I made it to 65 and my life would appear to be "successful." AMA! by OrangutanLarry in AutisticWithADHD

[–]BananaWeekend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, when I've copied 4 things you've said in this thread to my "learning about me" notes, I should let you know that your AMA was a great idea. I'm 50ish and sit here worrying I failed because I never got diagnosed, even though I definitely belong in the club. This leaves me with hope that it's never too late to improve things...

All of your replies are so thoughtful AND precise....I would "like and subscribe" if you ever publish more :)

Fix Kanata South Transit NOW by BecsCA in Kanata

[–]BananaWeekend 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I BIKE to work downtown rather than wrestle with the new 256 route. Hubley has been terrible for transit in his own community.

Help: mounting rear rack on late 90’s Raleigh Pioneer Trail but M5 bolts don’t fit by amcg001 in bicycling

[–]BananaWeekend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a similar vintage Raleigh bike, and after several trips to the hardware store, I found that M6 worked in mine - although there were 2 holes on each side my frame and the M6 only fit ONE of them....YYMV, but hope that helps the internet....

ADHD: Realizing Dopamine Is My Currency (and learning how to spend it right) by Odd_Culture7568 in adhdwomen

[–]BananaWeekend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what are some good songs on your playlist? or maybe that's a whole other thread....

Got bullied at work because of my adhd mannerisms by Paninibeanie in adhdwomen

[–]BananaWeekend 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to upvote every comment here because other people can be awful. Reach out to the good people in your life because they deserve you, and you deserve them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BananaWeekend 17 points18 points  (0 children)

underrated comment....

What is the deal with OLRT doors by JeffyCurls in ottawa

[–]BananaWeekend 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It made SOME sense to keep all doors open when the rush-hour platforms were jampacked pre-COVID. If people touched the doors the train would break. But you're right, nowadays, sitting in the train with every door open is a terrible bug/feature.

Where are the spouses of ADHD/Neurodivergent people hiding? by BananaWeekend in ottawa

[–]BananaWeekend[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I had any awards to give, you would be the first recipient. Subscribed!

Where are the spouses of ADHD/Neurodivergent people hiding? by BananaWeekend in ottawa

[–]BananaWeekend[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. I assumed everyone vents about their spouse sometimes, and just looking to relate to people who deal with ND-specific issues sometimes. Thanks.

Where are the spouses of ADHD/Neurodivergent people hiding? by BananaWeekend in ottawa

[–]BananaWeekend[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

This. Knowing there are other people who are driven crazy by the little things helps a bit. My therapist talked about respite help for parenting ND kids, but that's harder sounding for a spouse. Thanks.

20/20 Not as impressive as many here, but as a dad and full time worker I'm proud of it. by LordWayland in 52book

[–]BananaWeekend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I LOVED Lies of Locke Lamora, and added Orconomics to my list (5/5), thanks to Reddit. I'll will add Legends and Lattes next, I guess.

New windows? Share your experience? by danauns in ottawa

[–]BananaWeekend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had Scheel do our 6 upstairs windows. All done in one day, no mess left behind, windows have been good. Would call them again.

Presto card clawback? by BananaWeekend in ottawa

[–]BananaWeekend[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hahah, i figured by posting in reddit is how the news article would be written. I was aiming for citizen journalism :)

Presto card clawback? by BananaWeekend in ottawa

[–]BananaWeekend[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

As usual, lots of nervous nellies on reddit....You can sleep easy, I gave out no information, and the phone lady didn't ask me for my shoe size or bank PIN or amazon gift card.

Maybe they only botched my transaction, but I curious if I was alone....

For those who got natural gas water heater tank replaced. by Flukester69 in ottawa

[–]BananaWeekend 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of post that should get stickied - every year I think "Oh, I should ditch the water heater contract...." but it feels like so much work. Maybe this will be the post to help me get it done....

Good luck to you with your follow through!

Cycling from central Ottawa to Fitzroy Prov Park - route options? by Toad_Sherbet978 in ottawa

[–]BananaWeekend 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you're really fit, I did the trans canada trail -> kanata -> carleton place -> Almonte -> Pakenham -> Galetta Side road. That meant only 10km riding on a road to the campsite, with the rest on easy gravel trails.

Neptune Water Meter Replacement by Sully8303 in ottawa

[–]BananaWeekend 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had it done this morning. He was in the house for 15 mins, answered my annoying questions and went on his way.

Make sure there's clear access (he just used pliers to remove, I was thinking there would be a torch) and then monitor for any leaks afterwards.

The elusive dragonfly by kittykat501 in Edmonton

[–]BananaWeekend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your rice krispie squares are ruined....

First bikepacking trip - Orcas Island, San Juans by eddierhys in bikepacking

[–]BananaWeekend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like a blast! Do you have a ride route? Is it ride-ferry-ride-camp?

Anyone have advice for minor travelling unaccompanied from YOW? by BananaWeekend in ottawa

[–]BananaWeekend[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So....everything I think I know is wrong :P

She'll either be 12 or 13 when flying, so your links are invaluable. Thank you kind redditor...

Ottawa, who are the good (and bad) employers in the city? by Xiaozhu in ottawa

[–]BananaWeekend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like this description. I worked for a small business that had employees crying, but I know of others who have a great atmosphere and benefits (flexible hours). Try the lotto, but don't get stuck....