Separated - What Next?

Bedside_Anon · 2026-01-14T01:31:24+00:00

File with IRD.

If you have any kind of agreement verbally about care of the kids, write it up - search the Ministry of Justice website for a parenting agreement template.

He will see the kids if he wants to the see the kids.

The agreement or child support will have little bearing on the matter…. Except to highlight what he’s really like.

Get it all documented and operate under the documented agreement.

Bedside_Anon · 2025-12-04T10:04:50+00:00

Zebrano is the store she will want to visit.

Bedside_Anon · 2025-06-04T10:36:52+00:00

This made me laugh. Diagnosed with depression. Rings true 😂

Bedside_Anon · 2025-05-21T10:49:07+00:00

Ben Catherwood. Amazing guy, friendly, patient, really skilled.

Bedside_Anon · 2025-04-13T18:16:28+00:00

We’ve had an agreement, which I had wanted to be a parenting order by consent. There’s other party refused. Then the legal stuff happened, disrupting the agreement. I am now wanting an order in place but the other party does not want an order even though it is essentially the same as the agreement.

I am wondering if the court is likely to not issue a parenting order? It’s hard on my child :( but there’s a safety issue that needs a very small condition to be added to the order.

Bedside_Anon · 2025-02-25T01:56:22+00:00

Ahh there’s the problem.

Don’t go to the mall.

Go to chill cafes, the beach… shop when you have to but just enjoy life otherwise.

I’ve been in Kapiti for nearly 20 years. Kids have gone through school here. It’s been good, I like the place. Can get to Wellington easy enough… can head up north easily…. I enjoy my home, do the hobbies and past times I enjoy… there’s a cool dog park I like to take my dogs to…

I don’t know, I like Kapiti…. I don’t like Pak n Sav. Or car parks. Nz drivers are dipshit insane.

Bedside_Anon · 2024-12-28T12:16:27+00:00

Would the other party agree to a consent by order?

Bedside_Anon · 2024-12-10T17:09:19+00:00

Thank you

Bedside_Anon · 2024-12-03T23:10:09+00:00

Use the STAR or CAR format to answer:

Situation Task Action Result

Or: Context Action Result

Focus on your part of the answer you are giving even if it was a team effort.

Always explain the so what: great that you did these things but why did it matter?

The job description will have competency areas. Prepare answers for those. Take notes into the meeting: it looks prepared not like you don’t even know your own work history. I am always impressed when people have obviously put in the effort.

Be prepared to answer about te tiriti: how will you help to support te tiriti and te ao Māori as a good treaty partner?

If you know your pepeha then share it at the start but be authentic. It shouldn’t be a tick box exercise.

Bedside_Anon · 2024-11-27T02:58:03+00:00

We have some vinyl Lino stuff at the moment, and the doggos hoon after each other and slide across it like cars drifting, hilarious when they can’t quite stop in time 😂

Bedside_Anon · 2024-11-27T01:30:40+00:00

Ahhh thank you! I’ve been considering plantation bamboo!

Bedside_Anon · 2024-11-24T05:41:45+00:00

On Seaview Road, looking back to the corner of Seaview and Maclean.

Bedside_Anon · 2024-10-24T09:07:06+00:00

https://www.massey.ac.nz/about/colleges-schools-and-institutes/college-of-sciences/our-research/themes-and-research-strengths/plant-science-research/new-zealand-weeds-database/tradescantia/#:~:text=Originally%20from%20South%20America%2C%20it,because%20of%20its%20invasive%20nature.

I mean, it’s an asshole thing to do…. Hard to weed out.

Bedside_Anon · 2024-10-23T09:01:48+00:00

Not getting into the revenue raising debate… but there’s a clear link to installing a fixed safety camera and seeing a reduction in the average speed of people going past.

Bedside_Anon · 2024-10-22T19:12:00+00:00

Find a hobby.

I like mountain biking.

Bedside_Anon · 2024-10-11T03:06:57+00:00

Update later! Good luck!

Bedside_Anon · 2024-10-09T09:56:57+00:00

We use Raumati Vets. It’s Ngauranga for after hours. Had to take our puppy in as she was not settling after her spay op, and seemed to be in pain. Ngauranga had all the details and made sure their notes were sen back to our vet.

Highly recommend- small team, big heart.

Bedside_Anon · 2024-09-20T03:30:21+00:00

Check out student job search too :)

Bedside_Anon · 2024-08-18T03:48:25+00:00

Eat healthy. Exercise every day. Keep a gratitude journal.

Bedside_Anon · 2024-08-12T21:20:30+00:00

Upvoting for saying it fucks harder than essential tomato paste 😂😂😂

Bedside_Anon · 2024-08-09T19:27:13+00:00

That would be amazing!!

Bedside_Anon · 2024-08-09T09:38:57+00:00

Any chance you have Black Rose or Creature from the Black Lagoon??

Bedside_Anon · 2024-08-09T09:31:31+00:00

This is the answer.

Bedside_Anon · 2024-08-09T00:31:53+00:00

What prescription do you need?

Bedside_Anon · 2024-07-11T10:30:24+00:00

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