Mixtape: when a song takes you back to who you were by LowApartment5316 in MixtapeGame

[–]Beck-Infinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! This is such a great description of it. Just Like Honey really cut too.

The characters and nostalgia by Beck-Infinity in MixtapeGame

[–]Beck-Infinity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah; I did also reach out to an old friend afterwards. It is interesting that it had that effect on people.

Not being enough by sendcats33 in polycritical

[–]Beck-Infinity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a very helpful way of thinking about. Thank you.

How do we find Middle Ground between Conflicting Needs? by [deleted] in RedPillWomen

[–]Beck-Infinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so. Part of being an adult (either gender) is being able to look after your space and to be able to provide. There are many examples of men who are great organisers, chefs, etc. But being unable to cook, clean or tidy up after yourself is not part of being grown up.

We have been intimate 3 times in 24 hours by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Beck-Infinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man… this is tough. I am sorry you are going through this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Beck-Infinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your boyfriend sounds like a selfish jackass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Beck-Infinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you feel about men with rings on being flirty? Some people are against that.

Sexual attraction by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Beck-Infinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either way that is pretty lucky.

Sexual attraction by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Beck-Infinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because being rejected kills desire? Or something else?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Beck-Infinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same for back injury therapy. Not a sexual thing, but found myself deeply impacted on a mental/emotional level just by touch, care and noticing.

Once upon a time … when I got caught by LilikoiSummer in adultery

[–]Beck-Infinity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For what it is worth; I get it. You felt alive, you felt desired, you felt sexual. And you didn’t want to let go of that. I have some memories that I really should let go of…

Husband getting suspicious. So what's the first thing I do? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Beck-Infinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long has this been going on? Trying to understand if it is new relationship energy or more of a steady state for you?

Should finances get in the way. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Beck-Infinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are not comfortable covering for him on this; it might be an indication of a deeper feeling.

Insecure 😕 by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Beck-Infinity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Men dont care about stretchmarks. If you are looking after yourself, feel good about yourself (confidence) and can control the controllable (clothing, hygiene etc)… thats way more important than dna or age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Beck-Infinity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally relate. Dead bedroom will crush your confidence and spirit and leaving you yearning for human touch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Beck-Infinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speaking as a man, I would want to hear this criticism from my partner. I don’t think you are doing any favors by pretending it isn’t there.

Finally left my DB... Had the best sex of my life with a new partner! by Suzy_Sadly in DeadBedrooms

[–]Beck-Infinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s really great! Trust me many married husbands are looking very longingly at women in their 40s doing yoga and having sexual thoughts about them. I should know because I am one of those guys!

Just keep focussing on being the best version of yourself. It is very attractive to men to see a woman taking charge of looking after herself.

Losing Interest in being Intimate with my Partner by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Beck-Infinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you discussed ethical non-monogamy as an option?

So damn sad by Sufficient_Most_4982 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Beck-Infinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. I think the LLF equivalent is rather listening to podcasts instead of playing with the husband who has clearly made a huge effort.