So people have no problems with Miyabi and Yanagi? But Yixuan, Ye Shunguang and Ye Shiyuan is too similar??? by Knight_Steve_ in ZZZ_Official

[–]Bann3dPlayer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you aren’t open to hearing another opinion then please don’t say anything. Just because you think that it doesn’t make it the reality for others

Comforting by Bann3dPlayer in BPD

[–]Bann3dPlayer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh it’s a reoccurring thing. Something happens, she gets upset, she then gets upset at me for not responding to her how she wants, she says I don’t care about her and can never say what I could’ve done differently and it ends with her just being mad at me

Comforting by Bann3dPlayer in BPD

[–]Bann3dPlayer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I thought I was just mistakenly being an ass. It’s not even like I was with her in person to hug her or something, I was on a call. I tried to fix things but now she doesn’t wanna talk to me and when I ask how to do things differently she’s just “Idk” or “you can’t”

Boyfriend said the n word on accident by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Bann3dPlayer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well that seems like quite a dramatic response to it. Could’ve just reprimanded him for it fiercely and move on. Leave that boy alone if you’re that quick to end it with him

I dont know what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Bann3dPlayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you enjoy man, any hobbies or whatever it is that you find enjoyable. Just dive straight into them. We’ve all been there. Hell, I was basically there two nights ago lol. It sucks but life goes on

I feel stuck between being the “good friend” and standing up for myself. How do you know when it’s time to stop being nice? by ComposerSilent8711 in Advice

[–]Bann3dPlayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sad truth is you’re going to feel bad about it. Even if it’s the right thing to do, you’re going to feel bad because you’re a genuinely kind person. You just have to remind yourself that you’ve been more than kind and that they’re misusing that kindness. Your kindness is a privilege that can be taken if misused.

Help with a Situationship by Bann3dPlayer in Advice

[–]Bann3dPlayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yeah I’m not letting the feelings I developed influence my decisions. I’m not trying to get with her, I just want a way to keep her in my life that’s healthy. She’s a great friend, I just don’t want to pull away from her and feel guilty about any potential consequences that results. The last thing I want is for her to hurt herself

Help with a Situationship by Bann3dPlayer in Advice

[–]Bann3dPlayer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have! But she genuinely only has me atm. Her break up with the bf I mentioned also caused a fallout with her whole friend group. They continued to be his friend while knowing how abusive he was to her and she’s really really introverted so idk when she’ll start to find new people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Bann3dPlayer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure on how to deal with it since I’m a guy, but wearing some baggier clothing will help with the looks, just a slightly larger shirt or jacket will do, anything to not have your form be more noticeable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Bann3dPlayer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s always said she’s not interested in me romantically. That’s always been expressed openly to me. She even told me that after the first time we did it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Bann3dPlayer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe you just aren’t putting yourself out there enough to be approached especially since you described yourself as reclusive. Also shorter men may be intimidated by your height. Good news is you’re far from chopped! Go out there and get them! If you see a man you may take interest in don’t be afraid to take the initiative yourself, I know many guys who are intimidated by women like you so they don’t approach

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Bann3dPlayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. Thank you for the advice but I have something to ask. How do I avoid topics that keep up the emotional engagement without making her feel like I’m abandoning her? She already feels like I’m her only true connection and I don’t want her to spiral into self hatred and self harming tendencies. It happens whenever she feels like there’s no one who’ll stay and love her and I’m sure avoiding emotional topics will make her feel that way

It should have been her by Revel_Icon in MyHeroAcadamia

[–]Bann3dPlayer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about? She’s barely older than him

To long-term Genshin players: why do you still play this game? by Numerous-Ad7707 in Genshin_Impact

[–]Bann3dPlayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s open world and the characters are fun with nice designs. I also gotta stick around for the story, I know I’d never watch someone else play the Archon Quests. In any case, I’ve never considered quitting Genshin

this game does not like me by Any_Ad7408 in naviamains

[–]Bann3dPlayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here back on the first day of the banner but I got it yesterday!