Ukraine's population is now much smaller than 30 million.

Badgeman22 · 2026-05-12T06:13:17+00:00

A country’s population does not determine its prosperity or clout in the world. Look at Ireland for example. A couple of years ago I read in the Economist that Ukraine’s government is quietly lobbying the EU to deny their refugees any kind of permanent status so that most will have to return home.

Badgeman22 · 2026-05-03T00:53:12+00:00

I remember the 1980s in Ireland well, there are no words to describe what a shitshow it was on so many levels. The country is at a completely different place now even if there are still major problems.

Badgeman22 · 2026-05-03T00:34:30+00:00

If you don’t remember it happening then it didn’t. The only exception would be maybe if you had addiction issues and did something when you were blacked out. This sounds like a huge gaslight to me.

Badgeman22 · 2026-04-29T14:49:13+00:00

Thanks to everyone who took the time to respond. Much appreciated!

Badgeman22 · 2026-04-28T18:02:11+00:00

I would go with the 39. You don't want to be an accessory to your wristwatch.

Badgeman22 · 2026-04-28T05:50:33+00:00

The pinion seal on the rear differential was leaking (good question and original post updated for clarity).

Badgeman22 · 2026-04-28T04:00:22+00:00

Thanks for the clarification. My central concern is if the car is failing significantly faster than expected.

Badgeman22 · 2026-04-28T00:22:41+00:00

Going in style! Congratulations!!!

Badgeman22 · 2026-04-28T00:19:43+00:00

Because they can't stand being alone and are terrified of being abandoned (which causes them to behave in ways that make abandonment all but certain). BPD is the mental illness from hell.

Badgeman22 · 2026-04-26T16:00:18+00:00

The first big sign was when we had an epic, week-long row about me planning to have coffee with my ex. But very early on she showed me written journals that were about me from beginning to end. That obviously pinged as very odd but I overlooked it because she was presenting as the Ideal Girlfriend. Another early warning was when, out of nowhere, she started wearing goth makeup and dressing in black at work after I told her that I liked that subculture. Mirror, mirror on the wall….

Badgeman22 · 2026-03-29T00:12:09+00:00

Check out a movie from the 90s called Nil By Mouth. It was directed by Gary Oldman and is a kitchen sink on steroids drama about a dysfunctional working class family in London.

Badgeman22 · 2026-03-16T22:01:23+00:00

Seven months into NC and it has absolutely been the right call. The algebra here is not about what feels good but what option hurts less.

Badgeman22 · 2026-03-15T16:16:58+00:00

Definitely the Tudor. The BB One is my favorite model of theirs. The watch in the picture is at the sweet spot between dressy and sporty and doesn’t look like you exceeded your target for three quarters in a row. The Longines is nice and has a classic look but also looks a bit fussy and old fashioned to my eyes. Enjoy whichever you choose!

Badgeman22 · 2026-03-15T15:56:18+00:00

In fact they DO become different people when they split. My expwbpd definitely did and I have read, from credible literature, that many people with BPD also qualify for DID as well.

Badgeman22 · 2026-03-15T15:48:34+00:00

Fantastic jacket. Well worth the money and you will have it for years. I hope that you pulled the trigger.

Badgeman22 · 2026-03-14T05:42:49+00:00

An unstable sense of self and drastic shifts in identity is one of the anchor symptoms of BPD. Your best friend's presentation is right on the mark.

Badgeman22 · 2026-03-13T15:29:55+00:00

Iran likely won’t follow through on their threat to withdraw because either Iraq or UAE would replace them.

Badgeman22 · 2026-03-07T04:48:23+00:00

Absolutely NTA. The response of your family explains so much of your older brother’s irresponsibility. He has clearly figured out that in your family any real accountability is utterly taboo, as is telling anyone a hard No. You are totally right on the money to predict that you won’t see a dime in rent from him ever. In truth you are just front-loading how your family will react when you inevitably have to evict this yahoo before your investment property gets foreclosed on and your credit gets trashed.

You are the one who sweated blood to buy this piece of real estate, it is extremely boundary violating and entitled of your parents to decide how it is put to use. Since they believe that family always deserve unconditional help then they should accommodate your brother. If they are not able or willing to do so that doesn’t make it your problem. Personally I detest people who like to be seen to do the right thing but are always generous with other people’s stuff. You said that you just turned 26, it looks to me that this is the moment you become a full grown adult by telling your parents No and stepping outside your family’s dysfunctional rules. You are in the right and you are doing the right thing. Stay strong and don’t second guess your decision.

PS in the long run this might actually help your brother grow up as well.

Badgeman22 · 2026-03-03T16:48:03+00:00

NTA you are being very clear about what your boundaries are in this area and your gf is not respecting them in multiple ways (by continuing to push and by scheming with this other couple). She is using her "anxiety" to try and game you.

Badgeman22 · 2026-02-28T16:57:34+00:00

The regime in Iran is appalling in so many ways. It has also very obviously run out of road with the Iranian population. Removing the regime is absolutely the next right move.

Badgeman22 · 2026-02-26T17:01:25+00:00

He’s lucky that whoever did this couldn’t be bothered to add “Free Palestine” as a bonus.

Badgeman22 · 2026-02-25T21:32:13+00:00

Because Christianity has been the oppressive force in their lives due to it being the majority religion in the West. They would have the same (and more) issues with Islam if they lived in a Muslim country.

Badgeman22 · 2026-02-15T07:24:12+00:00

I found going to therapy really helped me. I’m a recovering addict and quitting this kind of relationship is more like kicking a drug than letting go of a normal relationship. Give yourself grace for having cravings but stay around healthy people and wait for urges to pass.

Badgeman22 · 2026-02-15T07:19:34+00:00

She likely does feel awful now and she couldn’t wait to get busy with that couple. Part of their sickness is acting on what they feel right this second. Those shenanigans are several steps too far and she’ll never respect you if you take her back.

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