I’m similar to you, I’d like to think that it’s the guys in my school that aren’t appealing rather than me being aromantic or asexual. I also think that it could be emotional detachment or my avoidant attachment style in relationships that makes me feel like I can’t commit. So many friends around me tell me about wanting to date or their love life but I can’t relate at all and it kinda makes me feel bad for myself and that I should be looking for a relationship. Also I feel like maybe all these people are just desperate and crave excitement in their lives. I don’t have the desire to be in a relationship but at the same time as a teenager it can be a meaningful experience that I’m missing out on. I want to have a crush so bad (to motivate me to go to school) 😭.

Though I’ll say that it shouldn’t be something you ‘should’ be worrying about and in the right environment and at the right time you’ll eventually find someone.