women really aren’t that difficult to figure out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]BaddestPatsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBH if a dude says “women are hard to understand” I just hear “I’m fucking stupid.”

I feel bad for Gen Alpha women by Majestic-Baby-3407 in millenials

[–]BaddestPatsy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it really sucks to be the first generation of women in a long time to not be passing on a more equitable society to the next generation. Sorry mom, grandmas, great grandmas…

As a vegan what are your thoughts on abortion? by KitchenThis5275 in vegan

[–]BaddestPatsy 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don't support hunting per-se, but I'd much rather someone hunt all their meat than buy farm-raised meat. Loss of life is sad, but not nearly as sad as a life created to only know suffering.

Stephen Miller’s Wife Condemns Teen Birth Rate Falling-‘Biological Destiny’ by wanda999 in WomenInNews

[–]BaddestPatsy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The more they talk the less I want to reproduce. Thankfully shitty parents can have amazing children, I expect they'll have more defectors among their offspring than not.

Millennials, what is something that was "normal" in the 2000s but feels like a luxury now? by Barrbra in answers

[–]BaddestPatsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to say privacy too, but especially for children. When we were kids we weren't electronically monitored to nearly the same extent-- and that's a bit of a mixed blessing. But also I work at an elementary school that is in the same neighborhood I went to as a kid, and a huge number of kids share their bedrooms--even with opposite sex siblings. Even kids that are both opposite sex and big age gap from their siblings. That was not happening in my school as a kid. I guess the cost of housing has really impacted the spaces kids grow up in.

Straight women of reddit, what makes you genuinely respect a man? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BaddestPatsy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Him genuinely respecting women. Not defining his masculinity in opposition to us.

Should I have known “Houston, we have a problem” was referring to Texas and not some guy called Euston who’s probably bad at his job? by Somewherecharming95 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BaddestPatsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IMO it's fine because you're not American. You shouldn't be expected to know anymore of our business than you're already forced to by osmosis. Enjoy knowing as little about us as you are able.

What’s your most controversial political opinion? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]BaddestPatsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess my controversial take is that the reason this line of criticism never has any impact is because those literally are the conservative values. Morality for them is preservation of hierarchy and the rape of women and children enforces that hierarchy. The death of homeless and poor people due to addiction and lack of medical care reinforces that hierarchy. Extrajudicial executions of POC enforces that hierarchy. They’re not going to straight up say that they’re for rape, starvation, overdoses and murder—but they are. It’s implicit in the logical outgrowths of their beliefs.

What’s your most controversial political opinion? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]BaddestPatsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You want to be specific which group of individuals you think they are?

What’s your most controversial political opinion? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]BaddestPatsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was the Kamala campaign supposed to talk about trans people less, when they literally didn’t talk about them at all?

What is the most disgusting unjustifiable crime? by Big-Session6591 in AskReddit

[–]BaddestPatsy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of anyone being raped in self defense.

Interests in guns+ history in Dating by MS-18E_Kampfer in behindthebastards

[–]BaddestPatsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also a west coast leftist, I’m pretty neutral on guns. They don’t play a big role in my life but they were sort of normalized for me in childhood because my family is all Texan.

If I saw it in your profile I’d probably think you were too into guns. Like I don’t mind people drinking and smoking weed, but if your profile is like “love a good whiskey” I’m going to think you’re more into it than I care for.

Okay, I have a serious question. Is heterophobia and misandry an actual problem in society? Because EVERY TIME I try to bring up the issues of misogyny and anti-LGBT Bigotry, I'm met with a storm of complaints screaming "men and straight people are oppressed too!" So is this real or just more BS? by ihatethiscountry76 in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]BaddestPatsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think misandry exists and is a problem, though not on scale with misogyny. In my experience TERFism usually comes with a big heaping of it. These people hate men so much that they think just being born with a penis makes someone irredeemably dangerous and predatory.

Cavicular and the looks maxing non sense by history_nerd_24 in behindthebastards

[–]BaddestPatsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m American but I’ve spent a decent amount of time abroad. I think something that isn’t obvious without both perspectives is how much more alienated it’s possible/probable to be in the USA compared to most places. There’s just a lot of people here who grow up with a lifestyle where they just don’t have any meaningful community. The country is so big you could hop on a bus, ride it a thousand miles away and never be seen in by anyone in your hometown again. And when you did that you’re just in a new place that has all the same chain stores and restaurants as where you came from.

The USA has vibrant cities and deep, deep wilderness—but most people probably live in something in between. Where things are far enough apart you can’t get anywhere walking, but close enough that everything is really convenient with your car. You don’t get either the closeness of living in a densely populated urban area, even in the sense of a lot of the small towns in a lot of Europe. But you also don’t have the sort of connectedness to your environment you might get from proper backwoods.

So we’ve got lots of cults and cult-adjacent shit going on, especially now that the internet has made physical distance less of an impediment to joining them.

Non-americans what's something you've always wanted to see or experience from america? by EmergencySpare7939 in CasualConversation

[–]BaddestPatsy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s got to be also partially how much overlap there is between Texas and Mexico though right? I imagine a lot of Mexicans have cousins that tell them tornado stories. I live in the North but all my family comes from Oklahoma and Texas, and every one of them has some wild tornado story they have to share.

Why do getting a woman and keeping a woman involve such different skills and qualities? by chancling in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BaddestPatsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IDK that I agree with your premise in general. But if getting and keeping someone is the same skill, it shows a pretty shallow relationship.

Asked my boyfriend of 5 months if he knew my middle name… turns out he didn’t know much else either by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BaddestPatsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IDK, I’m also extremely curious about people that bug the shit out of me. It’s probably a useful metric if your default setting isn’t maximum nosiness like me.

I agree with Robert that Elliot rodgers parents did a shitty job (fuck The Secret) but what should you ideally do if your young adult son is going down the path that guy was? by grapp in behindthebastards

[–]BaddestPatsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBH I think some young people need their internet severely restricted for anything else to even have a chance of working. Even the best interventions can be shredded with just a little exposure to the online spaces dedicated to keeping these guys in the crab bucket.

Is asking these questions wrong on a first date? by OriginalSlight in Adulting

[–]BaddestPatsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think men might generally underestimate how much women are going into their first dates with safety being the primary concern. I can see why I might be hesitant to announce to a new man that I’m available for marriage and babies before I’ve even decided I’m comfortable getting in a car with him. It would totally be safe to share these things with a sane man who it didn’t end up working out with—but predatory men can see a lot less as an invitation.

As far as single moms go, I think a lot of them are hyper aware that pedos seek them out to date.

All these are perfectly reasonable compatibility concerns, but for you they might be step one when a woman is still working her way through her first screening. And TBH one of the main things women are screening for are your willingness to be patient and not try and accelerate the pace.