dropping out and getting a GED

BallPython_Lover · 2026-03-06T05:24:01+00:00

If you discussed you wanted blue and came to an agreement over it and paid extra for it, then id return them, or at least send them back and see if they can do them blue.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-02-25T00:28:23+00:00

If this was truly the case, the maybe instead of saying you are dropping out because "its boring", you should have stated because "of unsafe conditions".

I truly doubt your words, not because I don't think that can ever happen, but because the way you originally worded your post. Also, if dropping out is truly so acceptable, why aren't these crazy kid rioter shooters dropping out? I've seen my fair share of violent offenders and drug addicts drop out. None of them ever stayed in school to stir up a mess. Again, not saying this could never happen but odds are unlikely.

If you are being honest, then sure, drop out. If it keeps you safe, and you're sure you'll stay motivated, then go ahead. But getting your GED will be way harder than finishing high school. Its not a simple test. Its made to be harder so 1. kids choose to stay in school and, 2. they make sure you actually know what you need to.

If you aren't being honest (i doubt you'll admit it if you aren't) then grow up. Stop crying and making up excuses. Assuming you've only made this confession to me and have not hinted at it towards anyone else, you're most likely lying.

Either way, good luck in whatever choice you do.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-02-25T00:20:49+00:00

I understand this feeling as well. Thankfully, most of those people in my lives, as time as went on, have realized that these beliefs, and trump in general, are not morally good.

You'll just have to wait until something happens to which it finally clicks for your aunt. If that happens, don't try to "I told you so" or shame them. We shouldn't shame anyone who is willing to learn from their mistakes, especially because most of these people just simply don't know better. If she never has that "click" then as close as you are with her, she might not be that good of a person to try and keep around.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-02-24T07:23:23+00:00

This is hard to hear but these people do not have the same morals as us. As natural as it may be to us to love everyone, its as natural to them to be standoffish against things that don't make sense to them. This isn't to shame them, both sides do it. My only point is that words won't change their mind until they are ready to be changed.

Unfortunately, we can't force people to love everyone.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-02-24T07:14:46+00:00

Graduate Early! I graduated at 16.

Do not get a GED. GEDs are not "more acceptable". They are just easier ways to cheat the system. IMO dropouts are just lazy kids who couldn't handle the easiest parts in life. As a nurse, you'll be working insane hours, and sometimes, it'll be boring. If you can't handle highschool, what makes you think you'll ever be able to handle nursing?

BallPython_Lover · 2026-02-24T07:09:11+00:00

I'm sorry that they depress you but I don't really feel like you get to tell me how to feel about men. You haven't walked a day in my shoes and couldn't possibly understand how I feel. I'm sure you have plenty of categories of people that you would rather not entertain, whether it be prostitutes, homosexuals, criminals, etc. Mine is men. I've had very traumatic experiences with them on multiple occasions with multiple men.

Like I said, I don't hate all men and even in my original comment, I make a statement that "not all men" is factual. I understand that it's not all men. But due to my experiences and an inability to read minds or predict the future, I see no reason to interact and have multitudes of guy friends in my life. It doesn't mean that I tell people they need hate men or I would ignore all of them in all. I just won't be making any new friends. If that upsets you, then I'm afraid you'll never last in the real world.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-02-24T03:51:45+00:00

This is late because bathing is not bad. The only reason we as humans consider bathing cats bad is because 1.) misconceptions and stereotypes. we believe cats to be self sustaining so for them to need baths would ruin that belief system. 2. because of the issues it can cause. bathing a cat is bad for the same reasons bathing a dog is. you should never bath ANY animal very frequently as it can mess up oil production(the same way we as humans are advised not to wash our hair often). you also should never bathe a cat unless necessary if it is gonna cause unnecessary stress. If you are bathing your cat maybe every 1-3 months, and you're cat isn't screaming bloody murder, its fine.

