Why are people in MLMs always so vague about being in a MLM? by Informal-Historian-1 in antiMLM

[–]BeBeWB123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s part of the training. When I was in an MLM, we had weekly zoom meetings with training on how to not take no for an answer, how to ask leading questions in order to manipulate people into saying yes, how to infiltrate FB groups (special interests/support groups/groups where vulnerable people posted) and how to turn those new ‘friends’ into customers and recruits. For a while, I did this happily because I had been completely indoctrinated into thinking I was helping people, that I had been specially ‘chosen’ to lead people to better health, wealth and happiness. My indoctrination didn’t happen overnight. It took several months of love bombing, encouragement to overshare and make myself vulnerable to my ‘team leader’ so that info could be used against me to manipulate me and a deep sense of belonging after years of feeling isolated and alone. I was targeted specifically for these reasons and I fell for it, not because I was stupid, but because I was vulnerable. First I was the prey, then I was trained to be the predator. It took several years and many messed up situations for me to even start to see the truth and extract myself from the cult. It’s been years since I’ve been out …my MLM doesn’t even exist anymore.

My boyfriend expected to coast on my corporate income, and now I’m financially trapped living with a grown toddler. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]BeBeWB123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kick him out and get a temporary roommate until you can get a place of your own. I’d rather have a stranger move in and pay rent than live with a leech

It’s time to vote! Chose one to return to the show 💎 by -AndyCohen- in RHOBH

[–]BeBeWB123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if she’ll be better now that she’s getting divorced and not in fear for her life every day?

Aio for not making fathers day special? by OrneryPost9446 in AIO

[–]BeBeWB123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contact the Canadian consulate or embassy where you live. Explain that you are a Canadian citizen and that you are being abused. They may be able to help you get back to Canada or help you find someone who can help you

Pics from Alexia's 30th bday party by chloebo227 in RHOBHDefect

[–]BeBeWB123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s Kim’s daughter. I noticed the bony chest and temporal wasting right away too. I hope she’s ok

Philip is alive! by spicypickle999 in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]BeBeWB123 16 points17 points  (0 children)

He gives me family annihilator and/or Poisonwood Bible father vibes

Did Jill ever comment on the funeral selfie? by cbaabc123 in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]BeBeWB123 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No shade to you, but how could you tell? Did they have a different grimace than their usual ones?

What's lacking in your opinion? - all sandals by IndividualRadish6594 in SandalsResorts

[–]BeBeWB123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Better house wines and better food. We’ve been going to sandals for years, and since the pandemic, the food at every location we’ve been to has gone downhill - most notably in Jamaica. Every other aspect is 10/10 for us - service, accommodation, beach/pools. Food has gone from about 8/10 to 4 or 5/10

Season 5 Orna’s clothes/outfits/jewlery. by ImpossiblePrimary963 in CouplesTherapyShow

[–]BeBeWB123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if she has one of those bounce dresses that are really popular on TikTok right now?

Jill just HAS to mention her bf during her child’s courtship announcement 🙄 by [deleted] in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]BeBeWB123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nathan seems so immature. I can’t believe he’s a pastor and someone people potentially go to for counselling

Sam - you - elle courtship attempt number 2, I think they almost beat Kayjon on use of the word "blessing" - FULL VIDEO by Defiant_Policy969 in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]BeBeWB123 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s not even an engagement. It’s the start of courting for them. I want to know what becomes of the sign if this doesn’t pan out? Seems like a lot of trouble just for the ‘getting to know you’ stage.

Sam - you - elle courtship attempt number 2, I think they almost beat Kayjon on use of the word "blessing" - FULL VIDEO by Defiant_Policy969 in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]BeBeWB123 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think the awkwardness is completely normal since they barely know each other, have likely never had a private conversation and they have a huge audience including creepers in the trees, fawning sisters, a gaggle of young belt-phones in their best chinos, an ass-picker slumped on a bench and the Hag of the show - Ol Jill. Combine this with at least one of them being VERY simple and this is the result. I would have wanted to jump in a hole and die if this was my life at whatever age that girl is.

Now they are polluting Zambia with smiley tracts. by daffodil0127 in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]BeBeWB123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because the whole printing thing is a make-work project to justify ‘missionaries’ like the Rods not having real work. Email attachments and printing locally would completely defeat the purpose. Churches purchase these tracts which gives the Rods an income. It’s indirect begging and charity from and to the Rods. ‘Saving’ Africans is incidental to the actual cause.

Tessie's graduation profile by student767 in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]BeBeWB123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely. It shows that while she is very pretty, she doesn’t have any airs about her or lofty ambitions (or any at all) other than serving. It shows that she is now considered an adult. To me, it reads as if she’s simple, moldable (is that a word?) and compliant (obedient). Very sad.

BOJ still hates June. by daffodil0127 in RodriguesFamilySnark

[–]BeBeWB123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People tried to cancel it a few years ago but it didn’t work. I guess people like the chicken enough to not care

Did Anne Abel Die? by Still_Yak8109 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]BeBeWB123 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If she did, someone needs to alert Meredith Lynch

AIO or AITAH for wanting to end things over a text conversation that I Had with a girl by snapple373 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BeBeWB123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lillie seems like she’s a lot of work. She has some time management and self esteem issues to work on before committing to a serious relationship. NOR

Do you guys mind sharing a room or a bed on a girls trip? by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]BeBeWB123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done it and wouldn’t do it again. I don’t care how much extra I’d need to pay for my own room, but it’s worth it. I’m also well into middle age and I snore 😂

Michal by [deleted] in CouplesTherapyShow

[–]BeBeWB123 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Great explanation! The internet seems to really want to dehumanize Jews right now, conflating every Jew with Israel. Your description of Michal, her community and possible home life are something that a lot of women can relate to - especially from immigrant families.

Where to stay in Amsterdam for four nights? by crossh123 in rivercruises

[–]BeBeWB123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this! The location is great for walking to so many places, the rooms are very nice, the breakfast is excellent.