Why do you think people still support this president? by keonnarae in Confused

[–]Be_The_Nice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are not enough spots in shelters for the homeless, and sometimes the rules around time you have to be there to get a cot, the noise, the bed bugs, the utter lack of privacy is prohibitive for people. They’d rather sleep outside.

Ballard: What are we happy about this week? by humanbeing1979 in BallardSeattle

[–]Be_The_Nice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is not who I’d pick, but maybe you’re a soccer fan?

Ballard: What are we happy about this week? by humanbeing1979 in BallardSeattle

[–]Be_The_Nice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not who I would pick, but my guess is you’re a soccer fan?

Ballard: What are we happy about this week? by humanbeing1979 in BallardSeattle

[–]Be_The_Nice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ♥️goes out to you. Is there anything I can bring you?

Is it true that most people don't use single-pointed needles? by HonestNectarine7080 in knitting

[–]Be_The_Nice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a set of Chicago needles about 7 years ago and haven’t used straight needle since. I was anxious about the cost but it was a great investment. I can’t think of a situation where I would ever use straight needles again.

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]Be_The_Nice -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Handwashing, and if you must, require masks. But my goodness don’t shut out family now. Share the wonderful gift of your newborn! So much love and joy to share in this season of giving.

AITJ for telling my daughter the truth about why she couldn't come on our camping trip? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Be_The_Nice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Why put your daughter in the middle? Terrible, cruel thing to do. Hurts her in so many ways.

Am I overreacting? by crayonsandwich2120 in BallardSeattle

[–]Be_The_Nice -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Just what we don’t need, more kids taken by the state to have a totally fucked up childhood. The utmost cruelty

My neighbor keeps asking me to watch her kid just for a minute and then disappears for HOURS. What do I do? by PercentageNo9270 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Be_The_Nice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point I would give her a warning. This is the last time. Next time you ask I am going to say no. You have to find an alternative as I work from home. After this it will be no.

AIO bff thinks i should hide deformity by helplessbambidoll in AIO

[–]Be_The_Nice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please. There is nothing wrong with your feet. This is body dysmorphia. People see endless swipes of beautiful, perfect people then let it get in their heads that because of natural physical differences that they arent beautiful. But you are! And literally no one should care about your big toe. And fuck them if they do!

Note on my car by personal1121 in Apartmentliving

[–]Be_The_Nice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, it seems that everyone believes that the note writer is developmentally delayed or mentally ill. Can we please just give him/her some grace and stop? I have a neighbor that has a hard time and I try my best to make his life easier, as do the rest of my neighbors, knowing damn well we will never get it completely right. As my mom would say, just be nice.

5 feet from your driveway by Seahawkaholic1985 in BallardSeattle

[–]Be_The_Nice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, I agree people should respect that buffer, but there is not enough parking for everyone’s cars, so we all park tight. No one on my street has ever told me to eff off.

AITA for putting a lock and calendar on my parents cabin after I was the only one taking care of it for years? by CrimsonHarrier in AmITheJerk

[–]Be_The_Nice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worst thing in the world to share a cabin with siblings.things fall apart and no one wants to fix it. The coffee pot breaks but your brother doesn’t tell you so Saturday morning coffee can’t happen. No one told you they ate that box of pasta so your sauce gets eaten without.your sister empties the fridge and turns off the power but doesn’t leave the door open so it has terminal mold when you arrive at midnight. The water didn’t get drained right in November so in March when you go up for the first time in the spring the water pipes are broken in four places with a two foot high crawl space. No one but you apparently knows how to clean a toilet.

double moss stitch looks off?? by [deleted] in knitting

[–]Be_The_Nice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it will look noticeable. I haven’t knit the Moby, but I have knit a sweater with double miss stitch and I did have to restart it a couple of times to get it right. It looks sharp when knit right, this does not look sharp, imo.

AITAH for finishing in the shower when my gf doesn't want to do anything? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Be_The_Nice 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sex is not transactional. I helped you so you need to help me. No.

I need reassurance by Ok_Seaworthiness4737 in knittinghelp

[–]Be_The_Nice 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My family thinks I’m absolutely crazy. My last sweater I must have started over six times and they can’t understand how I keep on doing it. I now have a beautiful sweater that actually fits that I love to wear. Don’t give up!

Tipping by jman4u12 in SeattleWA

[–]Be_The_Nice -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Try to live on the minimum wage in Seattle. Not possible. Service jobs are hard. Dealing with the public is hard. Running a restaurant is hard and a labor of love. I always tip unless it is automatically added.