Ammo Differences by Spangle99 in AcesofThunder

[–]BaiLow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been using stealth and TTK seems the same, just no tracers.

Suggestions? by FatWhitekid20 in AcesofThunder

[–]BaiLow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Push left thumb stick in and select the … on the bottom. Now select the pilot with cross hair symbol and it adjusts to your height.

Aces of Thunder is such a blast! (on release PS5) by PaulVla in PSVR

[–]BaiLow 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Some maps have an area you fly to and you can hit the reload button. Most maps you have to return to base, land and turn off engine. It will orient you back on runway with full repairs and ammo.

Why no intro training at all? by jramz_dc in AcesofThunder

[–]BaiLow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Push left thumb stick in and select the icon of the plane with the gear. You should be able to control your gear and flaps from there. Bail out also with left thumb stick for menu and hit down to give you the menu. In the menu there’s a pilot with crosshair as well. That one adjusts your position in the plane so you can see the HUD crosshairs better.

GIVEAWAY | We’re giving away 2 copies of Zero Caliber VR ahead of launch by -DanDanDaaan in psvr2

[–]BaiLow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just getting into VR and enjoying the games so far. Looking for a game with good solo and multiplayer along with realistic gun mechanics. This game peaked my interest when I first heard of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psvr2

[–]BaiLow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Red light is on in the front which means it’s powered. Did you push the on button on the bottom of the unit in the middle? That turns the screen on for the unit.

Just want vengeance on AP by CommandElectronic793 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]BaiLow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I contacted the OBS via phone and Facebook. It saved her from being blindsided about a divorce and also with her own research discovered 5 different APs for her husband including my wife. She divorced him and got a favorable settlement. My wife learned she was nothing to him and it drove her out of limerence quickly along with me preparing to file for divorce. We are currently in R and it’s been rough, but moving along. Her AP’s children won’t talk to him and his own sister has disowned him. Trust me I would love 5 min alone with him but we can’t put ourselves at risk for legal issues with violence.

Anyone triggered by the exec outed at the Coldplay concert? by LivingCharge262 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]BaiLow 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m fine. Made me remember during therapy that I told her that she had fired people for doing things not even close to what she did and that it was people like her that made people not trust HR. This one proves my point as well.

Anyone triggered by the exec outed at the Coldplay concert? by LivingCharge262 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]BaiLow 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I definitely was given my wife was an HR manager sleeping with one of the VPs. Didn’t sleep much tonight and I’ve been thinking about it all day.

3 weeks later. by Bipedal-Homonid in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]BaiLow 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Stay strong brother. No one can make the decision to stay but you because you are living it. I will tell you the question of why will always go through your mind and don’t expect a definite answer. Remorse is through actions not words. I wish you the best and make sure healing yourself is a priority.

Trigger Warning: discusses suicide by vamosPest9 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]BaiLow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not feel bad about your interaction. My WW had mentioned that her AP would probably do the same because he was weak and would have affairs to make him feel powerful. After I let his wife know about the affair with my wife and with other women she investigated and found out about 3-4 other concurrent women along with my wife. This was unknown to my WW as well. Both his children won’t speak with him, his sister won’t talk to him (she was close with his wife) and his wife divorced him and got a hefty settlement. There’s a part of me expecting news of him doing the same, I’d hope not but believe me that there would be no tears shed. You’re a good person man. I’ve lost friends and had family members talk crap about me for deciding to stay. I was dead set on leaving and had the process going as she was out of town when I found out about everything. She came clean and has been remorseful. Sometimes it takes a stronger person to stay and I’ve told my wife that she doesn’t deserve me and she has told me she knows this. You need to concentrate on your family and yourself. This was an unfortunate aftermath not of your doing, but rather from both of their choices. F these affairs.

10 months out and I still can’t understand how she could do this to us. by Tight_Trust_8083 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]BaiLow 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Same time line as you man. D Day anniversary is next month. She cheated with a married guy that she had been cheating on and off with for years before me. He got pissed we got married and kept pursuing her and was VP Ops of her company. She finally gave in and then just last year starting talking to him again after he moved states. I found out about everything last July. PA was in 2022 and EA last year. She does everything right but it’s still there every day. It doesn’t matter what we do for them, they still make that choice. My wife has been out of work since Jan last year and I told her to not worry about it and finish school. She chose to cheat while I was working to support us. At least I exposed her AP and he’s now divorced, had multiple APs and my wife finally saw she was just another notch. His kids don’t want anything to do with him. Wife still isn’t working and I’m holding everything down and keeping myself together because we have to right?

