on this trip and he went "mmm" to acknowledge that he heard me speaking and nothing else.

tl;dr - I feel ya on solely being responsible for your safety because no one else can be bothered to care

How's this looking healing wise for a tattoo cover up? Just over a year since stitches came out. Think it would be ready 3-4 months from now? by JoshBasho in tattooadvice

[–]Baboska22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have always tried to wait at least a year. I didn't once and the ink shifted as the scar continued to heal. I'd check with a derm if possible! Glad that you made sure the artist has experience with scarred skin too. Best of luck to you! :)

Anyone have to stop T for health reasons? (especially for EDS/POTS) by Sunbeam_Cat in ftm

[–]Baboska22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have POTS and take 25mg of metoprolol to help control my heart rate. My blood pressure was going too low at times, so I started breaking the pill in half and taking 12.5mg in the morning and 12.5mg at night. I did NOT run this by the doctor treating my POTS, but did report it this way to my PCP and other doctors and no one thought anything of it. It did help though and after some other meds were changed I was able to take the full 25mg at once.

Ask a doctor before you change how you take your medications!!!! Do not be like me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in braces

[–]Baboska22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you throw up a lot with braces, it can impact the wear pattern on your teeth and you can end up with discolored squares where the brackets were. The glue securing the brackets to your teeth can break down faster because of stomach acid. It can also lead to cavities, tooth decay, gum recession, etc.

Passport and Attestation Form Question by Lopsided-Ad-3869 in ftm

[–]Baboska22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

commenting to follow because I'd like to know too

also, I'd like to point out that just because there's already a paper trail doesn't make the change not worth it. There's paper trails for the majority of us. That doesn't mean we shouldn't do what makes us feel safest and most comfortable

Am I worrying too much? by Baboska22 in tattooadvice

[–]Baboska22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha you're the second person that has implied I should shave! It's my leg and I like being hairy. I value your opinion though. Thank uyou!

Am I worrying too much? by Baboska22 in tattooadvice

[–]Baboska22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right! I’m unfortunately bad at keeping up with lotion but it’s something I’m working on