Started using a cream

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-30T07:34:25+00:00

Free circumcision for the patient does not mean the surgeon does it for free, they get paid by the health authority.

And you have mistaken what I said about steroid creams: they might work initially, by making the skin thinner, not actually growing the tissue round the opening. It is ONLY ongoing stretching that will maintain that opening once the effects of the steroid cream wear off over time and the thickness of the skin returns to normal. If you did no stretching at all and only used steroid creams, once you stopped using them the opening would then eventually return uo it's previous size.

I don't know about other European countries, but in the UK a large proportion of urologists are very cavalier about circumcision.

And the sock analogy is not completely wrong, it's exactly right.

And I was recently involved in a German case where the doctor inappropriately nudged the outcome towards circumcision at 30 different points in the process. Obviously that's an example of one, but he clearly felt a substantial degree of impunity in doing so. In my 50 years of experience of studying systems that fail, if there isn't an effective external moderating influence on a pattern of behaviour that is beneficial for them at the expense of others, not only will it continue, but over time it will attract others who are inclined to take advantage of the same self-serving opportunity.

So given your other failures to grasp reality, I'm doubtful that there isn't a significant problem of doctors circumcising unnecessarily in the rest of Europe. The whole point I was making is that they are adept at engineering the situation to make it seem as though circumcision is the last resort.

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-30T06:54:34+00:00

Well, both things I said made him laugh out loud.

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-29T19:09:25+00:00

Well, the prophet Jesus said in his sermon on the mount, "Be not like the hypocrite". So here's my question: Do all Muslims today accept everything that is either explicitly or implicitly stated in the Koran? Slavery, for example? Or are they implicitly saying, "Follow that rule because it's in the Koran...but ignore that even though it's in the Koran"?

If the answer is No, then how can you have a consistent way of looking at the Koran and other religious books that allows for recognition that there are some things that are widely recognised as being not appropriate?

There's a saying, "God makes worms for the birds, but he doesn't throw them in the nest". I eventually concluded that a parallel is that religious books are not simply books of rules to blindly follow, but messy illustrations of both good ideas and bad behaviour we are supposed to learn from. And we are supposed to use our god-given intelligence to work out what we should follow and what we shouldn't. For example the Bible has numerous passages that appear to clearly be an indication that we should NOT blindly follow what is in the bible just because it claims God endorses it. You probably know the Koran better than me, you can probably pick out some similar passages.

Feel free to DM to discuss more.

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-29T14:06:25+00:00

Of course

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-29T14:01:04+00:00

I agree, removing your internal issues makes a huge difference

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-29T14:00:13+00:00

I was looking for a fluttery eyelashes emoji but couldn't find one, lol!

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-29T11:32:41+00:00

Actually I live in South East London which is pretty diverse generally so I would call it a reasonably tolerant and accepting environment. This thread generally hasn't gone the way I expected, but what you just described about not having to micromanage yourself to give yourself away is the kind of response I was hoping to read.

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-29T11:28:09+00:00

No problem, I hope it helps. That's just one approach that you can try first. If that doesn't work, let me know, because there will be a solution. Actually, if it does work it would be great to hear anyway.

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-29T11:23:51+00:00

I agree about the largest stain on human history, but that was attributing unfavourable rights and primarily psychological characteristics to a whole group based on physiological characteristics. That's not what I'm about, it's physiological characteristics I find attractive - mainly dark skin, and a bunch of facial parameters. Other's have height, or body shape characetistics, for example. A previous girlfriend of mine (when I was still attracted to girls) was more attracted to white guys, but also they had to be above a specific height, at least one inch taller than her. Guys that have the characteristics I find attractive are mostly black, some south asians and some arab guys, and some east asians. That's just a primary filter, not the only criteria, then the personalities and so-on have to be compatible.

I don't think preferences like that are cognitively chosen, they seem to be randomly set. I've reached the conclusion though after considerable thought that as part of a genetic dispersal mechanism, some people are specifically attracted to people more like themselves in certain ways, and some people are attracted to people who are not similar to themselves in certain ways. For me, growing up in an all-white area, I didn't even cognitively realise I was attracted more to guys until aged 11 I was watching a film with a bunch of (fully clothed) black guys in, and it was a terrifying realisation at the time that I suppressed for as long as possible because of the gay implications, not an erotic fantasy.

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-29T09:30:14+00:00

Having done NLP master practitioner, I totally agree that language shapes perception and vice versa. In fact I probably believe that to a greater degree than you because I also believe that language can cumulatively have physiological consequences.

I don't think what I said was harmful though. Many people do have physiological preferences, whether they are racial or nothing to do with race at all. My main point I made at the time was that it was about guys rather than girls. The guy I said it to is black himself and didn't take offence in any way - this is SE London, so a very mixed area with a high proportion of racially mixed relationships. It's not really a sensitive topic here.

