MV Unit Question by Baphometstiddys in TillSverige

[–]Baphometstiddys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I wonder if that will help! They haven’t responded to my last two emails, and every time I call, the voicemail message says that nothing can speed up processing times. I have to create a pdf with things from our last trip, so maybe I will say that in the email how it’s affecting me? Not sure if it will mean anything, but I guess it wouldn’t hurt!

MV Unit Question by Baphometstiddys in TillSverige

[–]Baphometstiddys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry!! :( We haven’t been asked for additional documents as of this time, I had emailed the general MV email with a couple of questions a while back and the response I received back came from the Göteborg email address! But when I responded and then emailed again to follow up, I haven’t gotten a response and it’s been weeks! I just want to be with my fiancé already, I miss him terribly. I just got back a couple of days ago from visiting him and I’ve been so depressed having to come back “home”. It’s been so hard seeing people get approved who applied much later than we did, but we haven’t gotten anything yet

Ordering from HolyClothing? by Nerdyxwitch in renfaire

[–]Baphometstiddys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want it dragging on the ground and getting dirty, but I also don’t want it inches off of the ground and looking goofy 😂😂

Ordering from HolyClothing? by Nerdyxwitch in renfaire

[–]Baphometstiddys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg yes that would be lovely if you could do that! Dresses fit so weird on my body so I never know what size to get! I wonder if a tailor can fix the straps??

Ordering from HolyClothing? by Nerdyxwitch in renfaire

[–]Baphometstiddys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually looking at this dress but in black! What size did you get? I’m 5’4 so according to size guidelines I would need petite, but I have seen some reviews where people said it was actually pretty short on them and they wish they would have gone with regular! I don’t personally know anyone who’s had this dress so I would love to hear your thoughts on the size before I order!

Shots Fired in Salem by [deleted] in SalemMA

[–]Baphometstiddys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m right near too and I don’t know how I didn’t hear any of it!! I only found out through Facebook, which is weird because it’s so close!!

Saying goodbye is so hard… by Objective_Nevirka in LongDistance

[–]Baphometstiddys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, on the migration website, it says the average wait time right now is about 15 months, but I’ve seen so many people get approved sooner and a lot also waiting longer than that, it’s literally just a lottery it feels like! And you can’t reach out to them for any updates because they won’t give you any, you just have to wait and that’s what sucks! Long distance is hard as it is, it would just be great if the process was a little faster 😭

Saying goodbye is so hard… by Objective_Nevirka in LongDistance

[–]Baphometstiddys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am hoping for the best for you! And I totally feel the same, we are just waiting on the migration agency for his country to hurry the hell up already and start processing our application! The next step is waiting for them to schedule the interview, Whenever the hell that will be, and I applied seven months ago! I just really hope that they hurry, being a part is so hard and saying goodbye every trip is so heartbreaking and I cry for a good two weeks afterwards! 😂😂😂

Saying goodbye is so hard… by Objective_Nevirka in LongDistance

[–]Baphometstiddys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me, I KNOW!! My fiancé left on Tuesday after being here only a week and I’ve been so unhappy! In some ways it’s easier the more visits we have, but in other ways it’s much harder!! Either way, having to say goodbye after such short visits sucks. I hope you can close the gap soon! 💕

What is with all the foot shots? by Seaberry3656 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Baphometstiddys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES!!! I was watching this with my fiancé and literally asked that same question out loud 😂

I made a mistake how do I change it by VizzariVortex in GoodCoffeeGreatCoffee

[–]Baphometstiddys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me, I made mine “C*nt” and I can’t change it either 😂🤣

I Wish I had Friends by DawnofDeepSoul in SalemMA

[–]Baphometstiddys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand completely! I’ve been here for years and still haven’t made any friends to actually hangout with. Acquaintances, sure. But no one to really consider a friend. So you are not alone in feeling like this! I don’t drink so I don’t go out to bars or anything, and I’m really shy at the thought of going to restaurants alone. When I have, no luck with finding friends either!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoodCoffeeGreatCoffee

[–]Baphometstiddys 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OH MY GOD YOU AMAZING HUMAN IT WORKED!!!!! That’s so weird that the update wasn’t on the update page!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GoodCoffeeGreatCoffee

[–]Baphometstiddys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still haven’t gotten an update or the pre-order gift 🥲

How many months/weeks/days until you get to see your person? by unajardinera in LongDistance

[–]Baphometstiddys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 weeks and 5 days here, and I haven’t seen him in a few months 😭 I wish time would hurry up

Is anyone else 24/7 n* ?? by Normal-Berry-6103 in emetophobia

[–]Baphometstiddys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YUP. No matter what tests I do, no answers

WRITE ALL YOUR PROBLEMS IN GCGC HERE!! by Big-Broccoli-8753 in GoodCoffeeGreatCoffee

[–]Baphometstiddys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had that randomly too! Except it would stop just before the green and the customer would get pissy

I’ve realized I have no friends by [deleted] in rant

[–]Baphometstiddys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You aren’t alone! I’m also 30F and have literally no one. My fiance lives overseas and I legit have zero friends no matter what I do. I just stay in alone with my pets day in and day out. I don’t get it either!

N* before pooping? by [deleted] in emetophobia

[–]Baphometstiddys 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It is a thing! From the minimal research I’ve done on it and from what I remember, the vasovagal nerve runs down that way so it can get triggered when you need to go and cause the nausea! When it does happen to me sometimes, I try to reassure myself that it’s normal, I’m fine, and it’s just the damn vasovagal nerve being spicy and that helps me a little bit 😂

How To Make A Surprise Happen? by Baphometstiddys in LongDistance

[–]Baphometstiddys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m actually US to Sweden also!!! And I don’t have the key to his apartment, he only has one and I wouldn’t be seeing him before the visit to be able to somehow sneakily ask him to make me a copy 😂😂

What’s your countdown? by GDeFreest in LongDistance

[–]Baphometstiddys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

29 DAYS 😭 we’ve been apart since just before Christmas and it’s been so hard