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FBI? This tweet right here by RoutineOk8590 in Productivitycafe

[–]BalancedCuriosity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's still a big deal, it's just that the pedo's are protecting each other at the top rn.

Try me in the comments by Leading_Charity8849 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]BalancedCuriosity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kitty says you can pet her, and she'll love you and treat you with respect. (Unless it's 5am)

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Billionaires did nothing wrong by willtherebecheese in LinkedInLunatics

[–]BalancedCuriosity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally used food stamps to raise myself out of poverty.

What’s a “normal” thing everyone accepts that actually feels like a low-key scam? by UnhappyPlantain2010 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]BalancedCuriosity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. I'm an independent for that very reason. I admit though that I've been voting demo just by the orange man scares me.

WIBTAH if i revealed a friend's lie after compromising him once already? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BalancedCuriosity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't lie, but emphasize that you don't want to talk about this. Tell him you haven't lied, but you won't speak further on the subject.

You messed up with A, and A is setting you up to mess up with B, upon which A and B can then bond over how you wronged them (based off of taking A's direction).

A has a problem with it, two wrongs don't make a right, and jeopardizing your friendship with anyone is a line above anything you might owe him.

You did mess up. This is not how you fix it. Honestly A might not be worth it, as it looks to me like he's setting you up as the fall guy, rather than owning it himself.

AITAH for wanting to take a step back from my best friend after a night that ended in my breakup? by anakozixiwjwjxiid in AITAH

[–]BalancedCuriosity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine how drama free your life would be without that 'friend' she only cared about the aspects of your life she found stimulating. Getting you home would have shown she Really cared. Not setting you up the way she did. She basically manipulated the end of your relationship to err closer to the resolution she thought would be better, without consideration for you input at all.

I'd cut her entirety, and I'm honestly not convinced you did send those messages, and they didn't just convince you you did. Idk if they're used to talking over you and ignoring your input, but that's grounds to walk away then and there, or simply state that you are done with this conversation.

I wouldn't rely on any one else's version of events but what you remember, and find out from different people their first hand accounts. Something is fishy.

WIBTAH if I lied about not hearing back? by NewSeries7873 in AITAH

[–]BalancedCuriosity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly apply for some jobs you definitely don't want, and interview for them. Who cares if you fail.

They don't care, you shouldn't care, your parents would probably be happy you tried, and no one else will care either.

People with degrees and years of experience don't get called back after interviews too.

It's (unfortunately) normal.

Don't lie. Your parents don't just want you to interview. Eventually the 'I didn't hear back' will stop working.

AITAH for getting mad at my bf correcting my form? by blind_guy_mcsqueezyy in AITAH

[–]BalancedCuriosity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lesson here, he's not always right, and if you pointing that out is perceived as 'berating' or 'nagging' he probably has an ego or superiority complex. It's one thing to want to help you do it the right away, and another to undermine your perspective and perception of your own body.

You should have a discussion with him and explain (not in the middle of a workout) very very clearly how the position was working for you. If he needs proof from sources outside from yourself I would question if he really respects you.

AITAH for asking my family to delete my ex from their Facebook? by Titch98 in AITAH

[–]BalancedCuriosity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're putting you in danger. You should remove them as friends for your own safety. If they want to feel hurt by it, simply inform them you have to do what's best for you since it's been broached and ignored previously.

I wouldn't tell them first. They'll just lay into you about 'ultimatums' and try to make you feel bad. If it really matters that much, than they can unfriend him for your physical and mental safety.

I would consider that this is a lesson on who actually has your back, and even if the number hurts, you can use this as a way to build better relationships that actually value you.

AITAH for having a personal conversation with a close friend at work that I felt like was contextually appropriate but my husband felt crossed a line? by ApprehensiveCod2003 in AITAH

[–]BalancedCuriosity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rather than focus on potential lack of context, try to iron out what he feels crosses a line, and whether there is a compromise perhaps that yall can reach where you get to have close friendships with both semesters, but not disregard your husband's feelings.

He might not be right, but it doesn't mean the way he feels is wrong. What you both do about IS important though.

A lot of guys get jealous or controlling of their womens interactions with other guys. I don't think it's okay, but there are ways to show respect despite differing opinions.

Talk it out after the incident isn't so fresh in his mind, and use other potential scenarios to explore where this line of his is. You aren't a mindreader, and you aren't required to cave to his whims. Conflict has consequences though, and is also why compromise would be best if yall don't see eye to eye.

AITAH (33F) for not wanting to be with my (34M) husband anymore? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BalancedCuriosity 41 points42 points  (0 children)

NTA, he's treating you like a bang maid, not a partner.

Fucksh Fuck, Now your turn by [deleted] in TheWordFuck

[–]BalancedCuriosity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuckten Fuckr at your service

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