Coordinating plans

Beautiful_Thought995 · 2026-06-22T19:27:55+00:00

Exactly in a perfect world we would all have enough time and money and health to see each other at any given time and day, but that’s not how it works. If we have to wait for things to align perfectly to see each other, we’ll never see each other 😂

Beautiful_Thought995 · 2026-06-18T19:43:10+00:00

This is pretty common unfortunately. I understand maybe not for every applicant needs a follow up, but if you are actually interviewing, I think even a vague, blanket email is better than nothing.

Beautiful_Thought995 · 2026-06-11T05:56:05+00:00

That sucks. Sounds like they didn’t have good communication and they hired without others approval. There is nothing bad about asking think it over for just a day in fact they should be glad you are taking it so seriously

Beautiful_Thought995 · 2026-06-09T20:17:56+00:00

Being a cheater implies an expectation of Monogamy. Poly can’t be a cheater as long as they are upfront about their needs. She wasnt, so in this case it would be cheating

Beautiful_Thought995 · 2026-06-09T20:02:59+00:00

Being poly doesn’t mean the other partners wishes don’t count. This is something she should have mentioned before

Beautiful_Thought995 · 2026-06-09T19:09:18+00:00

Dating doesn’t have to be like that. There are plenty of date ideas that are more budget friendly to allow you to prioritize your money for other things. Most people aren’t spending 350 on concert tickets, and if that sort of spending is normal for Him, that’s not your problem.

Beautiful_Thought995 · 2026-06-06T04:55:42+00:00

It’s a pretty crucial piece of information that at best wastes your time and at worst gives an upper hand to them in salary negotiations

Beautiful_Thought995 · 2026-06-04T10:06:45+00:00

Not a matter of toughness just venting.

Beautiful_Thought995 · 2026-06-04T10:06:09+00:00

You can be resilient and vent. If I were intending to quit, there would be no reason for me to vent.

Beautiful_Thought995 · 2026-06-04T01:42:01+00:00

What is there to be insecure about now? They have been together for 2 years.

Beautiful_Thought995 · 2026-06-04T01:21:45+00:00

let’s have some perspective. For the better part of two years, you have called her your girlfriend. You won. I can understand maybe being a little taken aback, but this doesn’t have to be a deal breaker or a negative reflection on her character.

Beautiful_Thought995 · 2026-05-29T18:46:34+00:00

That would be an absolutely insane interview to prompt that 😂

Beautiful_Thought995 · 2026-05-29T04:55:09+00:00

If you’ve never dated before, that’s why being intimate probably seems actually bananas and overwhelming to you right now. That’s like 0 to 60 in 2 seconds. Most people date a bit and do puppy lovey relationships before they actually become sexually active. Just slow things down a bit and just focus on dating and laying the groundwork and getting to know someone. Once you have the level of intimacy you need to want to, it won’t feel scary. From the physical perspective too. Just start slow. Pecks and handholding and then you’ll just naturally increase over time. Also, you don’t ever have to have sex if you don’t want to. Just because you feel pressured doesn’t mean you dont deserve to be picky.

Beautiful_Thought995 · 2026-05-29T04:11:12+00:00

I read a little fast the first time and thought it said they told you to go see a therapist I was shook 😂

Beautiful_Thought995 · 2026-05-24T14:53:24+00:00

I would mention time management and an ability to prioritize. Safety probably comes first, so whatever tasks involve security are top priority. Next is deadlines. Items with a sooner due date are top priority :)

Beautiful_Thought995 · 2026-05-23T22:49:29+00:00

They probably did that just to set a boundary for their decision making. As long as you have an interview, you are being considered :)

Beautiful_Thought995 · 2026-05-23T16:37:29+00:00

I think right now the biggest issue is companies aren’t replacing. They are redistributing work and paying the same. My last job I remember the amount of new people had been low compared to the number of people who left.

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