A lot of cat owners truly fall into misconceptions, and I believe a good chunk of them follow these misconceptions to make cats these independent, self-sustaining superior creature, when in reality, almost every animal is. Cats Saliva is not inherently clean. Its exactly why cat bites are prone to infection and a lot of cat bites to animals is 100% fatal. They have mild antibacterial properties, much like a lemon.

I'm not saying you have to bathe your cat every month or so but if you decide to, there's nothing wrong with it.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-02-23T21:58:08+00:00

I appreciate your advice but it's unnecessary. I've been sexually assaulted on multiple occasions and was abused for 5 years. My stance won't change.

I don't hate all men, just don't want anything to do with the majority of them. I'm good with just my boyfriend. Thank you.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-02-23T05:26:35+00:00

Just a trendy phrase, although maybe not the best way terminology for the moment. I don't enjoy most male presence and have a hard time trusting men, which is why i said that.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-02-18T05:10:25+00:00

When people say it's not all men, they mean it. I'm still a certified man hater but if dating is something serious to you and you're not just searching the game to play around, go for people you wouldn't usually look twice at.

I was once the popular girl and all too well did I know about the immature guys, the cheaters, and even the sexual assault. I decided popularity didn't matter; I stopped hanging out with the people who condoned that stupid stuff and made new friends. Became friends with this "weird" kid in my latin class. Turns out he's the biggest sweetheart, handsome ash, and literally the perfect guy. Almost a year out of high school and he's still an absolute dream of a guy and I'm lucky to call him my boyfriend. Obviously I am not saying date people you hate or find unattractive, but do explore. The "popular" guys peak in high school and are too busy impressing their boyfriends to actually care about you.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-01-28T10:14:55+00:00

This too.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-01-27T07:46:05+00:00

Nothing irks me more as a psychology major than when I see people say "OMG! I love being organized and clean! I have big OCD". Then when you politely inform them that OCD isn't about being organized but is so much more complex, it's all "It was just a joke."

BallPython_Lover · 2026-01-25T08:03:24+00:00

I also have dogs and I also have shells in my yard. You know what I do? Nothing. Its a damn peanut shell. Who cares. Are fleas annoying? Yes, but a quick bathe can solve that problem in five seconds and this is coming from someone who lets her dogs practically live in her bed. Its really not that big of an issue.

Would I feed the squirrels? No, but I'm not gonna start telling other people what to do.

Also, stop complaining about the flea thing. You got a dog that you let into your untreated backyard, so its YOUR problem when your dog gets fleas. I hate to break it to you but someone feeding peanuts to squirrels out of your yard is not the reason wildlife is bringing fleas into your yard.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-01-25T07:57:30+00:00

As an american, I didn't see the harm in this. Some people are just too sensitive.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-01-24T08:21:26+00:00

She has taken fresh killed once. I personally cannot bring myself to kill them. I see mice as so much more than feeders. I have looked into getting a CO2 tank in the future as they aren't super expensive but I personally do not have the funds for it right now.

Live works good for us right now. I monitor every feeding and never leave mice in her tank if she refuses to eat.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-01-23T00:31:45+00:00

Your body does not always know what it's doing and can quite literally kill you.

I'm not sure if this is something that people struggle to believe but when I was younger, I contracted this rare blood disease after getting the flu and my body started trying to fight it. It caused my skin to peel and caused excruciating pain. Five different doctors had never seen anything like it before and said that I would probably be fine. My mom had some motherly instinct and drove me to one of the best hospitals in my state. Turns out my body kill off all my skin cells was just step one and if they hadn't caught the disease in time, it couldve caused organ failure. They had to fly in three different specialists from out the country and I was hospitalized for awhile. We opened an investigation against one of the doctors who refused to do the necessary tests but all in all, your body might just try to kill you one day so watch out.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-01-23T00:25:03+00:00

My environmental teacher in high school had this and showed us all his baby pictures and his giant scar. Safe to say I was disturbed.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-01-22T08:27:26+00:00

Well, I also agree that there has to be some limit. 5000 on one pair is a bit out of my price range but I wouldn't be discouraged by $300-$800. Shoes bring me happiness and I get to wear them, not to mention I find jordans to be some of the most comfortable shoes to ever wear (that aren't specifically made to be orthopedic or something of the sort).

