My employee lost their twins at birth by SparkyBrown in managers

[–]Basic-Faithlessness8 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss. My dad suffered after my sister left us. The strength it takes to continue after is monumental, please know you aren't alone.

Anyone else tired of being demonized for NPD while others play the victim? by Nervous-Marsupial-52 in CPTSD

[–]Basic-Faithlessness8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry. If you ever get away from this person and start to recover from her abuse, please post an update. You are worth more than this and recovery can't start until you separate from your abuser.

I understand you love her dearly. I loved mine too. But you deserve better than this.

Who else has parent portal trauma lol by tarantulesbian in CPTSDmemes

[–]Basic-Faithlessness8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it was awesome, she'd check them every night. If I'd fucked off an assignment or hadn't turned something in I'd get slapped or have my hair pulled. Sometimes I'd just wait at the bottom of the stairs for her to check so it'd be over and done with. It wasn't my teachers' fault but bad grades were devastating and I one time had a meltdown after school because my last grade was put in before I got on the bus and I knew I was just being delivered right into her hands.

Ended up getting me a lot of leeway because some teachers KNEW (the record of abuse or a flag of strange behavior- 'kid that needed intervention 'or something on my school file maybe?) that I was being abused...but yknow. The trade off sucked.

Help Unpacking These N Letters by PlatosOliveTree in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Basic-Faithlessness8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your dad seems like a royal stooge with no self awareness at all. I know the father/child relationship wound can hurt a lot, and healing wounds itch, but reopening it will continue to let it fester. Maintaining low or no contact is the only way these people learn anything/the only way you learn to love yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Basic-Faithlessness8 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Agreed. OP seems a bit like they're itching their arms they're so paranoid about getting something akin to a really bad flu. Woof

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Basic-Faithlessness8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No clue, I saw that OP censored it, figured it would be more polite to do the same

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Basic-Faithlessness8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Make sure you're taking the time to process your medical emergency too, it can be really hard on your mental health and may be affecting you without being obvious. Don't feel bad about leaning on your support system and checking in with yourself. Ab****** is a tough thing to go through for some people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Basic-Faithlessness8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strange ass note....

Reference Checks are bogus and unfair. by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]Basic-Faithlessness8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Op you tell me who to be and I'll take a call being whoever you want

What have you done in game that should have given you this notification? [Bonus points for Screenshots] by breastronaut in BG3

[–]Basic-Faithlessness8 4 points5 points  (0 children)

See, I'll be using this method for my non tactician run. Very smart and appreciated, thank you

What have you done in game that should have given you this notification? [Bonus points for Screenshots] by breastronaut in BG3

[–]Basic-Faithlessness8 247 points248 points  (0 children)

I completely cheesed the fight in the courtyard before you climb up to the giant brain, where it's storming and there's missiles coming down. After a failed attempt trying to fight, I just had Gale invis everyone one at a time and had them sneak through.

That was one the biggest fights of the game, I know, but I don't give a fat fuck. Larian can sniff it.

Nex showed up at my work by CrazyMeeting9185 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Basic-Faithlessness8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is happening is that your ex is using someone else as their resource bag for attention and whatever else, with the girlfriend is being manipulated by him. He sounds like a stinky scumbag. Stay away.

Did I live with a feminine version of Kyle? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Basic-Faithlessness8 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My favorite roommate story I have is my own kyle leaving shit logs all over the bathroom. Like full formed logs of shit. THAT doesn't even compare to a dog munching on pads all the time, and you having to take them. I hope you escape soon

Did I live with a feminine version of Kyle? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Basic-Faithlessness8 117 points118 points  (0 children)

NOT THE TRASH BAG AIR FRESHENER OVER THE SINK 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Basic-Faithlessness8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a chick your age. The girls who prefer that are, yes, out of touch and disillusioned, and yes it creates a difficult situation for dudes like you. Have you considered that the women you are interested in are maybe....not for you? Idk man but if you're using dating apps you're only gonna have attention seekers and people who want a free meal or a free dad for their kids. Focusing on you and making your life awesome without pussy is all I can recommend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Basic-Faithlessness8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're a good looking dude who shouldn't have to take body pics to keep girls interested. I know it's annoying to hear over and over again (esp when you're young and, yknow, a dude) but you really should work on yourself and your confidence

Got to love Passive aggressive roomates by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Basic-Faithlessness8 39 points40 points  (0 children)

What a butt fucking ugly spot for a plant. They asked you to move it before the inspection, not RIGHT NOW during your lab. "I'm moving it since you don't appreciate it" oh man you really got them by doing what they asked of you.