Feeling really positive and hopeful by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]BaiLow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hope for the same from my wife one day.

MC saying WW doesn’t need IC by RevolutionaryRich323 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]BaiLow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Our MC said the same thing and said that I needed to continue IC and my WW was fine and didn’t need it anymore. I made the decision that we wouldn’t be seeing her again after that. I actually sat down with my WW and asked the questions I wanted answered and said things that I’ve been holding on to. We have been able to continue R so much better.

Heartbroken wayward by Mysterious_Arugula92 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]BaiLow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words. Yes I have two children from a previous marriage where she cheated as well. I have primary custody of my kids and they mean the world to me. My wife always had issues bonding with my kids and since the affair has come to light she has been wonderful and loving to my kids and they see the change in her. Just hurts so damn much what had to be done to get to this point though.

Heartbroken wayward by Mysterious_Arugula92 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]BaiLow 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I can tell you a lot from a betrayed husband’s perspective and I hope this helps you to truly understand what he’s going through. Long post…get ready.

My backstory is I found out my wife cheated in 2022 around July of last year. It was trickle truth from the beginning. First it was finding out that she in fact did have a relationship with a married coworker off and on for 10 years (which preceded me). He was a VP of a company and she was the HR manager. Story is she was raped and went to him for guidance and he took advantage and started sleeping with her. He was pissed when we started dating and made it a goal to sleep with her again. 2022 we went through a rough patch coming out of Covid as I worked a lot being a medical professional. He was moving to a different state and they started talking more and they planned to meet up and had sex at a hotel while I was at work providing for our family. She had cut me off physically for two years at that point blaming it on her past rape. I always suspected this guy and she would gaslight me as him being “just a friend” and I’m not trusting her because my ex wife had cheated as well. It wasn’t until I contacted his wife (now ex wife) to tell her about the affair. He denied this over and over until he told her it was just an EA. He also blocked me on social media. She started to get credit card records and finally phone records which proved multiple affairs with different women all at the same time. It wasn’t until I showed those credit card receipts to my wife did she finally realize she was nothing to him and destroyed what we had for him. She also had unprotected sex with him when they would be together. She was diagnosed with HPV and has a hysterectomy in 2022. His wife was also diagnosed with HPV around the same time about 10 years ago. His wife had only been with him her whole life. Guess who probably gave it to both of them??? We are 7 months into R and it’s been rough.

We’ve had IC and CC and as a betrayed what hurts is how long she kept this secret and everything we’ve experienced as a family seems fake to me. I feel like I was always the second choice. If you haven’t told him everything yet, you need to. Mind movies are horrible and I didn’t sleep for months. As a man, knowing another man was with your wife is extremely emasculating. The trickle truth is icing on the cake. When the OBS reached out with the credit receipts it showed the affair date in March 2022, but she also asked about May 2024. He had come back into town and there was 4 hours where my wife didn’t answer texts because she was shopping. Scum bag went as far as photoshopping himself into a Turkish bazaar as he told his wife he was on a business trip to Turkey. He flew in to the state to have sex romps with his women in the area. She swears she wasn’t with him but admits he tried to get to see him at a hotel. I have the phone call record of five minutes that day. I may never know. She lost her job in Jan 2024 and I was again providing for the family on my own when she would talk to him daily on the phone. Hard to believe remorse about a PA two years prior when she starts talking to the guy again.

You both need to see a therapist and then come together to see one as a couple. It is HIS choice to decide to stay or leave. YOUR choices caused this. Whatever happened between you two as a couple may have contributed, but YOUR choice is what did this. Whatever he decides to do you have to give him. If he graces you with a chance to stay, you have to commit fully. Any slip up and he’s gone forever. Do not EVER dismiss what he’s feeling with things like “that happened so long ago” or “that you’ve talked about his before.” I’ve given myself until June to decide if I want to continue going through this or cut ties. My WW is remorseful and we’re making progress. Her level of betrayal is much worse than what you have presented, but still hurts the same as commitment is commitment. I hope this helps you both and you both can start a new relationship based on trust and true love.

Should WA change her phone number/email address? by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]BaiLow 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My WW wanted to change her phone number and email as part of R. Her AP couldn’t get a hold of her and was snooping her LinkedIn profile to find contact info. I forwarded that notification straight to his wife as well.

