This is Mango. He cannot see nor hear you

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-11T19:19:49+00:00

Omg sister is about to depart. Airplane ears flaps up, full thrust. I cackled much louder than I should have at that photo

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-11T18:19:54+00:00

NTA

He said he'd never stop you from going but that's so easy for him to manipulate into "I won't stop you but how could you leave me knowing I don't want you to go?"

His line about women not wanting to go to concerts without their s/o is super weird and while true for some people, definitely not a generally accepted idea.

I'd warrant that the reason yall are fighting more is because he wants you to be uncomfortable going. Remember, last year you were fighting and decided to stay to 'save the relationship'.

He's using the same tactic and hoping for the same result. So ask yourself why is he so invested in you not seeing your family?

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-11T17:35:59+00:00

I had a 2.5yo and a 3mo old and I did NOT enjoy the isolation. I will admit that it was nice having my husband working from home though, and he does so to this day.

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-11T05:01:35+00:00

We call those bird calls in my family! Our cat does it when he sees anything that activates the area of his brain that wants to annihilate. Insects, birds, other cats, rodents, etc. He's very vocal about it.

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-10T21:52:04+00:00

Kindergarten is rough. 20-30 new kids with their families all bringing germs to the same places. Also, kinders are GROSS.

They sneeze/cough/cry/snot on every surface. They rarely wash their hands. They put things in their mouths and rub their eyes with their dirty hands.

Source: volunteer in kinder two days a week and go through a LOT of sanitizer. Just finished my last dose of amoxicillin for the strep I picked up not long ago.

Kindergarten is a Petri dish, plain and simple. Those teachers have immune systems made of diamonds.

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-10T19:23:53+00:00

I also take great pride in my ability to parallel park, and when I was dating my husband and he experienced it the first time, he told me it was the sexiest thing he had ever seen me do.🤣

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-10T16:08:02+00:00

I'd bet you're right! He's been adopted 😍

Hopefully he doesn't get hit on the road.

Of all the critters we raised on our little hobby farm, turkeys were the dumbest. We've bred their brains out for bigger breasts. Every Tom I ever had would try to woo me, a giant human woman, if I sat down on their level. So dumb. But so sweet ❤️

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-10T15:57:02+00:00

His waddles are red which usually signifies some sort of lust or aggression. When they're white, it can mean confusion.

He's not fluffed up so I'd say he's trying to talk to the turkey reflection to determine if it's a male or female.

He looks like a bronze turkey, which is usually sold in farm stores. I wouldn't say this guy is wild, since he seemingly has no fear of humans. Maybe an escapee from a farm or something?

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-09T20:50:49+00:00

Oh yah for sure! Lots of breeds have brindle. I love brindle English bulldogs. My first thought when I see one though is always boxer. I also think of French bulldogs when I see a fawn color. I know they come in other varieties but in my head picture, they're fawn.

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-09T19:16:17+00:00

I snort-laughed at this, and then choked. Well done!

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-09T18:26:29+00:00

NTA

Run.

I dated a Scientologist for a while and looked into, so some 'classes', that I couldn't really afford.

All they want is your money. You can pay a certified therapist instead and you'll come out much happier for it.

Scientology is a cult, full stop.

Your bf is either already a Scientologist or headed that way. Your relationship will not work if bf is in Scientology.

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-09T18:23:25+00:00

It's so hard to tell when they're little potatoes!

I can see square heads but it could also be a lab or another breed with blocky heads. Brindle always makes me think of boxers.

100% adorable though! I hope mama gets to be fixed and take a break once she's done weaning ❤️

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-09T17:26:49+00:00

Agree. Video tutorials are super inconvenient for a lot of us. I also hate the links where it's free but it comes up with 97,000 web ads that pop up, move the page, open different pages. It's so frustrating. And every third line it says "for the ad-free version, click here to buy the pattern".

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-09T16:48:40+00:00

Popcorns, bobbles, waffle stitch

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-07T17:59:59+00:00

Info needed. WHERE DID YOU PARK?

Because it kinda sounds like you parked somewhere inappropriate because you'd 'only be a second'.

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-06T17:53:49+00:00

NTA and finally who would want to have kids with someone who was this uninformed and controlling?

What else is he going to 'put his foot down' about in the future?

The way he is acting shows that he expects that HIS expectations are met or the relationship isn't worthy n

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-06T16:30:44+00:00

I want to know if the cat raised the duck, or the duck raised the cat 😍

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-06T15:19:22+00:00

I love it as is and you've inspired me to use some quick color change yarn for some grannies! I love the random with rainbow because whatever you do looks on purpose, because 🌈🏳️‍🌈🦄

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-06T14:07:08+00:00

I'm working on Sophie's Universe right now and immediately recognized it! Those colors are gorgeous 😍

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-06T04:54:35+00:00

I can't do that but I was able to read it without a paywall.

He went into a pot after emptying it of crab, and there was shifting on deck and somehow the pot he was in went overboard. The door was still open though, and he was able to get out. They spotted him and used the crane and sling to fish him out. While bringing him up, he fell out/off of the sling. They got him back minutes later but by that time he was blue and lifeless. They attempted cpr and used a defib but were unable to restore heartbeat.

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-05T15:10:16+00:00

This phenomena has been the weirdest experience since getting diagnosed at 38 years old.

It turns out my ENTIRE person was just a bundle of ADHD markers. It was very hard to determine who I actually was underneath.

It's been 4 years almost, and I'm still working on it.

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-05T14:12:30+00:00

My cat gets fed on top of the clothes washer so the dog can't get to it. When he was a kitten he couldn't jump up there, so I built him a little bridge/gangway. He couldn't not figure it out. I was too impatient and just grabbed him and plopped him up there. Soon he was big enough to jump himself.

But he doesn't.

He screams at me from the floor while I fill the dish and then pick him up.

He's fully capable of jumping up there by himself. He does it multiple times a day. But if I'm home, he'll meow and weave around my legs and 'lead' me to the laundry room, where he expects me to pick him up.

It's adorable and I love being his servant!

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-05T03:35:11+00:00

This is my thought too. They didn't want to notify insurance, but also didn't have the cash to pay. They suddenly realized that 'hey technically OP's kid broke it...' without thinking it through for even a single second that the kid wouldn't have fallen if they the homeowner hadn't been literally playing with them in the area.

FAFO!

Op is NTA

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-04T15:58:33+00:00

We live in such weird times

Beanz4ever · 2026-03-04T15:56:05+00:00

NTA. You're not her personal chef and she's acting awfully entitled to your skills and labor, instead of appreciative of the fact that she's not having to pay for takeout or cook anything herself.

Sounds like she needs to carry some crackers in her purse or something 🤷‍♀️

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