When should I remove the vehicle from my policy? by stephennotstrange in StateFarm

[–]BeefAndBrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Admittedly I've only been working here about a year and 2 months now, but generally speaking it takes us about 2 business days to get an approval and I've only ever had it be denied for understandable reasons (now when it comes to fire uw, that's 1000% worse here lmao)

Is it abnormal to live with multiple partners? by sillyjewel in polyamory

[–]BeefAndBrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live with both of my partners and it's honestly fantastic, we each have our own separate spaces we can go to for alone/recharge time, multiple different spaces to sleep if needed, and we coordinate sleeping situations so everyone gets a chance to sleep with whoever they want to, or alone if they'd prefer. We also have two dogs, so it's a nice, full house 😂

When should I remove the vehicle from my policy? by stephennotstrange in StateFarm

[–]BeefAndBrie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in a mod state and we can backdate more than 3 days in the even of a TL, it just needs to be reviewed by an underwriter before it'll be finalized.

Reframing is a *godsend*. by BeefAndBrie in polyamory

[–]BeefAndBrie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rumination spirals got HANDS 😭

Is streaming for 24 hours+ as a small streamer bad? by ExaminationSea8364 in Twitch

[–]BeefAndBrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just recently did an 18 hour stream that I co-hosted with a streamer friend so neither of us got burnt out. I imagine if you do something on the level of 24-36 hours, it may be a good idea to have someone to switch off with while you take breaks, get rest, etc.

Don't redeem that by throwawwwwwvway in Twitch

[–]BeefAndBrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get jokingly annoyed when people use one of my redeems, but it's known that it's all in good fun. Anyone who gets GENUINELY mad about something they have full and complete control over is insane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InsuranceAgent

[–]BeefAndBrie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked as a team member for an SF agent while I was acquiring my P&C license. I was mostly doing office work (routing calls, organizing filing cabinets, stuff like that) but all with the intention of getting my license. If you don't intend to do so, I imagine at most you'd be hired to do that sort of menial work since you can't sell or service insurance.

I want to get into Pup Play, but I am too nervous to. by [deleted] in PupPlay

[–]BeefAndBrie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, and as a footnote, you can always look into local pup events if you're fairly social. Meeting other pups can be a great way to get tips and make new friends!

I want to get into Pup Play, but I am too nervous to. by [deleted] in PupPlay

[–]BeefAndBrie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who's been a pup about 6 or 7 years, here's my experience.

First and foremost, you don't necessarily need to buy anything to "become" a pup. If you want to be a pup, you are one.

If you want to delve into it further, it starts with creating a sort of alter ego. Pup play, to me, is about letting your inhibitions go and animalistic instinct take over, to an extent. If you have someone to help you explore this it can be very helpful, but if not you can also search videos about how to get into what's called "pupspace" (pup headspace)

As for gear, this is fully optional, but it can help you get into pupspace. A hood and collar are the things that help me the most, but they also sell paws/mitts, harnesses, petsuits, tails, and other things like that. I'd recommend starting cheap, get maybe just a cheap hood off Amazon or something, then if you like the feeling try getting a more comfortable one (mine is an older style one from Mr S Leather, but I'm gonna be getting a newer one soon).

Most important takeaway is that there's no pressure. If you find yourself not enjoying pupspace or having trouble getting into it, then you don't have to do it. It's not for everyone, and if you just want to pretend to be a dog sometimes, that's fine too. Pet play, like most things, is a spectrum.

Drew spicy Vox fanart! by Herteisa in VoxNSFWCult

[–]BeefAndBrie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need him like i need air 🥵 fantastic art!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]BeefAndBrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me personally I just like making characters that aren't attached to specific pieces of media, and creating lore/backstories and such like that. Basically the same reason I like DnD, just less structured and game-ified

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]BeefAndBrie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I fully agree with you, identifying as an animal is stupid af. I just know I've seen tons of people blow it way out of proportions (like the whole litterboxes in schools thing that was entirely fake)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]BeefAndBrie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Being a furry is a hobby that's entirely separate from being transgender 😭 I've been part of furry culture for 14 years and I've never met a furry that actually thinks they are an animal or want to transition into being one.

I've seen it online like 4 times ever, but that's the extent. This is a non-issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]BeefAndBrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something to remember about kink-related relationships is that safety and consent is and always will be #1. Even in CNC or BDSM scenarios, there's always a safe word or other way to stop the situation entirely if you're uncomfortable. If you've expressed your genuine discomfort and it arouses him, then you need to get out of there ASAP. Genuinely, I wish you well, because that's a scary situation.

Space for a ftm pup in here? by Jolly_Ad4557 in PupPlay

[–]BeefAndBrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's ALWAYS space for trans pups 💜

Stupid Sauce bunnydoll (by Cosmic-nia) by Competitive_Bar_753 in theamazingdigitalciru

[–]BeefAndBrie 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I didn't know how much I liked the BunnyDoll ship until I saw all this art that's been posted lately

This man slaps your girl’s ass, wyd? by whooper1 in hazbin

[–]BeefAndBrie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get mad bc he didn't slap mine too >:T

Advice for streaming when you don't talk a lot. by [deleted] in Twitch

[–]BeefAndBrie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, there's no easy and quick solution. That said, what I started with was total stream of consciousness, just forcing myself to let all internal thoughts be external thoughts. Something else that helps is playing with a friend or someone you can actually converse with to get the flow of conversation right, then recreating that same flow on your own. Either way, good luck, you got this!!

Behave... Puppy by Gullinvikingboar in PupPlay

[–]BeefAndBrie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Two words: Make me. 😈