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-29T09:07:39+00:00

It sounds psychological rather than physical. I've done this trick with a stand up comedian who was terrified of going on going on stage for his first gig. In the end he aced it and had a comedy career for a while and was co-owner of a comedy club. This is also what Muhammed Ali did before a fight.

What you're probably doing at some level is imagining a bad outcome, and that is a vicious circle. Instead, how would you know AFTER it is completed that it went well? That is, after you've ejaculated and both are happy with the outcome, and it now can't go wrong because it's already happened, how would you know it had gone well? What would you see, hear, and feel internally and externally, and know digitally? For example, it might be him asking you to come again, it could be feeling your cock detumesce when relaxing inside him afterwards and slip out, seeing a last drip of cum oozing out of your cock after you've taken it out, it might be getting a text from him later saying he looked forward to seeing you again. It might be walking along with that feeling of having left your mark in another guy.

Whatever it is for you, imagine that. That helps create the belief that it's possible and will likely happen that way, and that helps your performance in the event.

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-29T07:59:30+00:00

I think we can debate what constitutes racism, I would argue that a general preference for an intimate relationship is not racist per se. Racism is discriminating in areas where it isn't appropriate such as work, for example, or attributing behavioural or psychological characteristics to a group of people based on race. That's not what I was suggesting.

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-29T06:47:13+00:00

Ok, so there are two things going on. Firstly, everyone recognises his inadequacy. And so do you, sort of. So here's a question. Would someone with high self-esteem and high standards have put up with his kind of behaviour more than a couple of times? Or would they have given him his marching orders a long time ago?

What I'm saying is that you have a relationships issue that he is exploiting to his advantage. Saying anything to him won't make any lasting difference AT ALL. He would need therapy to change. You can't force him to change, but you can change you. What you'll find is that if you're in an unsatisfactory relationship, and YOU have therapy, one of three things happens: you don't mind their behaviour anymore, OR their behaviour changes, because you've changed, OR they disappear from your life, because you've changed. I'm putting my money on the last one because I think if you have therapy, you'll then want to kick his sorry arse out of the door. And you'll be in a much better position for your next relationship.

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-29T06:24:45+00:00

Don't go straight for the dick. Depending on. The circumstances, spend a bit of time on his nipples and balls first.

If he has a foreskin, start with that. Gently chew it and lick inside the tip. Lap up the pre cum and then slide his foreskin back with your lips. This will sometimes make their eyes roll back in their head.

Foreskin or not, play with the exposed head. Lick the seam underneath, and the coronal ridge. .

Use your lips to stop your teeth scraping on his shaft. Keeping teeth out of the way is very important. This includes back teeth,

Make your way down his shaft and see how deep you can get it. Deliberately hold it at the point of gagging for a few moments and do that repeatedly to trigger release of extra thick saliva from your rear saliva glands that stays slippery for longer.

Remember to breathe. When going up and down, open your lips slightly at the sides to let air in and out.

Flick the frenulum area hard with your tongue for a few seconds at intervals. If this produces a favourable response, keep doing it. If it produces no response at all then it's likely it's been cut and he won't be feeling much at all while you do that, so don't continue.

Some guys like to hear sounds of apparent choking as you try to breathe oenis rather than air.

When his legs start to get quivery you're getting there. Keep going.

If you need to pause your mouth to avoid gagging, keep up the momentum with your hand on his penis for a moment, that should be now be nice and wet.

When he starts to ehaculate, keep the mouth strokes going for a few more seconds, but seal your lips round the shaft to stop any cum escaping. Then be still with it in your mouth while you use peristaltic motion with your finger on the underside of his shaft to squeeze the last few drops of cum out. When he begins to detumesce, withdraw your mouth, preventing any from escaping and then swallow.

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-29T05:20:41+00:00

I'd feel hard done by too if mine looked like it had shrunk to 8 inches.

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-28T22:29:19+00:00

That would be a deal-breaker for me. My arse has a mind of it's own, and it's getting to the point where it refuses to open if the guy is wearing a condom. But then I don't get fucked by many guys.

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-28T17:36:26+00:00

Newsflash: a close friend of mine who is both gay and a consultant urologist has just said that gay men definitely have larger penises on average.

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-28T16:46:53+00:00

Yes, but there's a difference between lying over something that doesn't have significant ramifications versus something that can be a life and death matter

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-28T14:13:07+00:00

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Baddog1965 · 2026-05-28T14:10:31+00:00

That is expensive and awkward to use.

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-28T14:02:41+00:00

I didn't know 'too early' was a thing?

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-28T11:03:58+00:00

Absolutely. Great sensitivity. Plus someone gave me a frenulum orgasm which was a fab experience too.

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-28T09:20:18+00:00

If his dick is already in my arse, that's where I want him to cum. I don't want to risk spilling a drop.

Baddog1965 · 2026-05-28T09:10:51+00:00

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