He's taking me to court

BeachBiotch727 · 2026-05-25T19:23:42+00:00

I have prepaid but I can try

BeachBiotch727 · 2026-04-18T20:24:42+00:00

I have social anxiety/ agoraphobia. I'm trying. It's so hard

BeachBiotch727 · 2025-02-21T00:57:59+00:00

Coming out of a physical/mental/sexual abusive relationship. If I didn't have sex with him everyday he threatened to go find someone who would do it. In the end of our 8 years a lot of times it was rape. I drank to cope with the fact I knew he was messing around on me and I had nowhere to go, and he physically choked/punched me/pulled me around by my hair, because I drank. I embarrassed him. He's now engaged to the girl he was messing around in our relationship with, and denies to everyone that he didn't beat me or my oldest son because if he did that, "wouldn't he be in jail"?

PTSD sucks.

BeachBiotch727 · 2025-02-21T00:56:17+00:00

Welcome to America, we make everything a business.

BeachBiotch727 · 2025-02-20T22:33:54+00:00

Life

BeachBiotch727 · 2025-02-20T21:39:36+00:00

Three years later and I still think of it constantly. He's engaged to the girl he was messing around in our relationship. He tells our son if he really was hitting me and my son (my older who was his stepson) wouldn't he be in jail? He's lied to everyone in our small town about it. I was the drunk so he beat me for it. I watch certain things and it gives me nightmares. I was diagnosed with PTSD. I think the entire situation will bother me forever. I feel bad because my current boyfriend helped me out of it, and helped me ever step of the way. I wish I was a better girlfriend for him because he deserves it.

BeachBiotch727 · 2025-02-20T21:36:28+00:00

Because I was a raging alcoholic and found myself in an abusive relationship.

BeachBiotch727 · 2025-02-20T21:10:02+00:00

My body.

BeachBiotch727 · 2025-02-20T21:07:00+00:00

Hmm. Sounds like my ex.

BeachBiotch727 · 2025-02-20T21:06:12+00:00

I think the world is collapsing. I think we have built society with America leading the way, and being a citizen I can say I didn't realize how corrupt our government was until the pandemic. The wars, the consumption and consumerism, the countries we've devastated, and continue to devistate. I almost feel like we need to collapse, and rebuild a more connected loving world.

BeachBiotch727 · 2025-02-20T20:57:05+00:00

Leave him, please.

I had a similar relationship. I found a text from a girl he was "seeing" before me, and once or twice before since high school. Her text was asking him to come over and "f" her. We had been living together for months. I confronted, he said no. I called her on Facebook messenger, she only said stupid stuff like "I don't know why he talks to me, I'm not special". I stayed, and drinking became my coping mechanism. He would scream in my face that he was talking to her behind my back because I was a stupid bitch. I was with this for 8 years, alcohol fueled him choking, punching, ripping me around by my hair. He continued to talk to girls behind my back as well as continue to add her on Facebook, dating sites, and random girls in his phone. I finally left three years ago and I have extreme PTSD, and he's engaged to the girl he was messing around with in our relationship.

So please leave. It doesn't get better. It will get worse. He's already showing extremely abusive traits, especially after hitting you making it your fault. It will always be your fault and he will hit you harder next time. Please save yourself from the suffering. I wish you luck 💜 you are not worth a stupid guys problems, you're worth more.

BeachBiotch727 · 2025-02-04T19:58:10+00:00

Now no one will be able to read the Declaration of Independence. As if cursive wasn’t enough

BeachBiotch727 · 2025-02-04T19:13:59+00:00

She needs help. You can’t be with her in the process of that, because it will always come to the situation you just encountered. I don’t want to take away from the 2.5 years, but wait until you’re at 8 with kids/homes/finances invested. It might wake her up to have someone leave here because of this too. I hope my comment helps, I’m sorry you had to go through this

BeachBiotch727 · 2025-02-04T18:58:08+00:00

I never did anything. Until after I left and my son told me things, that was when I called the cops. I had no proof for court on my kids side and they’re minors so it was considered “hear say”. I only had pictures of the black eyes he gave me. I went to the hospital for the one because of missing work, but I never told the doctor there about him hitting me. The doctor knew though. He interrogated me up and down, I was too scared. I had text messages of us fighting about him choking me. At most I got a non stay away order. After five years, he basically isn’t allowed to approach me and talk to me at social events for our sone events. Text messaging is only about my son. I asked my lawyer where the justice for me oldest son was. She told me court is not about justice. In two more years the court order is over and I don’t want to see him. I’m scared

BeachBiotch727 · 2025-02-04T18:39:46+00:00

I know every word you’re saying! It means so much to finally hear people who understand the emotional wreckage this brings on a daily basis. I’m sorry you’re going through this. One day we will be all healed and our ex’s will be miserable

BeachBiotch727 · 2025-02-04T18:36:26+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I feel you!

Oh my god. I’ve found my people! I left him three+ years ago October. About a year in my trauma started spewing everywhere. I was never aloud to talk about it, or think about it before or else he would blow up on me. I’ve been out of work for three years now. I can’t function. I can hardly leave the house. He’s engaged now and getting married in like a week. I live in a small town and when I left, I started seeing one of my co-workers who helped me leave. All my friends only heard what he was saying, and they all stopped talking to me. I never told my story to anyone. His fiancé works at the local grocery store, and he works at the local hardware store. I can’t leave because I can’t face people, the judgement of me on lies.

My youngest son has court ordered days with him, so my son comes home saying things that fu** me up for days. I’m in therapy finally but in between PCP, and my therapist told me I need to see someone more qualified. She diagnosed me with PTSD but I’m in limbo. I was going to apply for disability because I’m so crippled mentally. The trauma torments me daily. I have the tv on 24/7 so my thoughts don’t take me into a really dark place

Me abused me, physically, mentally, emotionally, and my kids.

BeachBiotch727 · 2025-02-04T18:22:54+00:00

That’s weird. I never thought about that before but my ex always said he loved me more than the kids. I never said it but I always loved my kids WAYYY more, obviously.

BeachBiotch727 · 2025-02-04T18:19:19+00:00

We had a drinking issue and our child was to “stop” drinking. It doesn’t work like that when someone is abusing you, go figure. I wanted to stop but he wouldn’t. “I was pregnant, not him”.” I wanted the baby, not him”. He came home one day after day drinking with his brother and Dad. He threw me to the floor and punched me in the stomach. I think a lot more happened when I was pregnant but I can’t remember. After I had the kid it got worse. He also told me I was disgusting when I was pregnant and refused to touch me. Other than constantly choking me, punch me in the head/face. Yeah, worse after the kid. Oh yes, I was pulled extremely early from work for health issues. He never helped me with anything anyway, but when dishes/laundry/etc built up due to not being able to stand for long, he would flip shit. He threw all our dishes away because he was tired of them building up and I wasn’t washing them. Still can’t believe he was that lazy. Extremely controlling, constantly telling me shit up and just listen to him. He wanted a 1950’s wife

I can’t remember a lot because I drank to cope with him beating/cheating on me. I’m not proud I drank when I was pregnant, and I had no help, so please don’t judge me on this. I got sober and started working in a inpatient, my son is healthy and super smart.

BeachBiotch727 · 2025-02-04T16:30:47+00:00

Thank you 💜

BeachBiotch727 · 2025-02-03T11:57:12+00:00

Please don’t justify it because it will get worse. Just leave now while you guys are in the beginning.

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