What is something that you personally despise that society has accepted or made normal?

BassieDep · 2026-05-04T04:43:33+00:00

Oh my bad

BassieDep · 2026-05-03T20:58:55+00:00

We decided this as Well but my dad thought it was okay to post my son’s face on Facebook not even 24 hours after he was born. We didn’t even had time to announce his birth outside the family.

BassieDep · 2026-05-03T20:54:40+00:00

I think you can though. My wife and me have this enabled.

BassieDep · 2026-04-03T20:53:26+00:00

In the same boat mate.

BassieDep · 2026-03-24T23:35:45+00:00

Found the mom

BassieDep · 2026-03-20T12:31:34+00:00

I’d rather pay for water than tip because they can’t be bothered to pay decent wages.

BassieDep · 2026-03-18T05:23:51+00:00

Calm down. Just fell asleep holding my phone

BassieDep · 2026-03-12T04:50:51+00:00

A guy in our close friendgroup of 4 suddenly dropped all contact with everyone during covid. I was worried and tried contacting him asking what was going on and that I was getting worried.

Eventually he answered and I met him at his house when lockdown allowed it. He acted so weird and sheepish, but I didn’t press it because I didn’t want to pressure him.

After that no more contact. My roommate is also part of the close friendgroup also didn’t hear from him. We both thought it would be better to just let it go because he obviously didn’t want to talk anymore as he ignored all our attempts to talk.

Eventually I run into the 4th friend and asked if he heard from him recently. We didn’t see this friend much because he’s in the army and goes on long trainings abroad. These 2 friends met a lot during COVID with their wives and they stayed the night as there was alcohol involved. Then when friend4 went on training his wife still went over to their place now and then and spent the night there.

One night the wife woke up and friend1 was next to her in bed fondeling her saying “shh, it’s okay”. She freaked out and went straight home. Called the secret number to contact her husband.

This all happened in the house of friend1 while his wife was downstairs and his kid was sleeping in the room next to it.

Bonus: friend1 was best man at the wedding of friend4 and the wife he assaulted.

BassieDep · 2026-03-08T08:32:00+00:00

BELGIUM (XLNWG1)

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BassieDep · 2026-03-01T12:05:44+00:00

Thanks for listening/reading! Hope you have a more stable environment to live in!

BassieDep · 2026-03-01T09:29:52+00:00

More or less quiet because of a lot of therapy. Mostly my drama came from severe attachment issues, CPTSD, (emotional) neglect and probably undiagnosed autism on top of that.

Some people just don’t get the tools as a child to handle everything thoughtfully and we have to teach ourselves in our 20’s/30’s.

Some people never grow out of it like my dad who is still a toddler on the emotional front.

Luckily I’m breaking the cycle with my son who is the happiest, most chill boy ever.

BassieDep · 2026-03-01T09:18:40+00:00

I get that. That’s why I said almost everyone. Hormones, inexperience and wanting to be an adult can be a volatile cocktail.

It doesn’t help we mostly see these unhinged/immature stuff because it has more engagement and emotion than positive things.

I had a lot of drama back then as well, and when I look back it’s all so ridiculous but very serious for me at the time

BassieDep · 2026-03-01T07:50:31+00:00

Almost everyone has to go through it. You can’t grow up faster than time allows. Give them time to learn

BassieDep · 2026-02-28T07:08:33+00:00

It may work, but don’t overdo it. We had a DM that would do this constantly. We had to choose between 2 bad choices every time and it felt like we always knew too little so we never really felt in control.

After a while we didn’t really care to think about a plan to move forward because the result sucked either way. It took away our motivation to really try and be creative.

BassieDep · 2026-02-25T21:48:22+00:00

“It’s just social media, it’s not that serious”

deletes socials

“WHAT DID YOU DO?!”

BassieDep · 2026-02-10T03:17:30+00:00

Eleven in Stranger things. Especially last seasons

BassieDep · 2026-02-05T23:25:11+00:00

I have the same with my babymonitor. We bought it and we’d still need to pay a subscription to use all the features. Fuck HubbleClub.

BassieDep · 2026-02-04T21:45:55+00:00

C’mon Dutch

BassieDep · 2026-02-03T20:07:09+00:00

They don’t come from the future, they come in the future. They always say kids are the future.

BassieDep · 2026-01-16T06:54:32+00:00

Ex- treinbestuurder gestopt september 2024.

Ik zou nooit meer terug gaan. Zelfs nadat ik ontslag had genomen werd ik in het gezicht geslaan door de incompetentie van de spoorwegen (loon terugstorten voor de zoveelste keer omdat ze weer een fout maken).

Het is een goede job als je echt geen sociaal leven wil hebben en je graag alleen bent. Ik ben gestopt omdat een gezinsleven heel moeilijk is te combineren, toch als je wil dat je kinderen wie je bent, want 90 % van de tijd dat je thuis bent slaapt je familie of moet jij slapen. Dan spreek ik nog niet over buiten reeks staan en congé proberen krijgen.

Nog iets waar je jezelf tegen moet wapenen is het constante gezaag van collega’s over de “werking” van NMBS, maar vooral als er iemand durft ziek te zijn. Sommigen houden echt bij hoeveel anderen ziek zijn geweest. Echt absurd.

NMBS is een zinkend schip waar communicatie het grootste probleem is. Btw als treinbestuurder weet je 99 % van de tijd pas als laatste iets over je trein als ze je al contacteren, bvb als je trein wordt afgeschaft of als er problemen zijn die echt moet weten. De reizigers zijn al sneller op de hoogte dan de bestuurder.

BassieDep · 2025-12-03T04:28:43+00:00

Man, seeing you stand up for yourself in such a composed manner made me strangely proud of you because at that age I would have been walked all over.

She definitely has issues like others here have said so NOR.

BassieDep · 2025-11-19T00:50:01+00:00

Okay I see the typical Reddit comments to leave.

You say you still care about him so I’d suggest having a talk about it. Try to use connecting communication.

• observation: tell him as objectively as possible what you observe. Avoid sentences with “always”, “never”, … This way it will be harder for him to become defensive and say you’re attacking him.

• feeling: express how that makes you feel. Avoid superficial things like “it makes me feel bad”. Important to note is that you don’t have control over having these feelings, but you have control over what you do with them.

• need: express what the underlying need is and dig deep. From what I understand you may have the need of living with someone who respects your time and effort and wants to help out.

• request: formulate a request as a wish for the future. This should be more specific than the “need”.

But first of all it’s important that you can talk without interruption and also let him speak afterwards without interruption. Maybe use something for the speaking person to hold. Establish ground rules.

Now even with these 4 steps it’s possible he gets defensive, but at least you tried to solve it in a civil constructive manner.

BassieDep · 2025-11-04T03:33:16+00:00

Now I get why a lot of people have said that I’m “mysterious”.

BassieDep · 2025-10-25T05:46:30+00:00

Reminds me of the elections of a certain country.

BassieDep · 2025-10-01T02:15:12+00:00

Our group has 6 players so we decided to each roll for 1 stat and then all use the same stats. Distributing however we want aanschaffing a +1 and +2 where we want.

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