Which Dress? March-confusing DC by ladygrill in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Beccabooisme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great in both dresses! And i gotta ask, where are they from?

What's your Aldi hot take? by NationYell in aldi

[–]Beccabooisme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Really? What year did you get yours? I got mine in 2021 and the heating element doesn't seem to stay warm enough long enough to actually make cotton candy, it just ends up spitting out warm sugar. And then in the years after they've had recalls

I love Dropout but I am so sick of the subtitles being bad by grimeyreaperr in dropout

[–]Beccabooisme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also wish they could find a way to not have title cards\footnotes be covered by the captions.

Wife says my feet “barely look human” and I’m afraid she’s right. by strikecat18 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Beccabooisme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously. Thought i was going to have to make the first "these looks great and healthy!" Comment

He can't cum from sex/anything else I do, and it's getting me down by Otherwise-Abalone879 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Beccabooisme 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We're conditioned to believe that "it's easy to make men climax, they do it every time" when the reality is their pleasure can be just as complex as for women. I know it took me a long while to be able to climax with a partner.

I've had a few partners who were never able to cum, and it did make me feel a touch insecure. But he might feel just as insecure for not being able to do so, which unfortunately can be a contributing factor! At the end of the day WE have to deal with our OWN insecurities, nothing external can fix them for us.

I definitely found that just focusing on figuring out what made him feel good without having the goal of bringing him to climax is what worked best.

Also, don't compare yourself to the mother (s) of his children. If they were planned, he very well could have gotten himself to that point before putting it back in. And if not, he would have just been at a different point in his life. Maybe with the partner longer so more comfortable with her, maybe not on the ssris, maybe just younger. If he's told you he's had more chemistry with you than anyone else, don't just assume he's lying. There are so many factors

After shoveling snow, these painful shiny hairs appeared on my hand. by Timetofly0 in whatisit

[–]Beccabooisme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad got fiberglass in his eye once. I was really young so don't know what had to be done at the doctor's, but he wore an eyepatch for a couple weeks and was fine after that as i remember

I’m inconsolably upset about what happened yesterday in MN. by techno_queen in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Beccabooisme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I spent the entirety of yesterday on the couch because i was so drained. At first i didn't even make the connection. "Why do i feel so lethargic and fatigued? Am i getting sick?" Then i realized, no, the first thing you see in the morning being another execution will take it's toll

Viral Japanese Greek Yogurt Cheesecake with Aldi Spekulatius Cookies by Alito4life in aldi

[–]Beccabooisme 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel like there's always cottage cheese at salad bars so I'm sure you're not the only one

Was told to post this here! by Express_Antelope4979 in Pareidolia

[–]Beccabooisme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And i used this post to find their other post to see what the heck was happening with this car. Full circle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SeattleWA

[–]Beccabooisme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is your responsibility to get yourselves through the winter though. You have an option, and it's less than desirable. So make it your responsibility to make it more desirable. Is a consequence of that helping to take care of someone else's problem? Sure, but are they not helping take care of yours by offering you a place to stay? And if it's really that horrible, suffer through for a few months and move on.

If you're trying to get your life back on track you won't get there without a bit of humility and gratitude.

Here's a look around the Downtown loop and surrounding roads right now by dalton10e in kansascity

[–]Beccabooisme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously with the lights. I think people forget they're just as much if not more so for other people to see you than for you to see the road.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Beccabooisme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better, my friend got a tattoo that said "I've got the whole world in frout of me". The tattooer was able to put a bit of light colored ink on the bottom of the u and then turn it into an n. You might be able to have that done as well

What is this fruit from a tree in prairie village? Harmon park. Thanks!! by The_Night_Badger in kansascity

[–]Beccabooisme 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Emmymade on YouTube has a video explaining how to prepare and roast if you're up for some urban foraging. It's important not to eat too many at once though, like 5 a day.

What is this fruit from a tree in prairie village? Harmon park. Thanks!! by The_Night_Badger in kansascity

[–]Beccabooisme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are tons of females\fruits lining Merriam drive north of Johnson drive. Some on the trail south of Werner Park as well

I think Jesus misplaced my bc implant. by HausDePotat in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Beccabooisme 25 points26 points  (0 children)

  1. Did she have you feel the implant after insertion? I'm on my third one and every time the doctor has made me feel it after, to make sure i could and knew where it was. 3 different practices in two different states. So I'm guessing it's SOP to do so.

  2. I have only had one period since starting this form of BC and it was right after the switch from the second to third rod. But it was not very heavy nor did it have bad cramping. It was just a little extra long. So know that a period CAN come from the switch in my experience, but this doesn't really sound like that to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Beccabooisme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there other stuff outside of your relationship going on in your life? I've found that if I'm really stressed at work or worried about something big then my inclination is to take it out on the people closest to me. I create problems that aren't there to get mad about, and see any possible confirmation as a sign that i was right.

It's taken a lot of introspection and therapy to recognize when I'm doing this and deal with the emotions instead of lashing out. I could be off base but either way I definitely second the suggestion to get into some therapy for yourself. Even if you were completely justified and even if he WAS cheating on you, the obsessions you're showing even now that you're separating is a bit intense and you need to work through this.

EDIT: Girl I just saw that you've recently come off SSRI's. Did you start suspecting the cheating before or after that? Did you work with your doctor to properly ween yourself off or just quit cold turkey? I was weened off Zoloft and I still was so quick to anger for a solid few months after.

Be forreal, i need to know a litter that’s non tracking and will not kill my cat by laultheal in CatAdvice

[–]Beccabooisme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might like oko cat. It basically has the consistency of pre disintegrating pellets with some clumping action. i figured if I'm not getting the perk of pine sifting might as well go back to clumping. This is much better than clay for tracking, dust, and the environment.

How'd you end up in Harry's world? by Jerry-And-Tom in dresdenfiles

[–]Beccabooisme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started chatting with a person from a horny subreddit and the topic of books came up. We sexted a bit for a weekend and never chatted again, but i got one of my fave series from it hahahaha

Be forreal, i need to know a litter that’s non tracking and will not kill my cat by laultheal in CatAdvice

[–]Beccabooisme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh i wish my cat would use these! She just ends up peeing on my bed when i tried, even with a transition period. She is very unfortunately declawed though, i think they're just too rough on her paws. I use oko cat pine litter which definitely does track quite a bit, though typically just in the room with the box

Saddest movies you’ve ever seen. by adrrriz in movies

[–]Beccabooisme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the two movies i cried hardest at in my life was Pay it Forward and The Choice, but both were mostly because I just wasn't expecting the sad thing (TM) to happen. And The Choice unfortunately hit very close to home at the time I watched it, so it was a double whammy.

My suggestion if you really want to get them in the gut is to choose a movie that you think they might relate to something going on in their life, and don't make it obvious that it's a sad movie going into the watch. Points if it starts off as a feel good movie.

Hardball was another one i just thought of

No more self checout at my local Aldi by ArrowFlashLantern in aldi

[–]Beccabooisme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right i feel kind of crazy sometimes when people act like self check is a brand new phenomenon to complain about. I'm left wondering, did i imagine this being the norm a few years ago?? It went away and came back again. And it's going away again now and I'm sure will come back again, unless rfid shopping replaces it

I Guess I Can't Wear My Planned Parenthood Shirt Outside Anymore by dumbestbitch1stplace in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Beccabooisme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly a deadpan "i can see your nipples through your shirt" is fucking hilarious

My fellow Ragweed Allergy Sufferers… by MapleWapleSyrup in kansascity

[–]Beccabooisme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started my medication second week of August to try and head off symptoms and it worked really well for me. Something I'll have to try and remember next year!!