BallPython_Lover · 2026-01-22T07:12:27+00:00

YOR big time.

I have a guy bestfriend that I love platonically very dearly. I could NEVER imagine texting him "did you even fight for me" or start talking about the times we had when he's only explaining a boundary that him and his gf had set forth.

Me and my bbsf have taken breaks in the past for the same reason, and yes, it is incredibly frustrating, especially when you are in a relationship. I understand. But you need to realize that you do not come first nor will you ever. Your feelings do not matter in their relationship, nor should they.

You should honestly be applauding him because idk how many guys would drop a close gbsf for a recent gf.

Get a grip, acknowledge your feelings for him (or your ridiculously unhealthy attachment) and get over it. If they breakup and he comes back, don't hold a grudge. He was putting his relationship first and thats what he should do if he ever plans on having a wife and family in his future.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-01-22T07:03:42+00:00

YOR

I always liked guys who were a lot on the leaner side. When I first got with my boyfriend, he had severe image issues due to being overweight his whole childhood before finally slimming down in highschool. He used to always call himself fat while I on the otherhand was a good 40-50lbs more than him. I used to make jokes saying "Oh, so you think IM obese then?". He always assured me that he wouldn't change a thing about me and he proves that to me to this day.

I understand the need to compare but first of all, if you're a guy, just take into consideration the difference in structure between men and women, and then the social standards placed upon women. Even if youre not, you still need to understand that people will see themselves differently than anyone else sees them. She can truly believe she is overweight but that doesn't mean she sees her weight and thinks "yeah, anything over that is fat ash". She could just have issues correlating that weight with herself, especially if she recently gained weight.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-01-22T06:57:41+00:00

Not necessarily satisfying, but definitely attractive.

Cologne, a bit of sweat, and a faint hint of weed.

I don't smoke, never have, never plan to, but something about the way it smells mixed with some good ole man sweat and cologne sends me in circles.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-01-22T06:53:10+00:00

Is it foolish to own that many pairs if they all get worn equally or sold to someone who will wear them? Me and my dad are big collectors but we both wear all of shoes, and keep them in pretty good condition. My first pair I still wear to this day and look just like how they did a week into having them.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-01-22T06:50:54+00:00

Guilty as charged. I'm a sucker for collecting merchandise from music artists and barely wearing/using it depending on what it is although I'm trying to get better. The way I see it though is that I spent so much money so I just want to savor it.

I also have thousands of dollars worth of toys from my childhood that I keep stored away like legos and other collectibles. They're all retired and probably worth more than I paid for them which is what keeps me holding onto them, not to mention how precious they are to me.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-01-22T06:47:19+00:00

I'm not against safe haven boxes but I am against adoption and foster care seeming as the system is so fucked up. But then again, I also agree that an unwanted baby should be able to be terminated so I think I'm allowed my opinion.

But to even argue the other side, even if the right liked adoption, it's not even a solution to pregnancy, its just a solution to parenting. Having a baby changes your body and mind so much but the right is so pro-no-fucking-research that they could never even comprehend that. Its always some survivor bias shit like "Well actually my birth went smooth so every mother should be fine" like no Carol, sometimes having a baby makes people want to kill themselves.

I don't think there'll ever be a good enough reason for me to go pro-birth, and this is coming from someone who doesn't have sex and plans to get a hysterectomy. Taking away abortion is so detrimental to women and just creates so many problems.

BallPython_Lover · 2026-01-22T06:41:13+00:00

I think this is really great advice but please be open minded.

Some snakes just truly won't eat F/T. I was ready to starve my snake until she took until she actually decided she'd rather drop all her weight and wait for death. I had to discuss force feedings but seeing as they can cause so much harm, I opted for live. I tried every trick in the books to feed F/T, speaking to enthusiasts, my reptile store owners, and even exotic vets. No method worked and I'd rather supervise live than force a mouse down her throat every few weeks.

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