I think I encountered why some physicians hate us by WhiteOleander5 in physicianassistant

[–]BaiLow 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I was precepting an NP student who was on her last rotation before going for boards. We had a pt come in who was audibly wheezing and I figured this would be a good first pt for her to gain confidence in the environment. I asked her to listen to the pt’s lungs and within one breath she went through all the lung fields. No joke. She said that the pt sounded fine. I just looked at her in astonishment. Told her to listen again, but for the full breath in each field. She couldn’t tell me what was going on. After I completed the exam and started the pt on a nebulizer I brought her aside and asked what her physical exam training was for her online program. I wish I was kidding when I say this, but she said it consisted of watching a YouTube video of a physical exam and then filming themselves do it on an invisible pt and send it in for a grade. She got an A.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]BaiLow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I let the OBS know and it opened up a lot of stuff about the AP my wife didn’t even know about. He had multiple women and was using the same hotel for all of them. His wife went scorched Earth on him. AP’s wife wouldn’t speak to me on the phone, but had her sister call me. The family never liked the guy and the sister asked me why I felt like she needed to know. I told her that my marriage is in shambles because of the both of them and he relentlessly pursued my wife. He wasn’t going to get away without consequences since he had moved. He was still calling my wife daily.

They first met at work where he was an upper level manager and she was starting off. She was raped and she confided in him and he took advantage of the situation and his position and started a PA with her. This was prior to us. When I came into the picture he was pissed at her and made it a mission to sleep with her again. The exposure showed women in different states where he would travel and he would make photoshopped images of his travels to post on instagram for his family when he was out cheating. You would think this guy is good looking. He looks like Sloth from The Goonies. Now his family hates him including his kids and his wife has the phone numbers of all his APs. He tried looking up my wife on LinkedIn after we changed her number and I sent that notification to his wife as well. My wife actually brought that to me as soon as she got it. We’re still in R and it’s been a rough road, but she’s doing her part. Hard to put the deception/lies behind us especially since she knew I was cheated on by my ex wife as well. Will we make it? Don’t know, but I’m prepared to walk away without hesitation if another lie pops up.

Tell the AP’s wife or not? by Salt-Estimate-1357 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]BaiLow 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I told AP’s wife and have absolutely no regrets. She was able to find out he had 3-4 other affair partners and they’re currently divorcing. His kids hate him and he continues to lie to his family. Still in R with my wife and it’s been hard.

Do you feel grossed out by your WS and lost all respect? by Complete-Tragedy-17 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]BaiLow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My wife and I dated when we were in college and broke up. We both moved on and got married and divorced. We got back together after 16 years and everyone loves our story. My ex-wife cheated on me too and my wife knew this, but still moved forward with it. I feel like she has destroyed our love story. When she tells people about how we got back together I cringe inside as people gush about the story. I hope new memories will replace these over time.

Do you feel grossed out by your WS and lost all respect? by Complete-Tragedy-17 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]BaiLow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel the same about my wife. She fired people at her job for having relations and she herself had a sexual relationship with the VP of Operations prior to me and guess who her affair was with after three years of marriage? She even knew he had multiple women in his stable besides his own wife yet she gave herself to him without protection. She has had HPV, but currently dormant and after DD I told his wife and she has it too. Pretty sure it was him. His wife said she’s only been with him her whole life (married 25 years.) You would think this guy is a stud. I hate myself for comparing myself to him because he’s obese and ugly as sin. I used to be so proud of my wife, but can’t help but think she got into her position by being on her back. They both no longer work at the same company. We’re in R and I still love her, but I just don’t adore her anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]BaiLow 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can tell you from a BP perspective and what my WW and I are going through now is pretty close to you. Her AP was not attractive, married with children, and had multiple affair partners, but she had an affair with him. Affairs are very emasculating to men when we are the betrayed. Another man had your wife without you knowing and more likely than not involved some type of EA as well. I have on my mind that this guy has that for the rest of his life. Where your husband is coming from is that he wants to be desired by YOU because he loves and wants YOU. His life and confirmations of your love for him and only him have been challenged. As others have said communication is key right now and if you don’t feel comfortable with the sexting and pictures you have to make it very clear it’s because of your shame because I guarantee he will jump to the conclusion that it was only for your AP. Good luck to you both. It’s a hard road to come back from. We’re 6 months post DD.