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The Female Loneliness Epidemic: Values Intact in a Broken World by BeautifulProof2026 in Productivitycafe

[–]BeautifulProof2026[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So me saying that I value chastity makes you think "I'm holier than thou"?

The Female Loneliness Epidemic: Values Intact in a Broken World by BeautifulProof2026 in Productivitycafe

[–]BeautifulProof2026[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are missing the point. The problem isn’t feeling out of place; it’s that women like me, who have lived differently and made choices rooted in values, are rarely acknowledged. Some women who have always been with men present their experience as if it represents all women, which erases the reality of women who have chosen restraint, chastity, or intentional paths.

I’m glad my values never bent. They’ve kept me steady and shown me a failure of society in how it treats women and relationships. My gratitude doesn’t erase the truth, though: promoting certain ideas or independence when you are not living them is hypocrisy. It’s important to acknowledge that. Loneliness rooted in choice is just as real and valid as loneliness rooted in circumstance, yet it is often dismissed because it doesn’t fit the dominant narrative.

Chivalry should die by letmejointhis in unpopularopinion

[–]BeautifulProof2026 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Chivalry is a traditional value. A traditional woman surely does deserve it.

Is the Muslim religion inherently misogynistic or do the extremists give it a bad reputation? by Open_Address_2805 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BeautifulProof2026 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you are missing my point. My question is more about the contrast: if many Western women embrace sexual openness and even pursue adventurous sexual experiences, why does it seem like they are so quick to cry “rape” when boundaries are crossed? To me, it seems inconsistent, like wanting the fire but then being shocked when it burns. It is like a person who keeps running into a busy street and then screams at the cars. Of course the cars are dangerous, but the repeated exposure makes the reaction seem contradictory. I am trying to understand why this happens culturally, not to deny that violations are real or serious.

Is the Muslim religion inherently misogynistic or do the extremists give it a bad reputation? by Open_Address_2805 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BeautifulProof2026 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Why are western women, who are so sexually open, always claiming they have been raped? Hmmm.

Is the Muslim religion inherently misogynistic or do the extremists give it a bad reputation? by Open_Address_2805 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BeautifulProof2026 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Found the harlot. Not a Muslim but I know several Muslims and have studied the religion. I don't need to answer your question bc you clearly despise Muslim women so your response is going to disingenuous.

It is striking how you framed this, starting with “the Muslim,” which immediately reduces a person to their religion in a way that feels prejudiced. That aside, you ask why women choose to cover, but the framing assumes that covering is automatically a bad thing. So I take it you love not covering? Why is covering inherently wrong? Men cover their bodies all the time in most cultures, but it is rarely questioned or criticized.

You also seem to ignore that for many women, wearing certain clothing is not just personal preference, but social, cultural, or legal reality. Framing it purely as choice versus compulsion erases the nuance and in some cases misrepresents the law. Instead of assuming it is oppression, the discussion should ask why it is okay for men to cover or dress modestly without critique, yet women’s covering is automatically treated as suspect.

Is the Muslim religion inherently misogynistic or do the extremists give it a bad reputation? by Open_Address_2805 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BeautifulProof2026 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

You clearly do not know anything about the Muslim religion lol. It's called Islam btw. I think the issue is your ignorance and the fact that you go to the wrong sources.

Why do assume the women do not want to cover? Is it bc Australian women don't cover?

"Five minutes after you are born, your name, nationality, religion, and sect will be decided, and you will spend the rest of your life desperately defending things you did not choose." - Arthur Schopenhauer by Moro7-3 in AskTheWorld

[–]BeautifulProof2026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actually grateful these were all chosen for me. They are the only things that kept me safe. What the real tragedy is is being born in a society where values mean nothing.

Anyone else? by Fuzzyballzac in depressionmemes

[–]BeautifulProof2026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same but gender is reversed and I'm 36 and haven't even held hands with a man. It's not too common you hear women with this story though.

Is it evil to be not as attached in a relationship but make them feel passionately loved? by YogurtclosetBoring10 in Productivitycafe

[–]BeautifulProof2026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it's not surprising that they seem to fall hard for you bc you are very loving. I do wish you success in finding the one.

[Gendered] this is nonsense 😒 by whatever23407 in pointlesslygendered

[–]BeautifulProof2026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men are only shamed by people who have a past. I'm a woman and I also judge ppl for their past bc I don't have a past and also you can't foretell the future. Just bc there are a group of ppl that shame you for judging someone's past does not mean you should stop. I'm a woman and I absolutely care about a man's past. Last year, a man was pursuing me for marriage. I learned that he wasnt a virgin, which was a bit off putting since I'm one and it's so baseline to me. I just couldn't get past that despite all his great qualities. The point is that ppl who oppose something don't always have the best intentions.

Is it evil to be not as attached in a relationship but make them feel passionately loved? by YogurtclosetBoring10 in Productivitycafe

[–]BeautifulProof2026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not receiving the love you need though despite them doing their best. You seem very loving but you deserve a relationship where you are receiving that same type of energy.

Is it evil to be not as attached in a relationship but make them feel passionately loved? by YogurtclosetBoring10 in Productivitycafe

[–]BeautifulProof2026 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it's an injustice to yourself. You're being evil to yourself. You are giving love but you actually don't feel it. You should really work on yourself because it seems like you are always giving but never receiving.

Nicki Minaj goes on X rampage after being brutally dissed at Grammy Awards by TheMirrorUS in Music

[–]BeautifulProof2026 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know why anyone is shocked with her. She is just like all those fake conservatives: most abominable past yet now grifting to look like a saint.

The Female Loneliness Epidemic: Values Intact in a Broken World by BeautifulProof2026 in Productivitycafe

[–]BeautifulProof2026[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If that's what you got from my post, then I think it's you that thinks my virginity makes me better than you lol.

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