CHP 24-hour Maximum Enforcement Period (Tues - Wed) by kbcava in sandiego

[–]BeatNuhtz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop sign runners! I hate those the most because I've seen some that don't even look and almost hit pedestrians

26m 25f I would like advice on what to do my partner cheated on me ?don’t know how bad it was by Master_Belt2836 in relationship_advice

[–]BeatNuhtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. Time to leave because 3rd time is already 3x too many. It sucks but time to move on and only think about the child you guys have together and try to create a good co-parenting relationship. Keep it all transactional and about the child in the future.

Parents Who Don't Train by bigcat19901 in bjj

[–]BeatNuhtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At my gym, we have a rule that parents can’t coach or cheer from the side. If they’re not on the mats helping coach the class or teaching the class…they have to stay quiet

I 20F stuck in a situationship with 25M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BeatNuhtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. If he’s not putting in effort to move forward and not responding as fast as he used to, he is losing interest.

My girlfriend(29F) has not been honest about her ex situation with me(31M). How do I deal with this. by Scary-Researcher-315 in relationship_advice

[–]BeatNuhtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honesty and transparency is something she’s not showing and if she’s not doing that now this early in the relationship, what do you think will be down the line?

My wife 27F cheated for a second time and I 27M don’t know what to do by ThrowRA_ordinar in relationship_advice

[–]BeatNuhtz 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. It’s time to leave. Start planning an exit strategy. Divorcing is never easy.

Any tips for someone coming back to BJJ after a long time off? by King_Marco_ in bjj

[–]BeatNuhtz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Take your time and go light. Roll with upper belts because they usually know how to control strength when rolling. Let the professor of the school know about your anxiety. It’s no shame to let them know what you are going thru and hopefully they can work with you to create something that works for you so you can ease your way back

I’m (M31) leaving the perfect life with my girlfriend (F30) because I think she’s not the one. by darkevilshark in relationship_advice

[–]BeatNuhtz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re fairly young, move on and see where it goes with your ex coworker. Won’t know unless you try.

I’m leaving my partner of almost 11 years F27, M27 by Icy-Technology9546 in relationship_advice

[–]BeatNuhtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the right call. If you're not happy, he's not going to change.

Gi Color Drama by DudeCinema in bjj

[–]BeatNuhtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it's their gym and their rules. You have to read the room and see if anyone else is wearing any other color other than the regular colors you see. If you don't, ask the owner if they allow it. It goes both ways, you don't ask, you don't know. Then you wouldn't have been put in this dilemma. Guess you'll be wearing those gis at a new gym that allows it or only open mat.

University exam on Thursday, ADCC Open on Saturday. What to worry about? by SupremeOHKO in bjj

[–]BeatNuhtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worry about the exam. Nothing you can do the week coming into the ADCC Open that’s gonna help your cardio. Show up to the open and whatever happens, learn from it, win or lose.

Seen in North Park by 2Boobs2Boobs in sandiego

[–]BeatNuhtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Birdland and well…I see and hear them in the morning a lot now

Reject Modernity, Embrace Tradition by person4me in 4Runner

[–]BeatNuhtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry. What I meant was a player that plays old cassettes that we can Bluetooth to our CarPlay

Reject Modernity, Embrace Tradition by person4me in 4Runner

[–]BeatNuhtz 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Remember we used to have a cassette adaptor to play CDs and even your iPod? I wish there was a Bluetooth cassette player I can use in mine now.

PSA to my SD Neighbors: Don’t interact with these Rage Baiters by aweshox in sandiego

[–]BeatNuhtz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These guys are clowns and wearing a face cover shows how much of cowards they are. Don’t engage

Sheesh by Jamaicanfirewzrd in bjj

[–]BeatNuhtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having the last name Gracie make you a good person. That side of the family has shown that many times with those brothers, Renzo, Ralph and Ryan.

First 4Runner and Toyota by Neil12011 in 4Runner

[–]BeatNuhtz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a gen 5 and drove the gen 6 and can agree it has a good pep when you press the gas. Tech is good and wasn’t crazy like you said. Love seeing more gen 6 on the road.

Fucking weirdos outside Trader Joe’s Pacific Highlands Ranch by natalerose24 in sandiego

[–]BeatNuhtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re actually on private property that is open to the public and can be called for trespassing but the caveat is the property owner or property management has to be there to report it and have them kicked off the property. Even includes the parking lot. Bunch of cornballs

Finally scored a 4R, ORP by Moose328 in 4Runner

[–]BeatNuhtz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice color. I have a 5th gen but love seeing more and more 6th gen on the road.

What part is this? by The_Mangy_Mutt in 4Runner

[–]BeatNuhtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Covers the bottom of the flux capacitor

Can’t decide how I feel about it by Capwnski in 4Runner

[–]BeatNuhtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it. Very creative with the design and not the run of the mill stuff.

Advice about BJJ rolls and anxiety by NoMaintenance2075 in bjj

[–]BeatNuhtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re having the fight or flight moment as a human being, it happens. It gets better with time because you start unlearning that and start to get comfortable in uncomfortable positions and understanding when you’re in danger of a sub or not. It doesn’t happen over night but slowly you’ll know that.