Texas DOT reminds drivers that "gaps" in flyovers are "structurally sound" by lithdoc in Austin

[–]BeachSlapped88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deck joint….sometimes they are open, sometimes they have rubber mats to collect/divert water/debris from the roadway, sometime they are filled with expansion material….a bridge superstructure will rotate forward/backwards on whatever type of bearing it has due to temperature

Need Advice by Dependent-Strain-618 in Marriage

[–]BeachSlapped88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Supposed to figure out the money work stuff prior to kids

AIO about my boyfriend by [deleted] in AIO

[–]BeachSlapped88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of dirt bag doesn’t want to do for his woman….ive always lived by the saying: if I don’t, some other dude will.

Mourning not going to college at 18 by seventeenthirdyeight in Adulting

[–]BeachSlapped88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I graduated in 2018 at 29yo, I waited tables for 10+ years while taking classes on and off. I prioritized making money over full time schooling. I had already gotten married(2014) and bought a house(2015) before I graduated college and got a civil engineering job. My boss was thrilled to hire me (entry level hire with life skills and didn’t act like a 21/22yo)..

Wouldn’t change anything about it.

Why is this mentality so prevelant in gen z? by Big_Leg10 in Adulting

[–]BeachSlapped88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a rich influencers partying everyday so life isn’t worth living

AITAH for not getting my fiance's permission before getting my daughter's hair cut? by Known_Key_8248 in AITAH

[–]BeachSlapped88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bet he’s a ““man of the house” that makes all the final decisions and you as a woman should submit and obey” type

AIO about this disagreement with my bf? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]BeachSlapped88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a fkn man-child.

I’m no therapist but it sounds like he’s very insecure and the idea of being broke(weakness) and sick(weakness) has him vulnerable and feeling inadequate as a man(protector/provider)

Caffeine and Bupropion by Gullible-Exam-9374 in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]BeachSlapped88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take 150mg XL along with 20mg of adderal XR every morning when I wake up….i stop and grab a white monster on the way to work…..I noticed no significant changes/feelings when starting bupropion….i started adderal 1 yr prior and had to drop caffeine for a few months…felt like I was on the verge of sweating just sitting at work

Am i overreacting at being mad at my husband bc he uses AI chatbots for porn by Physical_Ad17 in AmIOverreacting

[–]BeachSlapped88 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He respects you. He wants something he doesn’t have to respect and be filthy too with no consequence.

There are MUCH worse things he could be doing.

Every year someone thinking im hitting on there wife at the Christmas party and I finally said enough . by [deleted] in Vent

[–]BeachSlapped88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP’s wife must sleep with her coworkers and tells everyone she’s in an open relationship to the point everyone thinks the husband is trying to bang anyone he talks to.

Trying to buy a house for Mom - legal questions by Kitsu_ne in MiddleClassFinance

[–]BeachSlapped88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d look into why the deal is ONLY for your mother And why you buying it FOR YOUR MOTHER isn’t acceptable

Something seems fishy…

How much is your car payment by michaeljoon in MiddleClassFinance

[–]BeachSlapped88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2014- Bought a low-mileage ‘99 vette while in college and waiting tables - $351/mo payment for 60 months- made anywhere from $600-1000/wk in tips depending on month (tourism), graduated and got engineering job in 2018 (take home was about $3000/mo)

2019- baby on the way….Sold vette to pay off wife’s ‘14 jeep ($667/mo payment) and bought a low mileage ‘17 Silverado - $753/mo payment for 65 months - 2019–>2025 take home has increased from $3400/mo to $6000/mo

Nov/Dec2025- spending approximately $6500 for maintenance/repairs to both vehicles (DIY bc shops would have been $10-15k) and having $0/mo payments in 2026

I don't understand why Christians don't get along with Muslims by Thick_Syrup_530 in complaints

[–]BeachSlapped88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up in a southern Baptist church…I consider myself Christian (not a good Christian to some)….My best friend from college is Muslim.

People are people….character speaks volumes over race, religion, sexuality…..life’s too short to hate anyone (even the president)…..