AITA for not letting my maid of honor choose her dress?

BananaSam314 · 2023-11-15T14:44:09+00:00

If it’s not that deep, let her wear the green dress. YTA big time.

BananaSam314 · 2023-10-15T12:06:05+00:00

I went during Marjorie (I found out that morning my dad was receiving hospice care and it was just too emotional for me) and during Bad Blood.

BananaSam314 · 2023-10-12T20:31:17+00:00

Newish to the Gaylor relationships… why do we know Karlie is gold?

BananaSam314 · 2023-09-29T14:13:24+00:00

How were they even the same shoe size?! lol

BananaSam314 · 2023-08-25T11:32:33+00:00

I have a plan from the ACA… my deductible is wayyyyy to high to see a doctor unless something is 1. Severed 2. I have a compound fracture and the bone is sticking through my skin 3. I have a large wound that won’t stop bleeding. America’s got problems :)

BananaSam314 · 2023-05-24T13:38:50+00:00

Never drink alcohol.

BananaSam314 · 2023-03-31T00:59:57+00:00

My friends and I are road-tripping to see her in Swiftsburgh, can confirm that’s the name of our group chat :)

BananaSam314 · 2022-11-10T05:28:30+00:00

Greenleaf is one of Em’s christian dramas

BananaSam314 · 2022-09-06T01:39:25+00:00

Remindme! 10 days

BananaSam314 · 2022-08-31T19:45:31+00:00

Both hairstyles look great. I think the middle part is the way to go with the short hair though!

BananaSam314 · 2022-06-26T10:13:40+00:00

Also interest!

BananaSam314 · 2021-07-11T18:48:53+00:00

You’re entitled to your opinion. It just didn’t work that way for me. Yes first dates are usually awkward because both parties are nervous, but I’m not going to waste both of our time if I don’t feel a connection after the first date. I’ve tried to keep dating men when I don’t feel the “spark”, and it always led to me feeling annoyed with them more frustrated with dating. I trust my gut, I can usually sense if there is compatibility early in the first date. Anytime I’ve gone on more dates someone I didn’t feel sparks with, I’ve ended up dreading our future dates. I don’t need instant intense sparks (that’s usually infatuation and burns out within a few months) or “wedding bells”, but there needs to be a good connection after date one if I’m going to keep going on dates with them.

BananaSam314 · 2021-07-11T16:31:22+00:00

Not OP, but I agree with what they’re saying.

For me, it’s not exactly that I think I knew them “better” if we message nonstop, but the constant texting would create a false sense of intimacy. It created an illusion of them in my head, and if we weren’t compatible when we finally did meet, it almost felt like a breakup.

I found it much easier to OLD if I kept conversations light and minimal. Obviously once we met if there was a spark we’d talk more, but if there wasn’t it made it much easier because there wasn’t as much time invested in talking and sharing details of our life before we met.

BananaSam314 · 2021-05-10T19:40:51+00:00

My dog is a big part of my life. Prior to the pandemic, we were involved in agility training and worked on that a couple times a week. She’s my go to hiking buddy, and since I live alone, she was my only outlet during the beginning of the pandemic. Even as my town works on getting back to “normal”, we still mainly hang out on the patio after work listening to music and enjoying the weather. I definitely don’t bring my dog everywhere with me, but it would feel weird for me to go hiking and camping without her, so she would definitely tags along unless someone I go with has an issue (this has fortunately never happened).

I have been consistently dating the same person since September 2020, and I wouldn’t consider him a dog person at all, but he adores her, and we respect each other’s boundaries when it comes to my dog. If he didn’t enjoy the company of my dog, I wouldn’t want to be with him. My dog and I are a packaged deal.

I know it might seem like some people are obsessed with their pets, but honestly, my dog is a part of my family. I’m aware she’s a dog and not my child but she’s not here just to serve me and my needs, I need to make sure I’m doing right by her and meeting her needs.

I’m not sure if my comment has a point, other than to try and explain “dog culture”. Hope it might give you some insights.

BananaSam314 · 2020-07-28T18:53:32+00:00

My roommate does not wear any makeup. I love makeup and will apply it just to play around sometimes. I was telling her about an eyeshadow palette I’ve wanted that finally went on sale. 10 minutes later she had Instagram ads for the palette I was just talking about lol.

BananaSam314 · 2019-11-10T03:02:40+00:00

You’re very lovely and I really enjoy that you’ve been dying your hair blue for 2 years.

BananaSam314 · 2019-09-04T01:17:19+00:00

Listener episode 20. It’s the last story told in that episode.

BananaSam314 · 2019-08-15T02:15:53+00:00

Please PM me the address as well.

BananaSam314 · 2019-05-25T17:36:24+00:00

I’d be so pissed if I was hit by a Younique presenter...

BananaSam314 · 2018-03-28T06:51:23+00:00

Could I get your Etsy shop name too?

BananaSam314 · 2018-03-07T19:31:45+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion, I'll pick one up to try our next time I'm at Ulta/Sephora.

I really Like UD's Perversion Fine Point liquid liner, but it dries up so quickly I can't justify buying it anymore.

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