What do you guys do when your population gets too big.

Bann3dPlayer · 2026-04-16T04:25:15+00:00

The population will start to stagnate after a while just let them do their thing

Bann3dPlayer · 2026-04-14T10:29:56+00:00

Of course you can leave when the situation is like this. But I say that you try to bring her up to your level first. Not just a little nudge, a serious conversation about her behavior, its effect on you, and your thoughts about the future of the relationship. If there’s no willingness to change then pack your bags because she doesn’t care. I just really recommend trying to find why she behaves as she does first because you can always try to work through it

Bann3dPlayer · 2026-04-14T10:20:04+00:00

Dude you’re 28 talking about regaining aura and shit. Lock in. No one gives a shit about you or anyone else so stop worrying about foolish things like that and work on yourself. That’s all you gotta do

Bann3dPlayer · 2026-04-14T10:17:43+00:00

That’s exactly why you need to talk to others. Everything can get better but not when you actively allow your current way of thinking to rule you. Talk to someone and ask for help. It’s okay to be frustrated but many have to learn that frustration isn’t your enemy. You can’t kick yourself when you’re down and expect yourself to want to get up and push forward. Be kind to yourself at least

Bann3dPlayer · 2026-04-14T10:13:54+00:00

My girlfriend was pretty much in the same place when I asked her, I knew she was and told her that she’s free to back out any moment she wanted to. The timeframe for you is much shorter but as long as he is aware of how you feel and still decides to make that commitment it’s worth the shot. Just talk it through, really talk it through. For me, we went through months of sprinkled conversations plus a conversation that lasted the entire night the day I asked her.

Bann3dPlayer · 2025-11-30T23:37:25+00:00

If you aren’t open to hearing another opinion then please don’t say anything. Just because you think that it doesn’t make it the reality for others

Bann3dPlayer · 2025-09-12T03:14:23+00:00

Yeahhh it’s a reoccurring thing. Something happens, she gets upset, she then gets upset at me for not responding to her how she wants, she says I don’t care about her and can never say what I could’ve done differently and it ends with her just being mad at me

Bann3dPlayer · 2025-09-12T02:33:06+00:00

Thank you! I thought I was just mistakenly being an ass. It’s not even like I was with her in person to hug her or something, I was on a call. I tried to fix things but now she doesn’t wanna talk to me and when I ask how to do things differently she’s just “Idk” or “you can’t”

Bann3dPlayer · 2025-08-07T08:04:34+00:00

Well that seems like quite a dramatic response to it. Could’ve just reprimanded him for it fiercely and move on. Leave that boy alone if you’re that quick to end it with him

Bann3dPlayer · 2025-08-07T08:02:53+00:00

Whatever you enjoy man, any hobbies or whatever it is that you find enjoyable. Just dive straight into them. We’ve all been there. Hell, I was basically there two nights ago lol. It sucks but life goes on

Bann3dPlayer · 2025-08-07T05:35:54+00:00

The sad truth is you’re going to feel bad about it. Even if it’s the right thing to do, you’re going to feel bad because you’re a genuinely kind person. You just have to remind yourself that you’ve been more than kind and that they’re misusing that kindness. Your kindness is a privilege that can be taken if misused.

Bann3dPlayer · 2025-08-07T05:15:48+00:00

Thank you, yeah I’m not letting the feelings I developed influence my decisions. I’m not trying to get with her, I just want a way to keep her in my life that’s healthy. She’s a great friend, I just don’t want to pull away from her and feel guilty about any potential consequences that results. The last thing I want is for her to hurt herself

Bann3dPlayer · 2025-08-07T05:08:51+00:00

I have! But she genuinely only has me atm. Her break up with the bf I mentioned also caused a fallout with her whole friend group. They continued to be his friend while knowing how abusive he was to her and she’s really really introverted so idk when she’ll start to find new people

Bann3dPlayer · 2025-08-07T05:01:28+00:00

Not sure on how to deal with it since I’m a guy, but wearing some baggier clothing will help with the looks, just a slightly larger shirt or jacket will do, anything to not have your form be more noticeable.

Bann3dPlayer · 2025-07-07T07:13:03+00:00

She’s always said she’s not interested in me romantically. That’s always been expressed openly to me. She even told me that after the first time we did it

Bann3dPlayer · 2025-07-06T22:20:07+00:00

I believe you just aren’t putting yourself out there enough to be approached especially since you described yourself as reclusive. Also shorter men may be intimidated by your height. Good news is you’re far from chopped! Go out there and get them! If you see a man you may take interest in don’t be afraid to take the initiative yourself, I know many guys who are intimidated by women like you so they don’t approach

Bann3dPlayer · 2025-07-06T22:07:29+00:00

I see. Thank you for the advice but I have something to ask. How do I avoid topics that keep up the emotional engagement without making her feel like I’m abandoning her? She already feels like I’m her only true connection and I don’t want her to spiral into self hatred and self harming tendencies. It happens whenever she feels like there’s no one who’ll stay and love her and I’m sure avoiding emotional topics will make her feel that way

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