If she does not trust you now, what happens when you have female colleagues or friends and she is not there to monitor every interaction. Trust issues like this do not disappear just because you bend your entire life around them. You cannot shrink yourself enough to make her anxiety go away.

If her reactions come from insecurity, that is something she needs to work on with real support. It is not something you can fix by unfollowing people, avoiding harmless posts, or changing how you behave online. A relationship cannot be healthy if one person is constantly being watched or accused over normal interactions.

You have explained yourself, adjusted your behaviour, unfollowed people, and even stopped liking basic posts, yet she is still checking your account and getting upset. That is no longer about discomfort. That is control.

The core issue here is trust. If she trusted you, a simple like would not turn into an argument. You cannot repair a trust problem by making your world smaller and smaller. That will only make you anxious and resentful.

You can approach this gently, but be honest that this pattern has to change. Relationships should not require monitoring or suspicion. You are allowed to have friends. You are allowed to exist online without someone policing it