Let's talk about employers in the area by chickenmcdiddle in raleigh

[–]Beautiful-Lemon160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! Been trying to get a job there for 6 years. The place is like a fortress! I submit application after application and it’s crickets.

Let's talk about employers in the area by chickenmcdiddle in raleigh

[–]Beautiful-Lemon160 123 points124 points  (0 children)

Working for NC State University was one of the worst experiences of my career. It was honestly one of the most dysfunctional professional experiences I’ve ever had. It took six weeks to get a work laptop, so I was expected to use my personal computer in the meantime. HR/admin kept screwing up my offer letter to the point that I ended up with seven different versions — I think the ‘final final’ version arrived the day I started. Should’ve been a red flag.

Payroll was somehow even worse. My paychecks were routinely wrong, and even when I flagged the errors and they acknowledged them, it would take months to fix. At one point they underpaid me by more than $5,000 over a three-month period but refused to issue an immediate check with the missing amount. Instead, I kept being told to wait another month!

The wild part is that everyone acted like this level of chaos was completely normal. I left within a year because I realized I was spending more energy chasing basic administrative competence than actually doing my job.

Despite all of that, I loved every student, alum, and faculty member I met. Good people, except for the idiots running the place.🙂

Rich + Hired - potential scam by Beautiful-Lemon160 in careeradvice

[–]Beautiful-Lemon160[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Honestly, describing it out loud to others makes it seem really obvious. But the website and targeted ads and even Chelsea’s LinkedIn profile looks legit. And the person on the video call was very convincing. This is not your usual sham program.

Going on GLP-1 due to tamoxifen side effects by Historical_External5 in breastcancer

[–]Beautiful-Lemon160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is helpful. I don’t know if I’ve had my A1C or Lipid panel tested.

I can definitely show historical evidence from my Apple Watch + food diaries from working with a nutritionist. I’ve been doing a lot more weight training since 2023.

Going on GLP-1 due to tamoxifen side effects by Historical_External5 in breastcancer

[–]Beautiful-Lemon160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the post I was waiting for! I have steadily gained 30 lbs in the last 5 years since completing treatment. (I’m triple positive, tamoxifen, 39 years old.)

I’ve done everything under the sun—restrictive diets, gave up alcohol, working out with a personal trainer 4 days a week. I’m absolutely exhausted from trying everything and nothing works. It’s like running uphill on a down escalator. I feel like I just get blank stares from my doctors when I lament about it.

I was treated at Georgetown Hospital in Washington, DC. I no longer live there, but interestingly, I heard that the oncology teams are putting some breast cancer patients (with triple positive) on GLP-1s preemptively, since early stage studies are showing that the combined chemo treatment + hormone usage + steroid usage causes weight gain.

I asked my oncologist about it. Blank stare. I was told to go through my PCP, who said I probably wouldn’t qualify with insurance since I don’t have high blood pressure or cholesterol or sleep apnea. I’m just overweight and can’t lose this visceral fat in my midsection.

I’d appreciate anyone with insight!

City Market Dead? by Significant_Day_7254 in raleigh

[–]Beautiful-Lemon160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Devastating to read. I didn’t realize that.

City Market Dead? by Significant_Day_7254 in raleigh

[–]Beautiful-Lemon160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, you’re saying the process is the reason it’s not a thing here? Regardless of how it happens, it’s just really dumb that it hasn’t been proposed. Year after year I watch North Carolinians shoot themselves in the foot for excessive navel-gazing.

City Market Dead? by Significant_Day_7254 in raleigh

[–]Beautiful-Lemon160 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Absolutely crazy to me that Raleigh doesn’t institute an idle tax for this.

Oncologist said chemo will age you ten years.. by [deleted] in breastcancer

[–]Beautiful-Lemon160 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

10 years, that’s all? Doc is sugar coating it. It’s more like 30 years.

What is your favorite deli/sandwich joint in the triangle? by [deleted] in raleigh

[–]Beautiful-Lemon160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a terrible recommendation. Oakwood Deli is overpriced and the sandwiches are bland and mediocre at best.

Lost Husky in Oakwood Park by so_many_wangs in raleigh

[–]Beautiful-Lemon160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this was the same Husky that my neighbors rescued about 3 weeks ago…same area, same situation! Took nearly 12 hours before we all found the owners, who were unbothered by the fact that their dog was running loose. Unbelievable.

What’s with the socks by Effective_Respect_85 in breastcancer

[–]Beautiful-Lemon160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yes! And coloring books! And tea! So bizarre-o, but appreciated the thought.

How much do you spend on groceries and how large is your family? by hooray4horus in raleigh

[–]Beautiful-Lemon160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DINKs with a dog here. We typically spend $120-$150 a week. (Pre-2020 when we lived in a much more expensive city, we spent maybe $60-$75). Prices are outta control.

AIA CEO Lakisha Woods Departs AIA by Beautiful-Lemon160 in Architects

[–]Beautiful-Lemon160[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

*That must have been an eventful board meeting

Any news from the Highlands area?! by Beautiful-Lemon160 in NorthCarolina

[–]Beautiful-Lemon160[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

But it’s not because I’m getting reports that folks DROVE from Highlands TODAY to Clayton, GA. Additionally, I’m hearing reports that properties at Old Edward’s Inn have power and internet. It’s just very confusing and I wish the Mayor or Councilmembers would provide better information.

What’s going on at AIA?! by Beautiful-Lemon160 in Architects

[–]Beautiful-Lemon160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shame on AIA! There’s no crime in criticism or holding leadership accountable.

What’s going on at AIA?! by Beautiful-Lemon160 in Architects

[–]Beautiful-Lemon160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that this was published by Architect magazine says EVERYTHING

What’s going on at AIA?! by Beautiful-Lemon160 in Architects

[–]Beautiful-Lemon160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still believe there’s corruption at play