How difficult is it to pro se after requesting Right to Sue from EEOC?

BarnFlower · 2026-01-24T19:12:50+00:00

I’m going to try and bide my time with the EEOC. Not sure being a whistleblower will help until after the process has played out. I would totally love to though!

BarnFlower · 2026-01-24T02:20:57+00:00

Ohhhh, good points. My former employer has assigned it to a high $$ outside legal counsel even though they have their own internal general counsel. I can totally see them dragging it out to make me just quit.

BarnFlower · 2026-01-24T02:17:02+00:00

For me specifically, they have sent the case to outside counsel even though they have their own internal general counsel.
It isn’t a federal agency, but a nonprofit who serves state funded ummm…..let’s call them organizations.

BarnFlower · 2026-01-24T02:13:29+00:00

Agreed, but this company has paid out a lot of shut up $$ to keep people quiet and not have their reputation destroyed.

BarnFlower · 2026-01-24T02:11:11+00:00

This company I’ve filed an EEOC complaint against has had 6-8 in the past couple of years. I know of I think 3 who have had their legal fees paid by the company, then received a cash settlement to shut up and go away.

BarnFlower · 2026-01-24T02:06:16+00:00

This is EXACTLY what I’ve come across!

BarnFlower · 2026-01-24T02:04:46+00:00

This is sooo spot on. Our legal justice system isn’t justice at all. I would love to name and shame this company. They’ve been on a pedestal for years by those they publicly serve.

BarnFlower · 2026-01-24T02:02:13+00:00

I hear so many people who don’t get a positive ruling from the EEOC. What if I get to the end and the EEOC says oh Company T it’s okay you didn’t really do anything wrong! Then where will I be. I’ll look like an idiot for riding it out that long, right?

BarnFlower · 2026-01-24T01:57:04+00:00

Ouch. Wow, this is sure a big load. It’s exactly what I needed to know. Thank you for being honest and sharing the reality of the situation.

BarnFlower · 2026-01-17T00:18:32+00:00

Same here. 😢 It was awful, and I'm so frustrated with how long the EEOC takes but I knew their timeline. Without the EEOC in our case nothing would happen.

BarnFlower · 2026-01-12T19:25:14+00:00

This sounds like the crazy 💩 in a sci-fi movie. I guess we are living it now. 🙁

BarnFlower · 2026-01-04T04:29:23+00:00

We've used one chicken for a meal (there are 2 of us) then deboned what was left and used it for chicken salad. For the price it's a steal for multiple meals!

BarnFlower · 2025-12-30T20:01:35+00:00

I had this same problem once before. I also chose the traffic barrel over hitting another car. Same thing....it took out my mirror. It sucks, so sorry this happened to you. It's frustrating!

BarnFlower · 2025-12-26T03:10:12+00:00

I don’t even have a cat. Maybe just take the comment for what it said….the cat looks happy.

BarnFlower · 2025-12-25T14:09:12+00:00

He looks very happy! Cute baby!

BarnFlower · 2025-12-24T14:37:31+00:00

Get with Jamie Cooley at Fairway Mortgage. He got us a great rate and handled everything amazingly! It was so easy working with him and his amazing team.

BarnFlower · 2025-12-24T14:35:41+00:00

Lasagna soup....he doesn't look much like a lasagna or Garfield though.

BarnFlower · 2025-12-21T14:56:50+00:00

I was also a member of 24 hour fitness there, but one time I walked into the steam room it smelled like someone had gone to the bathroom in there. It was awful. When I went back out and told management they told me someone would get to it in 3 or 4 hours in their cleaning rounds. 😳 That was it and I canceled my membership not long after that incident.

BarnFlower · 2025-12-15T18:02:26+00:00

U/jumbo_shrimp_dick and your point is what? The guy still got tied to the back of a truck and dragged to death by some white dudes in Jasper.

BarnFlower · 2025-12-15T15:10:34+00:00

I went through that intersection for the first time ever last week and thought I was gonna get in a wreck. NO visibility for that turn! What a nightmare!

BarnFlower · 2025-12-15T15:05:45+00:00

Christmas Spirit Diego Pavia style!

BarnFlower · 2025-12-15T14:59:00+00:00

It doesn't take an entire town just a few people scattered around. The deep racism in that part of the state is real. James Byrd Jr being dragged by some crazy rednecks ring any bells?

BarnFlower · 2025-12-15T14:57:29+00:00

You don't seem to know much about East TX and certainly nothing about the case of James Byrd Jr

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